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[1]<\/span>\u771f\u8aa0\u76f8\u5f85\uff0c\u95dc\u4fc2\u624d\u6703\u597d\uff1a<\/span>Brunell, A. B., et al. (2010). \"Dispositional authenticity and romantic relationship functioning.\" <\/span>Personality and Individual Differences 48<\/b>(8): 900-905.\r\n<\/span>[2]<\/span>\u4e09\u7a2e\u9003\u907f\u611b\uff0c\u537b\u53cd\u800c\u5bc2\u5bde\u7684\u4eba<\/span>http:\/\/womany.net\/read\/article\/4160\r\n<\/span>[4]<\/span>\u300c\u4e0d\u505a\u7684\u5f8c\u6094\u300d\uff08<\/span>Inaction regret<\/span>\uff09\u6bd4\u8f03\u5f8c\u6094<\/span>http:\/\/blog.xuite.net\/haitaibear\/wretch\/96375397\r\n<\/span>[4]<\/span>\u544a\u767d\u5931\u6557\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u53ef\u80fd\u7576\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\uff0c\u4ecd\u7136\u662f\u771f\u8aa0http:\/\/pansci.tw\/archives\/45976<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/pre>\n
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