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\"koerpersprache-unbewusste-gesten-und-signale\"<\/p>\n

\u3010\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6211\u5011\u8981\u6311\u9078\u9019\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u3011<\/span>\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4e8b\u9032\u5165\u4e00\u500b\u65b0\u74b0\u5883\u3001\u53c3\u52a0\u7814\u8a0e\u6703\u3001\u9084\u662f\u7c21\u55ae\u7684\u8a8d\u8b58\u8ddf\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u300c\u81ea\u6211\u4ecb\u7d39\u300d\u9019\u500b\u6d41\u7a0b\u4f34\u96a8\u8457\u6211\u5011\u6210\u9577\u3002\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u96a8\u8457\u5e74\u7d00\u589e\u52a0\uff0c\u4f60\u82f1\u6587\u81ea\u6211\u4ecb\u7d39\u6709\u9032\u6b65\u55ce\uff1f\u505c\u7559\u5728\u4f4f\u5728\u54ea\u88e1\u3001\u4ecb\u7d39\u5bb6\u88e1\u6709\u5e7e\u500b\u4eba……\u5c31\u592a\u905c\u4e86\uff0c\u8a66\u8457\u591a\u591a\u6558\u8ff0\u4f60\u8207\u773e\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u500b\u6027\u5427\uff01\u5927\u5bb6\u6703\u5c0d\u4f60\u66f4\u6709\u8208\u8da3\u7684\u3002\uff08\u8cac\u4efb\u7de8\u8f2f\uff1a\u5433\u73b2\u7444\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u5e7d\u9ed8\uff0c\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u5fc3\u667a\u6210\u719f\u7684\u8868\u73fe\uff0c\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u6e9d\u901a\u8868\u9054\u7684\u85dd\u8853\u3002\u5728\u5c37\u5c2c\u7684\u5834\u5408\uff0c\u8b93\u60c5\u52e2\u5316\u96aa\u70ba\u5937\uff0c\u5316\u5371\u6a5f\u70ba\u8f49\u6a5f\u3002\u5e7d\u9ed8\u5f15\u4eba\u7b11\uff0c\u5f15\u4eba\u7b11\u8005\uff0c\u537b\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u90fd\u662f\u5e7d\u9ed8\uff1b\u5584\u5e7d\u9ed8\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5fc5\u7136\u4e0d\u662f\u821e\u6587\u5f04\u58a8\uff0c\u4e5f\u7d55\u975e\u6ed1\u7a3d\u641e\u7b11\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5c07\u5e7d\u9ed8\u8996\u70ba\u4e00\u7a2e\u5927\u667a\u6167\u7684\u683c\u5c40\uff0c\u8b93\u6240\u8655\u7684\u74b0\u5883\u589e\u6dfb\u8f15\u9b06\u7684\u6c1b\u570d\u3001\u6563\u767c\u5149\u5f69\uff0c\u70ba\u5e73\u6de1\u7684\u65e5\u5e38\u9ede\u7db4\u4e00\u62b9\u7b11\u5bb9\u3002<\/p>\n

1. \u5c0f\u592a\u967d self-enhancing humor<\/h2>\n

\u4ed6\u5011\u6b23\u8cde\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u4e0d\u5b8c\u7f8e\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u9762\u5c0d\u56f0\u96e3\u8207\u632b\u6557\uff0c\u4f9d\u820a\u80fd\u5f80\u597d\u8655\u60f3\uff0c\u60c5\u7dd2\u63a7\u7ba1\u826f\u597d\uff0c\u8207\u58d3\u529b\u5171\u8655\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u80fd\u5e7d\u9ed8\u4ee5\u5c0d\uff0c\u500b\u6027\u6a02\u89c0\u3002<\/p>\n

\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u662f…<\/p>\n

If I am feeling depressed, I can usually cheer myself up with humor.<\/span>
\n\u5047\u5982\u6211\u5f88\u6cae\u55aa\uff0c\u6211\u901a\u5e38\u6703\u4ee5\u5e7d\u9ed8\u4f86\u63d0\u632f\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n

Even when I’m by myself, I’m often amused by the absurdities of life.<\/span>
\n\u5c31\u7b97\u53ea\u6709\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u7368\u8655\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u5e38\u80fd\u4ee5\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u7684\u8352\u8b2c\u4e8b\u7269\u81ea\u5a1b\u3002<\/p>\n

If I am feeling upset or unhappy I usually try to think of something funny about the situation to make myself feel better.<\/span>
\n\u5047\u5982\u6211\u4e0d\u9ad8\u8208\u6216\u4e0d\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u6211\u901a\u5e38\u6703\u8a66\u8457\u60f3\u60f3\u9019\u500b\u60c5\u5883\u7684\u597d\u7b11\u4e4b\u8655\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u5fc3\u60c5\u8b8a\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n

