{"id":9309,"date":"2017-05-23T12:25:57","date_gmt":"2017-05-23T04:25:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/23\/avoid-our-love-being-bored\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:00:30","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:00:30","slug":"avoid-our-love-being-bored","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/23\/avoid-our-love-being-bored\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u300d\u8ddf\u300c\u65b0\u9bae\u611f\u300d\u4e0d\u80fd\u517c\u5f97\u55ce\uff1f\u8981\u8b93\u71b1\u6200\u611f\u6301\u7e8c\u5225\u5fd8\u4e86\u628a\u9019 4 \u4ef6\u4e8b\u878d\u5165\u751f\u6d3b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80958 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/05\/couple-suit-bride.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"401\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u8207\u5c0d\u65b9\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u4e45\u4e86\uff0c\u5169\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u958b\u59cb\u6c92\u6709\u4e86\u706b\u82b1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u5011\u958b\u59cb\u6703\u53e5\u9ede\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u5011\u5df2\u7d93\u7fd2\u6163\u4e14\u4e86\u89e3\u4ed6\u5011\u4e0b\u4e00\u500b\u52d5\u4f5c\u8981\u505a\u4ec0\u9ebc\u3001\u8aaa\u4ec0\u9ebc\u3002\u4f46\u4ee5\u4e0a\u9019\u4e00\u5207\uff0c\u90fd\u8b93\u4f60\u611f\u5230\u53ad\u5026\u3001\u7121\u8da3\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u592a\u591a\u7684\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u662f\u6703\u5c0e\u81f4\u7121\u611f\u4ee5\u53ca\u53ad\u5026\u7684\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u8a8d\u70ba\u9019\u96e2\u81ea\u5df1\u5f88\u9060\uff1b\u8207\u773c\u524d\u7684\u4eba\u76f8\u8655\u6642\u9593\u8d8a\u4e45\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u6703\u8d8a\u4e86\u89e3\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u80fd\u5920\u9810\u6599\u5230\u5c0d\u65b9\u6703\u6709\u600e\u9ebc\u6a23\u7684\u53cd\u61c9\u3002\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u719f\u6089\u611f\u6709\u6642\u5019\u771f\u7684\u6700\u7d42\u6703\u5c0e\u5411\u75b2\u5026\u4ee5\u53ca\u7121\u8da3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u96d6\u7136\u300c\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u300d\u9019\u7a2e\u6771\u897f\u662f\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u90fd\u5f88\u56ae\u5f80\u7684\uff0c\u4e5f\u5f88\u5e0c\u671b\u80fd\u5f9e\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u7684\u8eab\u4e0a\u7372\u5f97\u3002\u5176\u5be6\u60c5\u4fb6\u4e4b\u9593\u6700\u5e38\u4e5f\u6700\u5bb9\u6613\u72af\u7684\u932f\u8aa4\u662f\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u4ed6\u5011\u7e3d\u662f\u8a8d\u70ba\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u300c\u719f\u6089\u611f\u300d\u80fd\u5920\u5b8c\u5168\u5730\u88dc\u8db3\u5169\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u7f3a\u5c11\u7684\u89aa\u5bc6\u611f\u4ee5\u53ca\u6fc0\u60c5\u3002\u4f46\u4e8b\u5be6\u662f\uff0c\u9019\u53cd\u800c\u6703\u589e\u52a0\u5169\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u6e1b\u5c11\u300c\u611b\u300d\u7684\u5e45\u5ea6\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u8ab0\u60f3\u8b93\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u767c\u751f\uff0c\u5c0d\u5427\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u90a3\u5230\u5e95\u8a72\u5982\u4f55\u9810\u9632\u5169\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u5145\u6eff\u67af\u71e5\u4e4f\u5473\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\uff0c\u4e26\u4e14\u8d70\u5411\u7d50\u675f\u4e00\u9014\u5462\uff1f<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>1. \u4e00\u8d77\u5617\u8a66\u9ede\u65b0\u9bae\u4e8b\u5427\uff01<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u6253\u7834\u55ae\u8abf\u751f\u6d3b\u6700\u597d\u7684\u8fa6\u6cd5\u4e4b\u4e00\u5c31\u662f\u52c7\u6562\u5730\u53bb\u5617\u8a66\u4e9b\u65b0\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\uff0c\u5c24\u5176\u662f\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u4e00\u8d77\u3002\u559c\u6b61\u62cd\u7167\u55ce\uff1f\u90a3\u5c31\u4e00\u8d77\u53bb\u5831\u540d\u500b\u651d\u5f71\u8ab2\u7a0b\u5427\uff01\u5047\u65e5\u559c\u6b61\u5065\u8d70\u3001\u722c\u5c71\u55ce\uff1f\u90a3\u5c31\u4e00\u8d77\u53bb\u53c3\u52a0\u5065\u8d70\u793e\u5718\u5427\uff01\u6709\u79d1\u5b78\u7814\u7a76\u8b49\u5be6\uff0c\u300c\u5617\u8a66\u65b0\u4e8b\u7269\u300d\u662f\u80fd\u5920\u6709\u6548\u6253\u64ca\u75b2\u4e4f\u611f\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\uff01<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>2. 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#800000\">\u300c\u70ba\u672a\u4f86\u898f\u5283\u80fd\u5920\u63d0\u4f9b\u5169\u4eba\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u814e\u4e0a\u817a\u7d20\uff0c\u4e5f\u80fd\u4f7f\u5169\u4eba\u5c0d\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u7522\u751f\u611f\u8b1d\u4e4b\u610f\u3002\u300d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80960 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/05\/coupling-boating-lighting.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"324\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>3. 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#800000\"><strong>\u6642\u6642\u523b\u523b\u63d0\u9192\u81ea\u5df1\u7576\u521d\u611b\u4e0a\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u539f\u56e0<\/strong><\/span>\uff0c\u7d55\u5c0d\u53ef\u4ee5\u6e1b\u5c11\u5f88\u591a\u96d9\u65b9\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u7121\u8da3\u53ca\u75b2\u5026\u611f\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80\uff1a<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/02\/20\/communicate\/\">\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4ea4\u5f80\u4e45\u4e86\u7e3d\u662f\u6c92\u8a71\u804a\uff1f\u539f\u4f86\u7537\u751f\u5973\u751f\u60f3\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff01<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/12\/29\/formula-of-attraction\/\">\u8d85\u8a73\u7d30\uff014 \u500b\u5275\u9020\u9577\u4e45\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u300c\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u516c\u5f0f\u300d\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u5916\u8868\u6839\u672c\u4e0d\u662f\u91cd\u9ede<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/04\/25\/different-other-half\/\">\u611f\u60c5\u5f4e\u8def\u8d70\u591a\u4e86\u624d\u6f38\u6f38\u4e86\u89e3\uff1a\u6027\u683c\u4e92\u88dc\u7684\u4eba\u9069\u5408\u4e00\u8d77\u6162\u6162\u8b8a\u8001<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u53c3\u8003\u8cc7\u6599\uff1a<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/587424\/what-makes-relationship-boring-and-how-avoid?ref=fbp&amp;amp;n=1\">Lifehack<\/a>\uff0c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/rediscovering-love\/201107\/what-causes-boredom-in-intimate-relationshipss\">Psychology Today<\/a>\uff0c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/148328-17-things-to-do-when-you-get-bored-in-your-relationship\">Bustle<\/a>\uff0c<a 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