{"id":7067,"date":"2016-07-26T10:05:12","date_gmt":"2016-07-26T02:05:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/07\/26\/parents-intervention-will-lead-children-self-critical\/"},"modified":"2016-07-26T10:05:12","modified_gmt":"2016-07-26T02:05:12","slug":"parents-intervention-will-lead-children-self-critical","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/07\/26\/parents-intervention-will-lead-children-self-critical\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5b69\u5b50\u60b2\u89c0\u3001\u8f15\u8a00\u653e\u68c4\u3001\u81ea\u6bba\u50be\u5411\u90fd\u602a\u7236\u6bcd\uff01\u300c\u4fdd\u8b77\u300d\u5b69\u5b50\u53cd\u800c\u6703\u5bb3\u4e86\u4ed6\u5011"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-51733 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2016\/07\/9251541341_97e4d97569_z-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"9251541341_97e4d97569_z\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u4eca\u5e74\u4e09\u6708\uff0c\u5b78\u8853\u671f\u520a Journal of Personality \u4e0a\u520a\u767b\u4e86\u4e00\u7bc7\u65b0\u52a0\u5761\u7684<a href=\"http:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/10.1111\/jopy.12249\/abstract\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u7814\u7a76<\/a>\u3002\u65b0\u52a0\u5761\u5927\u5b78\u7684\u516d\u4f4d\u5b78\u8005\u82b1\u4e86\u7e3d\u5171\u4e94\u5e74\u7684\u6642\u9593\u7814\u7a76\u8ffd\u8e64\u4e86\u7d04\u4e09\u767e\u4f4d\u5c0f\u5b69\u8207\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u5bb6\u9577\u3002\u9019\u500b\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\uff0c<span style=\"color: #ff6600\">\u7576\u5bb6\u9577\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u63a7\u5236\u8207\u5e72\u9810\u8d8a\u9ad8\u6642\uff0c\u5c0f\u5b69\u8d8a\u5bb9\u6613\u51fa\u73fe\u904e\u5ea6\u81ea\u6211\u6279\u5224\uff08Self-critical\uff09\u3001\u7126\u616e\u75c7\u72c0\u3001\u4ee5\u53ca\u6182\u9b31\u50be\u5411<\/span>\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u4efd\u7814\u7a76\u5728 2010 \u5e74\u5230 2014 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#ff6600\">\u5bb6\u9577\u4e0d\u8981\u8cac\u5099\u6279\u8a55\u5b69\u5b50\u8003\u8a66\u8003\u5f97\u4e0d\u597d\u6216\u662f\u6c92\u9054\u5230\u6a19\u6e96\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u8981\u770b\u898b\u5b69\u5b50\u5df2\u7d93\u9054\u6210\u7684\u6210\u5c31\uff0c\u4e26\u4e14\u5e6b\u52a9\u5b69\u5b50\u5f9e\u932f\u8aa4\u4e2d\u5b78\u7fd2<\/span>\u3002\u7576\u5b69\u5b50\u72af\u932f\u6642\u5bb6\u9577\u5c31\u53cd\u61c9\u6fc0\u70c8\uff0c\u9019\u53ea\u6703\u8b93\u5b69\u5b50\u66f4\u5bb3\u6015\u72af\u932f\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000\"><strong>\u7576\u500b\u652f\u6301\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u5bb6\u9577\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u7576\u63a7\u5236\u578b\u5bb6\u9577<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"annotatable\">\u8eab\u70ba\u4e2d\u5b78\u8001\u5e2b\u7684\u4f5c\u5bb6 Jessica Lahey \u5728\u5979\u7684\u65b0\u66f8\u300a<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gift-Failure-Parents-Children-Succeed\/dp\/0062299239?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1468867825&amp;ref_=la_B00GRJJPTK_1_1&amp;s=books&amp;sr=1-1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Gift of