It is my experience that thinking about some amusing aspect of a situation is often a very effective way of coping with problems.<\/span>
\n\u6211\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\u767c\u73fe\uff1a\u60f3\u60f3\u60c5\u5883\u4e2d\u7684\u597d\u7b11\u7684\u4e00\u9762\u662f\u8b93\u6211\u6709\u6548\u8655\u7406\u554f\u984c\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u3002<\/p>\n

I don’t need to be with other people to feel amused-I can usually find things to laugh about even when I’m by myself.<\/span>
\n\u6211\u4e0d\u5fc5\u548c\u5225\u4eba\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u624d\u6703\u611f\u5230\u6109\u5feb–\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u7368\u8655\u6642\u4e5f\u901a\u5e38\u80fd\u767c\u73fe\u597d\u7b11\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\u3002<\/p>\n

2. \u9047\u5f31\u5247\u5f37 aggressive humor<\/h2>\n

\u9019\u985e\u578b\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u901a\u5e38\u662f\u7528\u8cb6\u6291\u3001\u5632\u7b11\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u4f86\u9054\u5230\u7b11\u679c\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u63d0\u6607\u4ed6\u5011\u81ea\u5c0a\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u8b1b\u7684\u7b11\u8a71\u5e38\u593e\u5e36\u5632\u8af7\u610f\u5473\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u592a\u5728\u4e4e\u5225\u4eba\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u53d7\u50b7\uff0c\u7279\u5225\u50cf\u662f\u7a2e\u65cf\u6b67\u8996\u3001\u523b\u677f\u5370\u8c61\u7684\u8a71\u984c\u3002<\/p>\n

\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u662f …<\/p>\n

If someone makes a mistake, I will often tease them about it.<\/span>
\n\u5047\u5982\u6709\u4eba\u72af\u932f,\u6211\u901a\u5e38\u6703\u5632\u7b11\u4ed6\u5011\u3002<\/p>\n

Sometimes I think of something that is so funny that I can’t stop myself from saying it, even if it is not appropriate for the situation.<\/span>
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People are never offended or hurt by my sense of humor.<\/span>
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If I don’t like someone, I often use humor or teasing to put them down.<\/span>
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3. \u5373\u8208\u767c\u63ee affiliative humor<\/h2>\n

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\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u662f …<\/p>\n

I usually don’t laugh or joke around much with other people.<\/span>
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I usually don’t like to tell jokes or amuse people.<\/span>
\n\u6211\u901a\u5e38\u4e0d\u559c\u6b61\u8b1b\u7b11\u8a71\u4f86\u5a1b\u6a02\u5225\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n

I enjoy making people laugh.<\/span>
\n\u6211\u6703\u5f88\u9ad8\u8208\u80fd\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u767c\u7b11\u3002<\/p>\n

I rarely make other people laugh by telling funny stories about myself.<\/span>
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4. \u628a\u60b2\u50b7\u7559\u7d66\u81ea\u5df1 self-defeating humor<\/h2>\n

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\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u662f …<\/p>\n

I will often get carried away in putting myself down if it makes my family or friends laugh.<\/span>
\n\u6211\u5e38\u5e38\u70ba\u4e86\u8b93\u5bb6\u4eba\u6216\u670b\u53cb\u767c\u7b11\u800c\u81ea\u6211\u8cb6\u6291\u5230\u7121\u6cd5\u81ea\u62d4\u7684\u5730\u6b65\u3002<\/p>\n

I often try to make people like or accept me more by saying something funny about my own weakness, blunders, or faults.<\/span>
\n\u6211\u5e38\u5e38\u70ba\u4e86\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u66f4\u559c\u6b61\u6211\u6216\u63a5\u53d7\u6211\uff0c\u800c\u628a\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5f31\u9ede\u3001\u7cd7\u4e8b\u6216\u932f\u8aa4\u7576\u6210\u7b11\u8a71\u8aaa\u7d66\u4ed6\u5011\u807d\u3002<\/p>\n

When I am with friends or family, I often seem to be the one that<\/span>
\n other people make fun of or joke about.<\/span>
\n\u7576\u6211\u548c\u670b\u53cb\u6216\u5bb6\u4eba\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u7d93\u5e38\u662f\u90a3\u500b\u88ab\u5225\u4eba\u5632\u7b11\u6216\u958b\u73a9\u7b11\u7684\u5c0d\u8c61\u3002<\/p>\n

If I am having problems or feeling unhappy, I often cover it up by joking around, so that even my closest friends don\u2019t know how I really feel.<\/span>
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—<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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