{"id":8927,"date":"2017-04-11T13:26:38","date_gmt":"2017-04-11T05:26:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/04\/11\/bad-communication-of-parenting\/"},"modified":"2017-04-11T13:26:38","modified_gmt":"2017-04-11T05:26:38","slug":"bad-communication-of-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/04\/11\/bad-communication-of-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u4f60\u770b\u770b\u4eba\u5bb6\u5b69\u5b50&#8230;\u300d\u5f88\u591a\u7236\u6bcd\u5176\u5be6\u5728\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u65bd\u66b4\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u4ed6\u5011\u6c92\u6709\u767c\u89ba"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-76344 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/1-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"310\" 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#800000;\"><strong>\u5229\u7528\u793a\u5f31\u4f86\u5f15\u767c\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u6127\u759a\u611f<\/strong><\/span>\uff0c\u5f9e\u800c\u64cd\u7e31\u4ed6\u4eba\uff0c\u5bb6\u9577\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u4e5f\u4e00\u6a23\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6709\u6642\u7236\u6bcd\u6703\u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u4f60\u9019\u9ebc\u4e0d\u807d\u8a71\uff0c\u7238\u5abd\u7684\u5fc3\u90fd\u50b7\u900f\u4e86\u3002\u300d\u9019\u6642\u7236\u6bcd\u662f\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u7f6e\u65bc\u52a3\u52e2\u7684\uff0c\u8b93\u5b69\u5b50\u89ba\u5f97\uff1a\u662f\u6211\u7684\u884c\u70ba\u5c0e\u81f4\u4e86\u7236\u6bcd\u96e3\u904e\uff0c\u6211\u61c9\u8a72\u5c0d\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u60c5\u8ca0\u8cac\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u901a\u904e\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u64cd\u7e31\uff0c\u7236\u6bcd\u8ff4\u907f\u6389\u4e86\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8cac\u4efb\uff0c\u4e5f\u5728\u5f37\u8feb\u5b69\u5b50\u6309\u7167\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u671f\u5f85\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-76330 size-full\" 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\u5f37\u5236<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5f37\u5236\u662f\u6307\u5c0d\u65bc\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u8981\u6c42\u6697\u542b\u8457\u5a01\u8105\u7684\u610f\u5473\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4e0d\u914d\u5408\uff0c\u5c07\u53ef\u80fd\u53d7\u5230\u61f2\u7f70\u3002\u9019\u662f\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u5f37\u8005\u5e38\u7528\u7684\u6e9d\u901a\u624b\u6bb5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u89aa\u5b50\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\uff0c\u7236\u6bcd\u4fbf\u662f\u5f37\u8005\u3002\u5bb6\u9577\u5011\u6703\u6709\u4e00\u7a2e\u4f7f\u547d\u611f\/\u8cac\u4efb\u611f\uff1a\u6211\u662f\u4f60\u7238\/\u5abd\uff0c\u6211\u7684\u8077\u8cac\u5c31\u662f\u7ba1\u6559\u4f60\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7236\u6bcd\u5e38\u5e38\u5e0c\u671b\u8c4e\u7acb\u4e00\u500b\u5a01\u56b4\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u5bb6\u9577\u751a\u81f3\u4ee5\u300c\u5b69\u5b50\u5f88\u6015\u6211\uff0c\u6211\u4e00\u77aa\u773c\u4ed6\u5c31\u4e0d\u6562\u8aaa\u8a71\u4e86\u300d\u70ba\u69ae\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u5728\u8a00\u8a9e\u4e2d\u7e3d\u662f\u76db\u6c23\u51cc\u4eba\uff0c\u628a\u8acb\u6c42\u4ee5\u547d\u4ee4\u7684\u8a9e\u6c23\u767c\u51fa\uff1a\u300c\u56de\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u5c4b\u53bb\uff01\u73fe\u5728\uff01\u300d<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>4. \u8eab\u9ad4\u66b4\u529b<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5152\u7ae5\u8650\u5f85\uff08child 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style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>5. \u51b7\u66b4\u529b<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5152\u7ae5\u60c5\u611f\u5ffd\u8996\uff08childhood emotional 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\u767c\u73fe\u7684\u4e00\u7a2e\u6e9d\u901a\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u4f9d\u7167\u5b83\u7684\u6e96\u5247\u4f86\u9032\u884c\u8ac7\u8a71\u548c\u50be\u807d\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u907f\u514d\u5f88\u591a\u4e0d\u5fc5\u8981\u7684\u885d\u7a81\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5b83\u5305\u62ec\u56db\u500b\u8981\u7d20\uff1a<span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u89c0\u5bdf<\/strong><\/span>\u3001<span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u611f\u53d7<\/strong><\/span>\u3001<span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u9700\u8981<\/strong><\/span>\u3001<span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u8acb\u6c42<\/strong><\/span>\u3002<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>1. \u89c0\u5bdf\uff08Observation\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-76336 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/p41787737.