{"id":9184,"date":"2017-05-09T15:05:43","date_gmt":"2017-05-09T07:05:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/09\/5-ways-to-express-love\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:02:41","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:02:41","slug":"5-ways-to-express-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/09\/5-ways-to-express-love\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4e5f\u8a31\u6211\u5011\u90fd\u6c92\u61c2\u4ed6 \u2014\u2014 \u5176\u5be6\u8868\u9054\u300c\u611b\u300d\u6709 5 \u7a2e\u65b9\u5f0f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79501 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/05\/\u87a2\u5e55\u5feb\u7167-2017-05-09-\u4e0b\u53481.50.13-copy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"312\" 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style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>5.\u80a2\u9ad4\u63a5\u89f8\uff08Physical Touch\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u300c\u80a2\u9ad4\u63a5\u89f8\u300d\u4e26\u4e0d\u50c5\u50c5\u610f\u5473\u8457\u6027<\/strong><\/span>\u3002\u5c0d\u65bc\u4ee5\u6b64\u70ba\u611b\u7684\u8a9e\u8a00\u7684\u4eba\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u5c0f\u5c0f\u7684\u80a2\u9ad4\u63a5\u89f8\u3001\u62cd\u80a9\u8180\u3001\u727d\u624b\u3001\u64c1\u62b1\u3001\u6478\u982d\u6bba\u2026\u2026\u90fd\u9ad4\u73fe\u8457\u611b\u610f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u76f8\u61c9\u5730\uff0c\u7f3a\u4e4f\u80a2\u9ad4\u63a5\u89f8\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u8eab\u9ad4\u65b9\u9762\u54ea\u6015\u8f15\u5fae\u7684\u66b4\u529b\uff0c\u4e5f\u6703\u50b7\u5bb3\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: 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