{"id":9637,"date":"2017-07-03T17:49:25","date_gmt":"2017-07-03T09:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/07\/03\/3-embarrasing-resplys\/"},"modified":"2017-07-03T17:49:25","modified_gmt":"2017-07-03T09:49:25","slug":"3-embarrasing-resplys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/07\/03\/3-embarrasing-resplys\/","title":{"rendered":"\u96e3\u804a\u4e45\u4e86\u5c31\u8b8a\u7121\u804a\uff01\u60f3\u8b93\u670b\u53cb\u559c\u6b61\u8ddf\u4f60\u804a\u5929\uff0c\u8981\u907f\u514d 3 \u7a2e\u300c\u53e5\u9ede\u738b\u300d\u56de\u8a71"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_85146\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-85146\" class=\"wp-image-85146 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/07\/pitch-perfect-1024-e1499074837865.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-85146\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pitch Perfect<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u660e\u660e\u4e0d\u662f\u500b\u7121\u804a\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u537b\u7e3d\u662f\u4e0d\u5c0f\u5fc3\u53e5\u9ede\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u8b93\u6574\u500b\u5834\u9762\u51b7\u6389\uff0c\u4f60\u6b63\u5728\u70ba\u6b64\u82e6\u60f1\u55ce\uff1f\u60f3\u8981\u7576\u500b\u804a\u5929\u7684\u597d\u5c0d\u8c61\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u5b78\u6703\u8b80\u7a7a\u6c23\uff0c\u4f60\u9084\u9700\u8981\u907f\u958b\u4ee5\u4e0b\u9019\u4e09\u500b\u5c37\u5c2c\u7121\u6bd4\u53c8\u96e3\u63a5\u8a71\u7684\u56de\u8986\uff0c\u5b78\u6703\u600e\u9ebc\u5f15\u5c0e\u8a71\u984c\uff0c\u624d\u4e0d\u6703\u6210\u70ba\u5927\u5bb6\u804a\u5929\u62d2\u7d55\u5f80\u4f86\u6236\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>1. 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#800000\"><strong>\u958b\u653e\u5f0f\u7684\u554f\u53e5<\/strong><\/span>\uff0c\u50cf\u662f\u300c\u90a3\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u5462\uff1f\u300d\u4f86\u5f15\u5c0e\u5c0d\u65b9\u7e7c\u7e8c\u5c0d\u8a71\uff0c\u6216\u8ffd\u554f\u4e8b\u4ef6\u7684\u7d30\u7bc0\uff0c\u8b93\u4ed6\u80fd\u5920\u5b8c\u6574\u5206\u4eab\u6574\u500b\u4e8b\u4ef6\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u5206\u4eab\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u76f8\u4f3c\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\uff0c\u7136\u5f8c\u6bd4\u8f03\u5169\u8005\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u5dee\u5225\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>2. \u300c\u9177\u6b38\u3002\u300d\u300c\u5f88\u68d2\u554a\uff01\u300d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u7d66\u4e88\u5225\u4eba\u6b63\u9762\u7684\u56de\u61c9\u7576\u7136\u5f88\u597d\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u55ae\u5b57\u5c31\u7565\u986f\u55ae\u8584\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u89ba\u5f97\u5c0d\u65b9\u8aaa\u7684\u5f88\u9177\uff0c\u5c31\u61c9\u8a72\u5617\u8a66\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u8868\u9054\u51fa\u4f86\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u9019\u9ebc\u56de\u61c9\uff1a<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u8a66\u8457\u591a\u5ef6\u9577\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u56de\u61c9\uff0c\u544a\u8a34\u4ed6\u5011\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u5f88\u68d2\uff0c\u6216\u5229\u7528\u53cd\u554f\u53e5\u300c\u9019\u5f88\u9177\u6b38\uff0c\u4f60\u600e\u9ebc\u77e5\u9053\u7684\uff1f\u300d\u4f86\u5f15\u5c0e\u5c0d\u8a71\u7e7c\u7e8c\u9032\u884c\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>3. 