{"id":8572,"date":"2017-02-24T18:16:58","date_gmt":"2017-02-24T10:16:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/02\/24\/singals-problems\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:14:48","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:14:48","slug":"singals-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/02\/24\/singals-problems\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5269\u7537\u5269\u5973\u771f\u7684\u662f\u300c\u6c92\u9047\u5230\u9069\u5408\u7684\u4eba\u300d\uff1f\u5728\u9019\u80cc\u5f8c\u5176\u5be6\u6709\u66f4\u6df1\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u76f2\u9ede"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_71548\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-71548\" class=\"wp-image-71548 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/02\/crowd-female-woman.png\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-71548\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo via <a href=\"https:\/\/visualhunt.com\/photo\/189857\/\">VisualHunt<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u3010\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6311\u9078\u9019\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u3011<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u662f\u60f3\u8ac7\u6200\u611b\uff0c\u4f46\u9019\u689d\u8def\u537b\u6c92\u90a3\u9ebc\u5bb9\u6613\u7684\u5269\u7537\u5269\u5973\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u5fc3\u88e1\u5e38\u5e38\u6703\u60f3\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u53ea\u662f\u9084\u6c92\u9047\u5230\u5c0d\u7684\u4eba\u800c\u5df2\u3002\u300d\u4f46\u5176\u5be6\u4ed4\u7d30\u5206\u6790\uff0c\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u4f60\u5e73\u5e38\u4e0d\u6703\u592a\u6ce8\u610f\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u76f2\u9ede\uff01\u800c\u9019\u4e9b\u76f2\u9ede\uff0c\u90fd\u8ddf\u300c\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u300d\u7684\u5b78\u554f\u6709\u95dc\u5594\uff01\u5e0c\u671b\u9019\u7bc7\u5c0d\u4f60\u53d7\u7528\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\uff08\u8cac\u4efb\u7de8\u8f2f\uff1a\u674e\u606c\u82b3\uff09<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: right\">\u6587\/Dana<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span 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class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u5c0d\u65bc\u7537\u4eba\u4f86\u8aaa\u66f4\u662f\u5982\u6b64\uff0c\u73fe\u4ee3\u7537\u4eba\u4e0d\u53ea\u8981\u6709\u7a69\u5b9a\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u8981\u4ea4\u500b\u5973\u670b\u53cb\u3001\u8a0e\u500b\u8001\u5a46\uff0c\u9084\u9700\u8981\u6709\u61c2\u5f97\u6e9d\u901a\u7684\u80fd\u529b\u3002\u73fe\u5728\u5373\u4f7f\u662f\u5de5\u7a0b\u5e2b\u6708\u5165\u4e94\u842c\u4ee5\u4e0a\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u4ea4\u5f97\u5230\u5973\u670b\u53cb\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u6f38\u6f38\u5730\u9023\u7537\u5973\u5e02\u5834\u90fd\u958b\u59cb\u8b8a\u6210\u4e86\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s2\">80\/20\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u6cd5\u5247\uff0c\u89c0\u5ff5\u65e5\u6f38\u81ea\u7531\u3001\u8a8d\u8b58\u7570\u6027\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u900f\u904e\u7db2\u8def\u7684\u72c0\u6cc1\u4e0b\uff0c\u53d7\u6b61\u8fce\u7684\u7537\u4eba\u53ef\u80fd\u53ef\u4ee5\u5468\u65cb\u65bc\u597d\u5e7e\u500b\u5973\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u7d66\u4e0b\u4efb\u4f55\u627f\u8afe\u3002\u4f46\u4e0d\u61c2\u5f97\u6e9d\u901a\u3001\u8b80\u4eba\u5fc3\u7684\u7537\u4eba\uff0c\u5247\u53ef\u80fd\u4e00\u76f4\u5230\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s2\">30\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u6b72\u90fd\u6c92\u6709\u6200\u611b\u7d93\u9a57\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u5982\u679c\u60f3\u8981\u4e00\u500b\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u53d7\u5230\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u611b\u6200\u662f\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u6771\u897f\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e00\u76f4\u90fd\u5f97\u4e0d\u5230\uff0c\u5225\u4eba\u537b\u53ef\u4ee5\uff0c\u4e00\u76f4\u602a\u7f6a\u65bc\u74b0\u5883\u3001\u4ed6\u4eba\u3001\u6216\u662f\u5ba2\u89c0\u689d\u4ef6\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