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"266\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u89c0\u5bdf\u610f\u5473\u8457\u55ae\u7d14\u5730\u95e1\u8ff0\u89c0\u5bdf\u5230\u7684\u5b69\u5b50\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u4e0d\u647b\u96dc\u4efb\u4f55\u8a55\u5224\u3001\u89c0\u9ede\u3001\u6307\u8cac\u3002\u60f3\u8981\u505a\u5230\u5ba2\u89c0\u7684\u89c0\u5bdf\u662f\u5f88\u96e3\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e00\u65b9\u9762\uff0c\u4eba\u5011\u901a\u5e38\u5c07\u89c0\u5bdf\u8207\u8a55\u8ad6\u6df7\u70ba\u4e00\u8ac7\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u4f60\u9019\u5b69\u5b50\u771f\u61f6\u300d\u662f\u5178\u578b\u7684\u8a55\u8ad6\uff0c\u800c\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u89c0\u5bdf\u662f\u300c\u4eca\u5929\u4f60\u7761\u5230\u4e2d\u5348 12 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#800000;\"><strong>\u7e3d\u662f\u3001\u6bcf\u6b21\u90fd\u3001\u5f9e\u4e0d\u2026\u2026<\/strong><\/span>\u9019\u4e9b\u983b\u7387\u8a5e\u8a9e\u5bb9\u6613\u8b93\u4eba\u7522\u751f\u9006\u53cd\u5fc3\u7406\uff0c\u5b69\u5b50\u548c\u7236\u6bcd\u6703\u9677\u5165\u56de\u61b6\u627e\u53cd\u4f8b\u7684\u7af6\u722d\u4e2d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f8b\u5982\uff0c\u300c\u4f60\u6bcf\u6b21\u90fd\u4e0d\u807d\u6211\u8a71\u3002\u300d \u5b69\u5b50\u6703\u62fc\u547d\u53cd\u99c1\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u4e0a\u6b21\u5c31\u807d\u4f60\u7684\u5831\u4e86\u6578\u5b78\u73ed\u554a\uff01\u300d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u5b78\u6703\u5ba2\u89c0\u7684\u89c0\u5bdf\u548c\u8868\u8ff0\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u662f\u6e9d\u901a\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b65\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>2. \u611f\u53d7\uff08Feelings\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-76337 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/p41787747.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"266\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u611f\u53d7\u5bb9\u6613\u548c\u60f3\u6cd5\u6df7\u70ba\u4e00\u8ac7\u3002\u7576\u4eba\u5011\u8aaa\u300c\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u300d\u6642\uff0c\u5f80\u5f80\u8868\u9054\u7684\u4e0d\u662f\u60c5\u7dd2\u611f\u53d7\u800c\u662f\u8a8d\u77e5\u5c64\u9762\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f8b\u5982\uff0c\u60f3\u6cd5\u662f\uff1a\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u4e0d\u4e56\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u800c\u611f\u53d7\u662f\uff1a\u4f60\u5927\u5435\u5927\u9b27\uff0c\u6211\u611f\u5230\u5f88\u7126\u616e\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u53ef\u4ee5\u591a\u5617\u8a66\u7528\u300c\u6211\u611f\u5230\u2026\u56e0\u70ba\u2026\u300d\u7684\u8868\u9054\u65b9\u5f0f\u8207\u5b69\u5b50\u6e9d\u901a\uff0c\u5bb6\u9577\u53ea\u6709\u5b78\u6703\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u624d\u80fd\u771f\u7684\u627e\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u751f\u6c23\u7684\u6839\u6e90\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>3. \u9700\u8981\uff08Needs\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-76338 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/p41787775.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"266\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u6279\u8a55\u3001\u64cd\u7e31\u7b49\u66b4\u529b\u6e9d\u901a\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u8a71\u8a9e\u4e2d\u96b1\u542b\u4e86\u6c92\u6709\u88ab\u6eff\u8db3\u7684\u9700\u8981\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6bd4\u5982\uff0c\u5b69\u5b50\u56de\u5bb6\u592a\u665a\uff0c\u7236\u6bcd\u751f\u6c23\u5730\u8a13\u65a5\uff1a\u300c\u8ab0\u8b93\u4f60\u8dd1\u51fa\u53bb\u73a9\u5152\u7684\uff01\u4ee5\u5f8c\u653e\u5b78\u5fc5\u9808\u99ac\u4e0a\u56de\u5bb6\uff01\u300d<\/p>\n<p>\u5b69\u5b50\u901a\u5e38\u6703\u8faf\u89e3\u6216\u8005\u53cd\u64ca\u3002\u4f46\u5176\u5be6\u7236\u6bcd\u7684\u9700\u8981\u662f\u300c\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u5b89\u5168\u300d\uff0c\u7136\u800c\u9019\u7a2e\u9700\u8981\u4e26\u672a\u88ab\u76f4\u63a5\u8aaa\u51fa\u4f86\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u5b69\u5b50\u611f\u5230\u7684\u53ea\u662f\u6700\u5916\u5c64\u7684\u61a4\u6012\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u5167\u542b\u7684\u64d4\u5fc3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7236\u6bcd\u61c9\u5617\u8a66\u660e\u78ba\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u9019\u6703\u8b93\u5b69\u5b50\u611f\u53d7\u5230\u4f60\u5c0d\u4ed6\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u6e1b\u5c11\u4f60\u5011\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u77db\u76fe\uff0c\u6bd4\u5982\u300c\u4f60\u9019\u9ebc\u665a\u56de\u5bb6\uff0c\u6211\u5f88\u751f\u6c23\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u5f88\u64d4\u5fc3\u4f60\u7684\u5b89\u5168\u3002\u300d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>4. \u8acb\u6c42\uff08Request\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-76339 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/p41787780.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"266\" 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