{"id":8808,"date":"2017-03-24T14:36:40","date_gmt":"2017-03-24T06:36:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/03\/24\/do-you-love-me\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:10:25","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:10:25","slug":"do-you-love-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/03\/24\/do-you-love-me\/","title":{"rendered":"\u611b\u5c31\u4e00\u500b\u5b57\uff0c\u6211\u8981\u7b54\u516b\u767e\u6b21\uff01\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6709\u4eba\u6703\u6c92\u5b8c\u6c92\u4e86\u5730\u554f\u300c\u4f60\u611b\u4e0d\u611b\u6211\u300d\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74824 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/03\/p41228393.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"253\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u300aVO\u300b\u5c0e\u8b80\uff1a<\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u4f60\u5230\u5e95\u611b\u4e0d\u611b\u6211\uff1f\u300d<\/p>\n<p>\u7121\u8ad6\u4f60\u662f\u7167\u4e09\u9910\u554f\u4f34\u4fb6\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u6bcf\u5929\u90fd\u88ab\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u8f5f\u70b8\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u90fd\u53ef\u4ee5\u6ce8\u610f\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u80cc\u5f8c\u7684\u6df1\u5165\u542b\u7fa9\u3002\u627e\u5230\u5f8c\uff0c\u4e5f\u8a31\u4f60\u5011\u53ef\u4ee5\u7167\u5230\u66f4\u548c\u8ae7\u7684\u76f8\u8655\u65b9\u5f0f\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u8cac\u4efb\u7de8\u8f2f\uff1a\u674e\u606c\u82b3\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">\u6587\uff5cE+<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u66fe\u7d93\u6f22\u5316\u904e\u9019\u6a23\u4e00\u5e45\u6f2b\u756b\uff0c\u5728\u67d0\u4e9b\u65b9\u9762\u7279\u5225\u6709\u4ee3\u8868\u6027\uff1a<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74828 size-full\" 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decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74827 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/03\/1-7.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"310\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u4ec0\u9ebc\u662f\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u5f37\u8feb\u884c\u70ba\uff1f<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u95dc\u4fc2\u5f37\u8feb\u884c\u70ba\uff08Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder\uff09\u662f\u6307\u5728\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\uff08\u4e0d\u9650\u65bc\u60c5\u4fb6\u95dc\u4fc2\uff09\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5f37\u8feb\u6027\u601d\u60f3\uff08\u57f7\u5ff5\uff09\u6216\u8005\u884c\u70ba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5b83\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u969c\u7919\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u601d\u7dad\u6a21\u5f0f\u548c\u884c\u70ba\u50be\u5411\uff1a\u4e00\u822c\u5206\u70ba\u5169\u7a2e\u985e\u578b\uff1a<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>1.\u570d\u7e5e\u95dc\u4fc2\u672c\u8eab\u7684 