{"id":8500,"date":"2017-02-16T13:26:40","date_gmt":"2017-02-16T05:26:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/02\/16\/emotional-backmail\/"},"modified":"2021-07-30T16:57:31","modified_gmt":"2021-07-30T08:57:31","slug":"emotional-backmail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/02\/16\/emotional-backmail\/","title":{"rendered":"\u7e3d\u662f\u611f\u89ba\u300c\u8ddf\u4ed6\u76f8\u8655\u597d\u7d2f\u300d\uff1f4 \u7a2e\u5178\u578b\u7684\u4eba\u5bb9\u6613\u88ab\u300c\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u300d\uff0c\u5225\u518d\u7576\u597d\u4eba\u4e86"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\">\u300aVO\u300b\u5c0e\u8b80\uff1a<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">\u300c\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u300d\uff08Emotional Blackmail\uff09\u9019\u500b\u540d\u8a5e\u662f<span class=\"s1\">\u570b\u5916\u5b78\u8005\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s2\">Susan Forward 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class=\"s1\">\u4f46\u5982\u679c\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u89ba\u5f97\u300c\u62d2\u7d55\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u90a3\u4ee3\u8868\u6211\u5011\u662f\u500b\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u4eba\u300d\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u5c31\u5f88\u96e3\u5b78\u6703\u5c0d\u300c\u4e0d\u5408\u7406\u7684\u8981\u6c42\u300d\u62d2\u7d55\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u800c\u6211\u5011\u5c31\u6703\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u6210\u70ba\uff1a\u9ed8\u8a31\u300c\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u8005\u300d\u5c0d\u6211\u5011\u70ba\u6240\u6b32\u70ba\u7684\u300c\u88ab\u52d2\u7d22\u8005\u300d\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u4f60\u662f\u5426\u60f3\u904e\uff1a\u300c\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6211\u60f3\u8981\u7576\u597d\u4eba\uff1f\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span 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class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u5f88\u591a\u7fd2\u6163\u81ea\u6211\u61f7\u7591\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u5c0d\u65bc\u7f6a\u60e1\u611f\u5f88\u654f\u611f\uff0c\u8cac\u4efb\u611f\u4e5f\u5f88\u91cd\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u53ef\u80fd\u5728\u904e\u53bb\u7d93\u9a57\u88e1\uff0c\u81ea\u6211\u61f7\u7591\u8005\u5b78\u6703\u4e86\u627f\u63a5\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u8cac\u4efb\u3002\u4ed6\u5011\u53ef\u80fd\u5728\u9ad8\u6a19\u6e96\u7684\u74b0\u5883\u4e2d\u9577\u5927\uff0c\u6642\u5e38\u64d4\u5fc3\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u6703\u9020\u6210\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u56f0\u64fe\u3001\u6127\u5c0d\u5225\u4eba\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u4ed6\u5011\u6c92\u6709\u8db3\u5920\u7684\u81ea\u4fe1\uff0c\u7e3d\u64d4\u5fc3\u300c\u9ebb\u7169\u300d\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u64d4\u5fc3\u5225\u4eba\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u80fd\u529b\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u6216\u5c0d\u4e0d\u8d77\u5225\u4eba<\/span><span class=\"s2\">\u22ef\u22ef<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u9019\u7a2e\u6642\u5e38\u5b58\u5728\u7684\u300c\u81ea\u6211\u61f7\u7591\u300d\u8207\u300c\u7f6a\u60e1\u611f\u300d\uff0c\u5e38\u4f7f\u8207\u4ed6\u5011\u4e92\u52d5\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u8005\u55c5\u5230\uff0c\u800c\u6210\u70ba\u958b\u59cb\u4e00\u6bb5\u300c\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u95dc\u4fc2\u300d\u7684\u95dc\u9375\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Type 3. \u904e\u5ea6\u5728\u4e4e\u5225\u4eba\u611f\u53d7<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span 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class=\"s1\">\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u7576\u6211\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u9047\u5230\u906d\u9047\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u3001\u6df1\u9677\u5176\u4e2d\u800c\u75db\u82e6\u4e0d\u5df2\u7684\u4eba\u5011\uff0c\u5e38\u6703\u767c\u73fe\u4ed6\u5011\u6709\u4e00\u7a2e\u5171\u540c\u7684\u7279\u8cea\uff1a\u5728\u4e4e\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span 