{"id":9741,"date":"2017-07-17T13:41:15","date_gmt":"2017-07-17T05:41:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/07\/17\/20-soft-skills\/"},"modified":"2017-07-17T13:41:15","modified_gmt":"2017-07-17T05:41:15","slug":"20-soft-skills","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/07\/17\/20-soft-skills\/","title":{"rendered":"\u8077\u5834\u3001\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u90fd\u6625\u98a8\u5f97\u610f\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u64c1\u6709\u9019 20 \u9805\u7d42\u8eab\u53d7\u7528\u7684\u300c\u8edf\u5be6\u529b\u300d\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_86556\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-86556\" class=\"wp-image-86556 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/07\/woman-hat-cornfield.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"346\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-86556\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo via VisualHunt<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u4f60\u61c9\u8a72\u5e38\u5e38\u770b\u8457\u8eab\u65c1\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u7136\u5f8c\u554f\u81ea\u5df1\uff1a\u300c\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4ed6\u5011\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u5404\u65b9\u9762\u90fd\u90a3\u9ebc\u5b8c\u7f8e\u3001\u4ee4\u4eba\u7fa8\u6155\uff1f\u300d<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u4e9b\u6240\u8b02\u7684\u300c\u4eba\u751f\u52dd\u5229\u7d44\u300d\u64c1\u6709\u4ee4\u4eba\u7a31\u7fa8\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u3001\u7e3d\u662f\u9047\u5230\u597d\u7684\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\uff0c\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u7e3d\u662f\u6eff\u9762\u6625\u98a8\uff0c\u81c9\u4e0a\u6c38\u9060\u639b\u8457\u5fae\u7b11\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u7fa8\u6155\u662f\u53ef\u4ee5\u7406\u89e3\u7684&#8211; 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