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Symptoms\uff09<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u9078\u64c7\u6027\u5730\u53ea\u95dc\u6ce8\u4f34\u4fb6\u7684\u932f\u8aa4\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u505a\u7684\u4e0d\u5408\u5fc3\u610f\u7684\u5730\u65b9\uff0c\u800c\u5ffd\u7565\u4f34\u4fb6\u7684\u512a\u9ede\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u4ed6\u4e0d\u611b\u6211\u300d\u7684\u5ff5\u982d\u8b8a\u6210\u4e86\u5148\u5165\u70ba\u4e3b\u7684\u6210\u898b\uff0c\u65bc\u662f\u901a\u904e\u6311\u5254\u5c0d\u65b9\u5728\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u8868\u73fe\u51fa\u7684\u300c\u5931\u8aa4\u300d\u4f86\u53cd\u8986\u5730\u78ba\u8a8d\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\uff1a\u300c\u4ed6\u6c92\u6709\u8a18\u4f4f\u6211\u5011\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u898b\u9762\u7684\u60c5\u666f\uff0c\u4ed6\u5fd8\u4e86\u6211\u7684\u751f\u65e5\uff0c\u4ed6\u6c92\u6709\u53ca\u6642\u56de\u590d\u5fae\u4fe1\uff0c\u9019\u4e00\u5207\u90fd\u4ee3\u8868\u4e86\uff0c\u4ed6\u4e0d\u611b\u6211\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u300c\u4ed6\u4e0d\u611b\u6211\u300d\u5c31\u50cf\u4e00\u500b\u81ea\u8b49\u9810\u8a00\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u53cd\u8986\u5730\u61f7\u7591\u5c0d\u65b9\u5c0d\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u91cd\u8996\u7a0b\u5ea6\uff0c\u8ca0\u9762\u3001\u6975\u7aef\u5316\u5730\u89e3\u91cb\u5c0d\u65b9\u6240\u6709\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u6700\u7d42\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u6703\u771f\u7684\u5982\u9810\u671f\u7684\u90a3\u6a23\uff0c\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u9060\uff0c\u6700\u7d42\u7834\u88c2\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u300c\u4f60\u5230\u5e95\u611b\u4e0d\u611b\u6211\uff1f\u300d\u7684\u80cc\u5f8c\uff0c\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>1. \u300c\u6211\u6015\u4f60\u96e2\u958b\u300d\u7684\u7126\u616e<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5152\u7ae5\u5728\u8207\u6bcd\u89aa\u5206\u96e2\u6642\uff0c\u6703\u5f15\u767c\u5927\u91cf\u7684\u7126\u616e\u60c5\u7dd2\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u60c5\u7dd2\u88ab\u7a31\u70ba\u300c\u5206\u96e2\u7126\u616e\u300d\uff08separation anxiety\uff09\uff0c\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u5c0d\u65bc\u55aa\u5931\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3001\u64ab\u990a\u3001\u7269\u8cea\u548c\u611b\u7684\u6050\u61fc\u3002\u7126\u616e\u578b\u4f9d\u6200\u7684\u4eba\u5011\u5728\u6210\u5e74\u4e4b\u5f8c\u7684\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u53ef\u80fd\u66f4\u52a0\u61fc\u6015\u5206\u96e2\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u7576\u4f34\u4fb6\u9732\u51fa\u4e00\u9ede\u9ede\u5c0d\u65bc\u95dc\u4fc2\u6c92\u90a3\u9ebc\u6295\u5165\u7684\u8868\u73fe\u6642\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\uff0c\u628a\u6ce8\u610f\u529b\u653e\u5728\u904a\u6232\u800c\u975e\u611b\u4eba\u8eab\u4e0a\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u56e0\u70ba\u5fc3\u60c5\u4e0d\u597d\u800c\u4e00\u8a00\u4e0d\u767c\uff0c\u4e0d\u60f3\u4ea4\u6d41\u6642\uff0c\u7126\u616e\u578b\u4f9d\u6200\u7684\u4eba\u5c31\u6703\u958b\u59cb\u64d4\u6182\uff1a\u300c\u4ed6\u662f\u4e0d\u662f\u4e0d\u611b\u6211\u4e86\uff1f\u662f\u4e0d\u662f\u8981\u96e2\u958b\u6211\uff1f\u300d<\/p>\n<p>\u6240\u4ee5\u4ed6\u5011\u6703\u4e0d\u65b7\u5730\u5728\u53e3\u982d\u4e0a\u5c0b\u6c42\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u78ba\u8a8d\uff0c\u4f7f\u81ea\u5df1\u5b89\u5fc3\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u9019\u662f\u6700\u76f4\u89c0\u7684\u4fdd\u8b49\u3002\u800c\u5728\u9019\u7a2e\u6c42\u8b49\u7684\u80cc\u5f8c\uff0c\u662f\u5c0d\u65bc\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u7126\u616e\u548c\u4e0d\u5b89\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u5c0d\u65bc\u8207\u89aa\u5bc6\u7684\u4eba\u5206\u96e2\u7684\u6050\u61fc\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>2. \u60f3\u8981\u300c\u7a69\u7a69\u7684\u5e78\u798f\u300d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u4eba\u5011\u5929\u751f\u5c0d\u65bc\u4e0d\u78ba\u5b9a\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\u6709\u6050\u61fc\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u6211\u5011\u9700\u8981\u638c\u63a7\u611f\u3002\u5c0d\u4e0d\u78ba\u5b9a\u6027\u7684\u5bb9\u5fcd\u7a0b\u5ea6\uff08intolerance