u975e\u5e38\u611a\u8822\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u9019\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u5145\u6eff\u8457\u5404\u7a2e\u4eba\u3002\u53d7\u6b61\u8fce\u7684\u4eba\u5404\u7a2e\u985e\u578b\u90fd\u6709\uff0c\u6709\u5ba2\u89c0\u689d\u4ef6\u4e0d\u4f73\u7684\u3001\u4e5f\u6709\u5ba2\u89c0\u689d\u4ef6\u597d\u7684\uff0c\u4e0d\u53d7\u6b61\u8fce\u7684\u4eba\u4e5f\u6709\u5404\u7a2e\u985e\u578b\uff0c\u6709\u5ba2\u89c0\u689d\u4ef6\u4e0d\u4f73\u7684\u3001\u4e5f\u6709\u5ba2\u89c0\u689d\u4ef6\u597d\u7684\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u5148\u5929\u8207\u5f8c\u5929\u7684\u689d\u4ef6\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u6240\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f7f\u7528\u7684\u7b56\u7565\u4e5f\u4e0d\u540c\u3002\u5404\u6709\u512a\u52e2\u8207\u52a3\u52e2\uff0c\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u54ea\u7a2e\u5c31\u6bd4\u8f03\u597d\uff0c\u91cd\u9ede\u662f\u80fd\u4e0d\u80fd\u597d\u597d\u5229\u7528\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u52a3\u52e2\u8b8a\u6210\u512a\u52e2\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u90a3\u9ebc\u4e00\u76f4\u300c\u627e\u4e0d\u5230\u300d\u9069\u5408\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\u6709\u5e7e\u500b\u95dc\u9375\u539f\u56e0\uff1a<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span style=\"color: #800000\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>1.\u00a0 <\/b><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>\u751f\u6d3b\u5708\u592a\u5c0f\uff0c\u53c8\u4e0d\u9858\u610f\u53bb\u62d3\u5c55<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span 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class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u901a\u5e38\u4eba\u7de3\u6700\u597d\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u64c1\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u597d\u670b\u53cb\u6709\u4eba\u6436\u8457\u4ecb\u7d39\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u90fd\u4e0d\u662f\u9577\u5f97\u6700\u597d\u770b\u7684\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u95dc\u9375\u5728\u65bc\u80a2\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\u8207\u5fc3\u614b\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u59b3\u9577\u5f97\u5982\u4f55\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u53ea\u8981\u61c2\u5f97\u53bb\u8a13\u7df4\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u80a2\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\uff0c\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f88\u6709\u9b45\u529b\u3001\u8b93\u4eba\u60f3\u8981\u4e3b\u52d5\u89aa\u8fd1\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u300c\u6703\u5fc3\u52d5\u7684\u5c0d\u8c61\u90fd\u4e0d\u6562\u60f3\u4e0d\u6562\u884c\u52d5\uff0c\u4e0d\u6703\u5fc3\u52d5\u7684\u6211\u53c8\u6c92\u8208\u8da3\u53c8\u4e0d\u7b26\u5408\u6211\u7684\u6a19\u6e96\u300d\u3002\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u904e\u5c31\u662f\u751f\u6d3b\u5708\u592a\u5c0f\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u559c\u6b61\u7684\u537b\u53c8\u4ec0\u9ebc\u90fd\u4e0d\u6562\u505a\u800c\u5df2\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span style=\"color: #800000\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>2. <\/b><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>\u773c\u9ad8\u624b\u4f4e<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span 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class=\"s1\">\u5982\u679c\u59b3\u4e00\u76f4\u6c92\u6709\u8fa6\u6cd5\u5438\u5f15\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u559c\u6b61\u7684\u5c0d\u8c61\uff0c\u4e0d\u5c31\u662f\u5169\u7a2e\u9078\u64c7\uff0c\u4e00\u3001\u63a5\u53d7\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u4e0d\u6eff\u610f\u7684\uff0c\u4e8c\u3001\u52aa\u529b\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9b45\u529b\u589e\u52a0\uff08\u9b45\u529b\u4e26\u975e\u8ddf\u5916\u8868\u5283\u4e0a\u7b49\u865f\uff09\uff0c\u4e0d\u96a8\u4fbf\u52d5\u6416\u3002\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u7b2c\u4e00\u7a2e\u4e5f\u4e0d\u9858\u610f\u3001\u7b2c\u4e8c\u7a2e\u4e5f\u4e0d\u9858\u610f\uff0c\u5c31\u4e00\u76f4\u5361\u4f4f\uff0c\u5361\u4f4f\u5230\u6700\u5f8c\u5c31\u8b8a\u6210\u4e86\u73fe\u4ee3\u6240\u8b02\u7684\u300c\u5269\u5973\u300d\u3002\u5269\u7537\u5269\u5973\