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class=\"s1\">\u751a\u81f3\u4ee5\u5225\u4eba\u611f\u53d7\u70ba\u9996\u8981\uff0c\u5b8c\u5168\u5ffd\u7565\u4e86\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u90a3\u9ebc\uff0c\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5728\u4eba\u969b\u4e92\u52d5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\uff0c\u6216\u8a31\u5e38\u5e38\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u975e\u5e38\u8f9b\u82e6\u3002\u4ed6\u5011\u7121\u6cd5\u4e0d\u5728\u4e4e\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u4e00\u65e6\u5225\u4eba\u5c0d\u4ed6\u5011\u8868\u9054\u5931\u671b\u3001\u751f\u6c23\u3001\u96e3\u904e\u7b49\u8ca0\u9762\u60c5\u7dd2\uff0c\u90fd\u6703\u8b93\u9019\u4e9b\u300c\u6975\u70ba\u5728\u4e4e\u5225\u4eba\u611f\u53d7\u7684\u4eba\u300d\u4e0d\u5b89\u3001\u5bb3\u6015\u3002\u4ed6\u5011\u6703\u64d4\u5fc3\uff1a\u662f\u5426\u56e0\u70ba\u81ea\u5df1\u6c92\u6709\u505a\u597d\u3001\u4e0d\u5920\u9ad4\u8cbc\uff0c\u4f7f\u5f97\u5225\u4eba\u6709\u9019\u4e9b\u8ca0\u9762\u60c5\u7dd2\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u7576\u5225\u4eba\u5c0d\u4ed6\u5011\u63d0\u51fa\u8981\u6c42\u6642\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u6703\u5bb3\u6015\u770b\u5230\u5225\u4eba\u5931\u671b\u7684\u8868\u60c5\uff0c\u66f4\u5bb3\u6015\u56e0\u800c\u885d\u7a81\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u88ab\u5c0d\u65b9\u8a0e\u53ad\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u81ea\u5df1\u767e\u822c\u4e0d\u9858\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u9084\u662f\u6703\u52c9\u5f37\u81ea\u5df1\u7b54\u61c9\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u9019\u4e9b\u300c\u904e\u65bc\u5728\u4e4e\u5225\u4eba\u611f\u53d7\u300d\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u4e0d\u6562\u5ffd\u7565\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u4efb\u4f55\u4e00\u500b\u7d30\u5fae\u8868\u60c5\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u6025\u65bc\u53d6\u6085\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u4f46\u537b\u5728\u904e\u7a0b\u4e2d\u5ffd\u7565\u4e86\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u59d4\u5c48\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Type 4. \u5e0c\u671b\u7372\u5f97\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u80af\u5b9a<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u7576\u6211\u5011\u6aa2\u8996\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u4e92\u52d5\u95dc\u4fc2\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u6703\u767c\u73fe\uff0c\u5728\u9019\u4e9b\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\uff0c\u300c\u4e0a\u5c0d\u4e0b\u95dc\u4fc2\u300d\u662f\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u4e2d\u5f88\u5e38\u898b\uff0c\u537b\u4e5f\u662f\u6700\u96e3\u6399\u812b\u7684\u4e92\u52d5\u5faa\u74b0\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u6240\u8b02\u300c\u4e0a\u5c0d\u4e0b\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u300d\uff0c\u6307\u7684\u662f\u7236\u6bcd\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u3001\u4e0a\u53f8\u5c0d\u4e0b\u5c6c\u3001\u8001\u5e2b\u5c0d\u5b78\u751f<\/span><span class=\"s2\">\u22ef\u22ef<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u9019\u7a2e\u660e\u986f\u6709\u300c\u6b0a\u529b\u4f4d\u968e\u300d\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002\u6709\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u5728\u4f34\u4fb6\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\uff0c\u4e5f\u5e38\u898b\u9019\u7a2e\u96b1\u6027\u7684\u6b0a\u529b\u4f4d\u968e\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u7576\u51fa\u73fe\u9019\u7a2e\u6b0a\u529b\u95dc\u4fc2\u6642\uff0c\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u6700\u5927\u7684\u7279\u8272\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u300c\u6709\u4e00\u65b9\u53ef\u4ee5\u5b9a\u7fa9\u3001\u8a55\u50f9\u53e6\u4e00\u65b9\uff0c\u800c\u7531\u65bc\u9019\u500b\u6b0a\u529b\u4f4d\u968e\u7684\u5f71\u97ff\uff0c\u53e6\u4e00\u65b9\u4e0d\u5f97\u4e0d\u63a5\u53d7\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8a55\u50f9\u300d\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u5982\u679c\uff0c\u9019\u500b\u6642\u5e38\u88ab\u5b9a\u7fa9\u3001\u8a55\u50f9\u7684\u4e00\u65b9\uff0c\u662f\u500b\u5f88\u5728\u610f\u5225\u4eba\u770b\u6cd5\uff0c\u5e0c\u671b\u7372\u5f97\u5225\u4eba\u80af\u5b9a\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5c31\u66f4\u5bb9\u6613\u9677\u5728\u9019\u500b\u4e92\u52d5\u88e1\u9762\u3002\u56e0\u70ba\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u662f\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u4e0b\u610f\u8b58\u5730\u53bb\u78ba\u8a8d\u5c0d\u65b9\u5c0d\u4f60\u7684\u8a55\u50f9\u8207\u770b\u6cd5\uff0c\u4f60\u6703\u52aa\u529b\u505a\u4e00\u4e9b\u4e8b\uff0c\u53ea\u70ba\u4e86\u80fd\u5920\u5f97\u5230\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u80af\u5b9a\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u5371\u96aa\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u9019\u500b\u300c\u4e0a\u300d\uff0c\u4e5f\u5c31\u662f\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u6b0a\u529b\u64c1\u6709\u8005\uff0c\u4ed6\u662f\u500b\u5177\u6709\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u8005\u7279\u8cea\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u90a3\u9ebc\uff0c\u4f60\u9677\u5165\u60c5\u7dd2\u52d2\u7d22\u7684\u53ef\u80fd\u6027\uff0c\u5c31\u6703\u8b8a\u5f97\u975e\u5e38\u9ad8\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span 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