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#800000\"><strong>\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u9019\u9ebc\u56de\u61c9\uff1a<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5b78\u6703\u50be\u807d\u5225\u4eba\u662f\u5c0d\u8a71\u7684\u5fc5\u5099\u689d\u4ef6\u4e4b\u4e00\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u53ea\u9867\u8457\u544a\u8a34\u5927\u5bb6\u4f60\u591a\u9ebc\u53b2\u5bb3\uff0c\u800c\u5ffd\u7565\u6216\u6577\u884d\u4e86\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u8aaa\u7684\u8a71\u3002\u597d\u597d\u63a5\u6536\u5c0d\u65b9\u8aaa\u7684\u5167\u5bb9\uff0c\u7406\u89e3\u3001\u6d88\u5316\u4e00\u4e0b\uff0c\u518d\u7d66\u51fa\u56de\u61c9\uff0c\u8a18\u5f97\u7ad9\u5728\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\uff0c\u6216\u591a\u4e1f\u51fa\u554f\u53e5\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u7576\u6210\u5c0d\u8a71\u7684\u4e3b\u89d2\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><strong>\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/31\/boring-3\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u904e\u591a\u8b9a\u7f8e\u53cd\u800c\u8b93\u4eba\u89ba\u5f97\u4e0d\u771f\u8aa0\uff01\u6aa2\u6e2c\u4e00\u4e0b\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u4e0d\u662f\u72af\u4e86\u9019 6 \u500b\u300c\u804a\u5929\u5730\u96f7\u300d<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/31\/nathan-pyle\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u4e00\u9ede\u90fd\u4e0d\u60f3\u8ddf\u8a0e\u53ad\u7684\u4eba\u804a\u5929\uff01\u7528\u8d85\u6709\u6548 6 \u62db\u99ac\u4e0a\u7d42\u6b62\u7121\u610f\u7fa9\u7684\u9592\u804a<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/11\/29\/chatting\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u6c92\u8a71\u984c\u4e86\u597d\u5c37\u5c2c\uff01\u300c\u597d\u5947\u5fc3\u300d\u548c\u300c\u5634\u7832\u529b\u300d\u5ef6\u7e8c\u4f60\u7684\u804a\u5929\u751f\u547d\u529b<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u53c3\u8003\u8cc7\u6599\uff1a<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/599584\/common-things-people-say-that-make-a-conversation-really-boring\">Lifehack<\/a>\u3001<a href=\"https:\/\/www.boundless.com\/communications\/textbooks\/boundless-communications-textbook\/learning-to-listen-and-helping-others-do-the-same-5\/understanding-listening-29\/the-importance-of-listening-132-8285\/\">Boundless<\/a>\uff09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u660e\u660e\u4e0d\u662f\u500b\u7121\u804a\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u537b\u7e3d\u662f\u4e0d\u5c0f\u5fc3\u53e5\u9ede\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u8b93\u6574\u500b\u5834\u9762\u51b7\u6389\uff0c\u4f60\u6b63\u5728\u70ba\u6b64\u82e6\u60f1\u55ce\uff1f\u60f3\u8981\u7576\u500b\u804a\u5929\u7684\u597d\u5c0d\u8c61\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u5b78\u6703\u8b80\u7a7a\u6c23\uff0c\u4f60\u9084\u9700\u8981\u907f\u958b\u4ee5\u4e0b\u9019\u4e09\u500b\u5c37\u5c2c\u7121\u6bd4\u53c8\u96e3\u63a5\u8a71\u7684\u56de\u8986\uff0c\u5b78\u6703\u600e\u9ebc\u5f15\u5c0e\u8a71\u984c\uff0c\u624d\u4e0d\u6703\u6210\u70ba\u5927\u5bb6\u804a\u5929\u62d2\u7d55[&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":162,"featured_media":22218,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[255,357,1059,2402,2403,118],"coauthors":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9637"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/162"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9637"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9637\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22218"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9637"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=9637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}