for 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style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>2. \u505c\u6b62\u8aa4\u89e3<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u7576\u9762\u5c0d\u4f34\u4fb6\u53cd\u590d\u7684\u8cea\u554f\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u5f80\u5f80\u6703\u6709\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u5230\u5e95\u600e\u9ebc\u4e86\uff1f\u8b93\u4f60\u9019\u9ebc\u4e0d\u4fe1\u4efb\u6211\uff1f\u300d<\/p>\n<p>\u5f88\u591a\u6642\u5019\u4f34\u4fb6\u62d2\u7d55\u7d66\u4e88\u6b63\u9762\u56de\u61c9\uff08\u6bd4\u5982\u76f4\u63a5\u56de\u7b54\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u7576\u7136\u611b\u4f60\u554a\u3002\u300d\uff09\uff0c\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u4ed6\u5011\u4e5f\u5b58\u6709\u7591\u60d1\uff0c\u628a\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u6c42\u8b49\u8aa4\u8a8d\u70ba\u662f\u4f60\u5c0d\u4ed6\u5011\u4e0d\u6eff\u7684\u62b1\u6028\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>3. \u5617\u8a66\u7528\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8a9e\u8a00\u4f86\u8868\u9054\u611b<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Gary Chapman \u8a8d\u70ba\u611b\u6709 5 \u7a2e\u8a9e\u8a00\uff0c\u4ee5\u4e0b\u9019 5 \u7a2e\u90fd\u662f\u8868\u9054\u611b\u65b9\u5f0f\uff1a<\/p>\n<p>1.<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u80af\u5b9a\u7684\u8a71\u8a9e words of affirmation\uff1a<\/strong><\/span>\u4e00\u53e5\u6eab\u6696\u7684\u8a71\u8a9e\u3001\u5361\u7247\u6216\u8005\u66f8\u4fe1<\/p>\n<p>2.<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u80a2\u9ad4\u63a5\u89f8 physical touch\uff1a<\/strong><\/span>\u64c1\u62b1\u3001\u89aa\u543b\u3001\u6478\u982d\u6bba<\/p>\n<p>3.<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u652f\u6301\u884c\u70ba acts of service\uff1a<\/strong><\/span>\u5e6b\u5fd9\u5206\u64d4\u5bb6\u52d9\u3001\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u505a\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5<\/p>\n<p>4.<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u4ea4\u63db\u79ae\u7269 receiving gifts\uff1a<\/strong><\/span>\u5305\u62ec\u7279\u6b8a\u7bc0\u65e5\u7684\u79ae\u7269\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u4e00\u500b\u5c0f\u7684\u4fe1\u7269<\/p>\n<p>5.<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u5171\u8655\u6642\u9593 quality 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style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u611b\u8cea\u554f\u4f34\u4fb6\u7684\u4eba\u8a72\u600e\u9ebc\u8fa6\uff1f<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u88ab\u8cea\u554f\u7684\u4e00\u65b9\u89ba\u5f97\u75b2\u618a\u548c\u53ad\u5026\uff0c\u7e3d\u662f\u8ffd\u8457\u554f\u7684\u4e00\u65b9\u5176\u5be6\u4e5f\u5f88\u5fc3\u7d2f\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u53ef\u80fd\u4e26\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u771f\u6b63\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u53ea\u80fd\u4e00\u904d\u904d\u5730\u7121\u52a9\u5730\u554f\u3002\u4ee5\u4e0b\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5efa\u8b70\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u5e6b\u52a9\u5230\u4ed6\u5011\u8a8d\u6e05\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u884c\u70ba\u80cc\u5f8c\u7684\u52d5\u6a5f\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>1. 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