{"id":9027,"date":"2017-04-21T11:49:30","date_gmt":"2017-04-21T03:49:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/04\/21\/mid-20s-struggles\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:06:03","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:06:03","slug":"mid-20s-struggles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/04\/21\/mid-20s-struggles\/","title":{"rendered":"20 \u5e7e\u6b72\u7684\u4f60\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u7262\u8a18\u7684\u300c\u4eba\u751f\u6e96\u5247\u300d\uff1a\u5c0d\u4eba\u751f\u300c\u832b\u7136\u300d\u5176\u5be6\u4e00\u9ede\u90fd\u4e0d\u4e1f\u81c9\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_77588\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-77588\" class=\"wp-image-77588 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/2017-04-21_113430-e1492745698470.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"369\" 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href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/02\/17\/4-exercises-reduce-stress\/\">\u6bd4\u300c\u8a66\u8457\u653e\u8f15\u9b06\u5427\u300d\u9084\u5be6\u969b\u7684 4 \u500b\u7d13\u58d3\u5efa\u8b70\uff0c\u6700\u591a\u53ea\u8981\u82b1 20 \u5206\u9418\u800c\u5df2\uff01<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/10\/28\/20-vs-30\/\">\u3010\u5716\u89e3\u301120 \u6b72\u8ddf 30 \u6b72\u7684\u5dee\u5225\uff0c\u5f9e\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u597d\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u5230\u64c1\u6709\u5c11\u6578\u300c\u771f\u670b\u53cb\u300d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u8cc7\u6599\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<br \/>\n1.THOGHT CATLOG-<a href=\"http:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/liane-white\/2017\/04\/its-okay-to-struggle-in-your-mid-twenties\/\">It\u2019s Okay To Struggle In Your Mid-Twenties\u00a0<\/a><br \/>\n2.Psychology Today-<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/valley-girl-brain\/201310\/if-youre-lost-in-your-20s\">If You&#8217;re Lost in Your 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