{"id":9159,"date":"2017-05-05T14:51:53","date_gmt":"2017-05-05T06:51:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/05\/be-friends-after-breakup\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:03:06","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:03:06","slug":"be-friends-after-breakup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/05\/05\/be-friends-after-breakup\/","title":{"rendered":"\u6211\u5011\u9084\u662f\u670b\u53cb&#8230;\uff1f\u5f9e\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u770b\u5206\u624b\u5f8c\u7684\u60c5\u4fb6\u5230\u5e95\u80fd\u4e0d\u80fd\u6210\u70ba\u771f\u7684\u597d\u670b\u53cb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79201 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/05\/Untitled-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"310\" 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Talk\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u9762\u5c0d\u9762\u4ea4\u8ac7\u5c0d\u65bc\u9019\u4e00\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002\u5206\u624b\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u88ab\u5c0d\u65b9\u8868\u9054\u51fa\u7684\u61a4\u6012\u548c\u53d7\u50b7\u6240\u5f71\u97ff\uff0c\u4f46\u537b\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u6bd4\u8f03\u5766\u8aa0\uff0c\u5c0a\u91cd\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u4fdd\u6301\u8ddd\u96e2\uff08Distance Cueing\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u62d2\u7d55\u79c1\u4eba\u7684\u4e92\u52d5\uff0c\u7121\u8996\u5c0d\u65b9\u611b\u8207\u6b78\u5c6c\u7684\u9700\u6c42\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5fae\u4fe1\u4e0d\u56de\uff0c\u96fb\u8a71\u4e0d\u63a5\uff0c\u5728\u793e\u4ea4\u7db2\u7d61\u4e0a\u6c89\u9ed8\uff0c\u5f9e\u4f60\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u6d88\u5931\u3002\u6162\u6162\u8b8a\u51b7\u6de1\uff0c\u7136\u5f8c\u51b7\u5206\u624b\u3002<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: 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