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u932f\uff0c\u5269\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u73fe\u8c61\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u4e0d\u60f3\u8981\u4f34\u4fb6\uff08\u7576\u7136\u662f\u5728\u6c92\u9a19\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u72c0\u6cc1\u4e0b\uff09\u90a3\u6c92\u6709\u4f34\u4fb6\u5c31\u4e0d\u7b97\u662f\u5269\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u60f3\u8981\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u537b\u4e00\u76f4\u7121\u6cd5\u627e\u5230\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u90a3\u6a23\u624d\u80fd\u7a31\u4e4b\u70ba\u5269\u7537\u6216\u5269\u5973\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u9019\u4e26\u975e\u6027\u5225\u6b67\u8996\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u5269\u7537\u8ddf\u5269\u5973\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u4e00\u6a23\u7684\u610f\u601d\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_71549\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-71549\" class=\"wp-image-71549 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/02\/womans-personalities-flowering.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"401\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-71549\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo via<a href=\"https:\/\/visualhunt.com\/photo\/189857\/\"> VisualHunt<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span style=\"color: #800000\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>3. <\/b><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>\u4e0d\u5bb9\u6613\u5fc3\u52d5<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u7684\u78ba\u6709\u4e0d\u5bb9\u6613\u5fc3\u52d5\u7684\u4eba\u5728\uff0c\u4f46\u7562\u7adf\u5f15\u767c\u611f\u89ba\u90fd\u662f\u5f9e\u81ea\u8eab\u7684\u6295\u5c04\u800c\u4f86\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u59b3\u5c0d\u8ab0\u90fd\u4e0d\u6eff\u610f\uff0c\u89ba\u5f97\u8ab0\u90fd\u4e0d\u5c0d\uff0c\u5728\u6d77\u82d4\u718a\u7684\u9019\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0<a href=\"http:\/\/womany.net\/read\/article\/8719?type=author\"><span class=\"s5\">\u611b\u60c5\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u544a\u8a34\u4f60\uff1a\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff0c\u7e3d\u662f\u9047\u4e0d\u5230\u5c0d\u7684\u4eba\uff1f<\/span><\/a><\/span> <span class=\"s1\">\u8aaa\u5230\uff1a<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><span class=\"s1\">\u300c\u7576\u59b3\u6068\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\uff0c\u59b3\u6068\u7684\u662f\u5728\u4ed6\u8eab\u4e0a\u770b\u898b\u5c6c\u65bc\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u67d0\u500b\u90e8\u5206\u3002\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e0d\u5c6c\u65bc\u6211\u5011\u81ea\u5df1\u90e8\u5206\u7684\u6771\u897f\uff0c\u4e0d\u6703\u56f0\u64fe\u6211\u5011\u3002\u300d<\/span><span class=\"s6\">\u2014\u2014<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u8d6b\u66fc<\/span><span class=\"s6\">\u00b7<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u8d6b\u585e\uff08<\/span><span class=\"s6\">\u00a0Hermann Hesse <\/span><span class=\"s1\">\uff09<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">\u300c\u6216\u8a31\u9084\u6709\u4e00\u7a2e\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\uff0c\u90a3\u4e9b\u7e3d\u662f\u4e0d\u6eff\u610f\u81ea\u5df1\u8eab\u908a\u9047\u5230\u5c0d\u8c61\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u771f\u6b63\u4e0d\u6eff\u610f\u7684\uff0c\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u3002\u5979\u5011\u5c07\u4e00\u90e8\u5206\u58de\u7684\u81ea\u6211\uff0c\u6295\u5c04\u5230\u5225\u4eba\u8eab\u4e0a\uff0c\u85c9\u7531\u6311\u5254\u3001\u6028\u6068\u90a3\u500b\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u4f86\u548c\u9019\u500b\u4e16\u754c\u5efa\u7acb\u4e00\u4e9b\u9023\u7d50\u548c\u63a7\u5236<\/span><span class=\"s6\">\u2026\u2026<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u300d\u5728\u8a0e\u8ad6\u7684\u6700\u5f8c\uff0c\u4e00\u500b\u5973\u5b69\u9ed8\u9ed8\u5730\u8209\u624b\u3002\u5176\u5be6\uff0c\u9019\u5c31\u662f\u514b\u840a\u6069\u5b78\u6d3e\u6700\u8457\u540d\u7684\u89c0\u9ede<\/span><span class=\"s6\">\u2014\u2014<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u6295\u5c04\u6027\u8a8d\u540c\uff08<\/span><span class=\"s6\"> projective identification <\/span><span class=\"s1\">\uff09<\/span><span class=\"s6\">\u2014\u2014<\/span><strong><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #800000\">\u628a\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u3001\u4e0d\u80fd\u63a5\u53d7\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u6392\u9664\u5728\u5916\uff0c\u4e26\u4e14\u6295\u5c04\u5728\u5225\u4eba\u8eab\u4e0a\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u6211\u5011\u5c0d\u8ab0\u90fd\u4e0d\u6eff\u610f\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u6eff\u610f\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u559c\u6b61\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4eba\u4e5f\u63a5\u53d7\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u5b8c\u7f8e\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u767c\u73fe\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u512a\u9ede\uff0c\u4e5f\u6bd4\u8f03\u5bb9\u6613\u5305\u5bb9\u4ed6\u4eba\uff0c\u4e5f\u5bb9\u6613\u6b23\u8cde\u3001\u559c\u6b61\u5225\u4eba\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u5982\u679c\u60f3\u8981\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u64c1\u6709\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u9078\u64c7\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u591a\u53bb\u8a8d\u8b58\u512a\u79c0\u7684\u4eba\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u66f4\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u958b\u59cb\u8a66\u8457\u4e5f\u63a5\u7d0d\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5168\u90e8\u3002\u4e5f\u5c31\u66f4\u5bb9\u6613\u53bb\u770b\u5230\u4ed6\u4eba\u503c\u5f97\u59b3\u89ba\u5f97\u6b23\u8cde\u3001\u559c\u6b61\u7684\u5730\u65b9\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span style=\"color: #800000\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>4. <\/b><\/span><span class=\"s4\"><b>\u4e0d\u9858\u610f\u6539\u8b8a<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u5728\u5438\u5f15\u4e0a\u6c92\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u7279\u5225\u7684\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u7e3d\u5728\u8ddf\u559c\u6b61\u7684\u4eba\u4ea4\u5f80\u4e4b\u5f8c\uff0c\u89ba\u5f97\u5408\u4e0d\u4f86\uff0c\u7e3d\u89ba\u5f97\u90fd\u662f\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u932f\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u90fd\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u9047\u4e0d\u5230\u597d\u7537\u4eba\uff0c\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6bcf\u500b\u9047\u5230\u7684\u4eba\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u90fd\u4e0d\u5920\u597d\uff1f\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u627e\u4e0d\u5230\u4e00\u500b\u5929\u751f\u5c31\u5f88\u5408\u5f97\u4f86\u7684\u4eba\u5462\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u6c92\u6709\u4eba\u5929\u751f\u5c31\u5408\u5f97\u4f86\uff0c\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u672c\u4f86\u5c31\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u5730\u65b9\u3002\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u59b3\u300c\u8001\u662f\u300d\u9047\u5230\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u6700\u8a72\u6539\u8b8a\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u56e0\u70ba\u5728\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u9019\u5834\u6232\u5287\u88e1\uff0c\u552f\u4e00\u4e0d\u8b8a\u7684\u4e3b\u89d2\u5c31\u662f\u59b3\u81ea\u5df1\u3002\u5c24\u5176\u662f\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u4efb\u4f55\u7d50\u679c\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u90fd\u5fc5\u9808\u8981\u81f3\u5c11\u8ca0\u8d77\u4e00\u534a\u7684\u8cac\u4efb\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6c92\u6709\u59b3\uff0c\u5728\u59b3\u8eab\u4e0a\u767c\u751f\u7684\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u554f\u984c\u5c31\u4e0d\u6703\u767c\u751f\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u5982\u679c\u59b3\u8001\u662f\u559c\u6b61\u6aa2\u8a0e\u4ed6\u4eba\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u6aa2\u8a0e\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u5df2\u7d93\u5f88\u597d\u4e86\uff0c\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4ea4\u5f80\u5c0d\u8c61\u8981\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u9019\u6a23\uff1f\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e0d\u9858\u610f\u7406\u89e3\u81ea\u5df1\uff1f\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e8b\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u90fd\u53ea\u80fd\u5f9e\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u8d77\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eba\u624d\u6703\u7528\u540c\u6a23\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u5c0d\u5f85\u6211\u5011\uff0c\u300c\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u597d\u300d\u5176\u5be6\u53ea\u80fd\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u8aaa\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u7b26\u5408\u6700\u5f8c\u4e00\u9ede\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u5c31\u662f\u6b63\u5728\u770b\u9019\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u537b\u51b7\u54fc\u8aaa\u300c\u6211\u627e\u4e0d\u5230\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u624d\u4e0d\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u9019\u6a23\uff0c\u6211\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\u6bd4\u8f03\u7279\u5225\u300d\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u518d\u5f37\u8abf\u4e00\u6b21\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u59b3\u4e0d\u60f3\u8981\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u90a3\u9ebc\u6211\u8aaa\u7684\u9019\u4e9b\u5176\u5be6\u5c0d\u59b3\u4f86\u8aaa\u6839\u672c\u662f\u5783\u573e\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u59b3\u60f3\u8981\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u537b\u4e00\u76f4\u6c92\u6709\u8fa6\u6cd5\u5f97\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u60f3\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u8a8d\u6e05\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u554f\u984c\u9ede\uff0c\u9700\u8981\u6539\u5584\u7684\u5730\u65b9\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u624d\u662f\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u80fd\u5920\u5f97\u5230\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u6771\u897f\u4e26\u4e14\u66f4\u5feb\u6a02\u7684\u6700\u4f73\u89e3\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u59b3\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u59a5\u5354\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f97\u5230\u59b3\u5fc3\u76ee\u4e2d\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u5e78\u798f\uff0c\u95dc\u9375\u662f\u5728\u65bc\u59b3\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u53bb\u7406\u89e3\u3001\u61c9\u7528\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u4eba\u969b\u771f\u76f8\uff0c\u5ba2\u89c0\u8a8d\u77e5\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u554f\u984c\u9ede\u3001\u72c0\u6cc1\u3001\u7acb\u5834\uff0c\u4e26\u4e14\u597d\u597d\u770b\u6e05\u695a\u56e0\u679c\uff0c\u800c\u975e\u8ad6\u65b7\u4e8b\u7269\u7684\u597d\u58de\u5c0d\u932f\uff0c\u8a66\u5716\u628a\u932f\u8207\u5c0d\u6b78\u56e0\uff0c\u90a3\u5176\u5be6\u5c0d\u65bc\u300c\u60f3\u8981\u5f97\u5230\u6eff\u610f\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\u300d\u9019\u4ef6\u60c5\u4e0a\u9762\uff0c\u4e00\u9ede\u5e6b\u52a9\u90fd\u6c92\u6709\u54e6\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>\u60f3\u770b\u66f4\u591a\u300c\u5e78\u798f\u79d8\u8a23\u300d\uff0c\u5feb\u4f86\u8ffd\u8e64 <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/2HKlzAD\">VidaOrange \u751f\u6d3b\u5831\u6a58<\/a><\/h2>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><strong>\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/11\/09\/being-single-is-not-bad\/\"><span class=\"s1\">7 <\/span><span class=\"s2\">\u5f35\u63d2\u5716\u544a\u8a34\u4f60\uff0c\u55ae\u8eab\u5f88\u4e45\u4e5f\u8981\u5805\u6301\u300c\u5be7\u7f3a\u52ff\u6feb\u300d<br \/>\n<\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/11\/07\/singal\/\"><span class=\"s1\">\u770b\u8457\u8eab\u908a\u670b\u53cb\u90fd\u7d50\u5a5a\u4e86\uff0c\u6211\u55ae\u8eab\u537b\u5b78\u5230\u4e86<\/span><span class=\"s2\"> 10 <\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u500b\u4eba\u751f\u8ab2\u984c<br \/>\n<\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/11\/27\/single-women\/\"><span class=\"s1\">\u55ae\u8eab\u5973\u5b50\u7684<\/span><span class=\"s2\"> 15 <\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u500b\u5c0f\u5287\u5834\uff1a\u55ae\u8eab\u662f\u7a2e\u9078\u64c7\uff0c\u4f46\u4e0d\u662f\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u9078\u7684<\/span><span 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