Failure<\/a>\u300b\u4e2d\u4e5f\u547c\u7c72\u5bb6\u9577\u9069\u7576\u653e\u624b\u8b93\u5b69\u5b50\u53bb\u5617\u8a66\u3002\u5979\u5728\u66f8\u4e2d\u63d0\u5230\u4e86\u4e00\u500b\u985e\u4f3c\u7684\u7814\u7a76\u2500\u2500\u7814\u7a76\u54e1\u89c0\u5bdf\u4e86\u5b69\u5b50\u5728\u73a9\u6642\uff0c\u5728\u8eab\u65c1\u5abd\u5abd\u7684\u5e72\u9810\u7a0b\u5ea6\u2500\u2500\u6709\u4e00\u985e\u578b\u7684\u5abd\u5abd\u5c6c\u65bc\u300c\u63a7\u5236\u578b\u300d\uff08controlling\uff09\uff0c\u5e38\u5e38\u5e72\u6d89\u7cfe\u6b63\u5b69\u5b50\uff1b\u53e6\u4e00\u578b\u7684\u5abd\u5abd\u5c6c\u65bc\u300c\u652f\u6301\u81ea\u4e3b\u578b\u300d\uff08Autonomy-supportive\uff09\uff0c\u9858\u610f\u8b93\u5b69\u5b50\u81ea\u5df1\u5617\u8a66\u81ea\u5df1\u60f3\u8fa6\u6cd5\u3002\u89c0\u5bdf\u5abd\u5abd\u8207\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u76f8\u8655\u5f8c\uff0c\u7814\u7a76\u54e1\u8b93\u5b69\u5b50\u7368\u81ea\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u89e3\u6c7a\u4efb\u52d9\uff0c\u7d50\u679c\u767c\u73fe\uff0c\u6709\u63a7\u5236\u578b\u5abd\u5abd\u7684\u5c0f\u5b69\u4e00\u78b0\u5230\u56f0\u96e3\u6642\u5c31\u653e\u68c4\uff0c\u76f8\u53cd\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u652f\u6301\u578b\u5abd\u5abd\u7684\u5c0f\u5b69\u5247\u662f\u6703\u5728\u56f0\u96e3\u8207\u632b\u6298\u4e2d\u7e7c\u7e8c\u5617\u8a66\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"annotatable\">\u7576\u5b69\u5b50\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u5617\u8a66\u3001\u5931\u6557\u3001\u7136\u5f8c\u518d\u5617\u8a66\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u7406\u89e3\u4ed6\u5011\u5931\u6557\u7684\u662f\u4e00\u9805\u4efb\u52d9\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u5931\u6557\u7684\u4eba\uff1b\u4ed6\u5011\u53ef\u4ee5\u9ad4\u9a57\u5230\u72af\u932f\u6c92\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e86\u4e0d\u8d77\uff0c\u518d\u8a66\u8a66\u5c31\u597d\u3002\u7576\u5bb6\u9577\u9858\u610f\u653e\u624b\uff0c\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u767c\u73fe\uff0c\u5b69\u5b50\u80fd\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u6bd4\u6211\u5011\u60f3\u50cf\u4e2d\u7684\u591a\u5f88\u591a\u3002<\/p>\n<pre class=\"annotatable\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600\">\u53c3\u8003\u8cc7\u6599\uff1a<\/span><\/strong>\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/qz.com\/730835\/study-controlling-parents-have-maladaptive-perfectionist-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Study: Controlling parents have maladaptive perfectionist kids<\/a>\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/qz.com\/527652\/parents-let-your-kids-fail-youll-be-doing-them-a-favor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Parents: let your kids fail. You\u2019ll be doing them a favor<\/a>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2016\/06\/160621094248.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Intrusive parents may lead children to be overly self-critical<\/a>\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbsnews.com\/news\/hovering-intrusive-parents-kids-risk-anxiety-depression\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Hovering, intrusive parents may put kids at risk<\/a>\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/lifestyle\/health-and-wellbeing\/wellbeing\/intrusive-parents-make-kids-selfcritical-anxious-and-depressed-20160701-gpwdh6.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Intrusive parents make kids self-critical, anxious and depressed<\/a><\/pre>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">\u8cac\u4efb\u7de8\u8f2f\uff1a\u5433\u73b2\u7444<\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u672c\u6587\u8207\u5716\u7247\u7d93\u7559\u4f69\u8431\u6388\u6b0a\u7ffb\u8b6f\u8f49\u8f09\uff0c\u4e26\u540c\u610f VidaOrange \u7de8\u5beb\u5c0e\u8b80\u8207\u4fee\u8a02\u6a19\u984c\uff0c\u539f\u6587\u6a19\u984c\u70ba\u3008<a href=\"https:\/\/counselingliu.wordpress.com\/2016\/07\/18\/%E6%96%B0%E5%8A%A0%E5%9D%A1%E7%A0%94%E7%A9%B6%E9%A1%AF%E7%A4%BA%EF%BC%9A%E5%AE%B6%E9%95%B7%E6%8E%A7%E5%88%B6%E6%85%BE%E5%A4%AA%E5%BC%B7%EF%BC%8C%E6%98%93%E9%80%A0%E6%88%90%E5%AD%A9%E5%AD%90%E9%81%8E\/\">\u65b0\u52a0\u5761\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\uff1a\u5bb6\u9577\u63a7\u5236\u617e\u592a\u5f37\uff0c\u6613\u9020\u6210\u5b69\u5b50\u904e\u5ea6\u81ea\u6211\u6311\u5254\u3001\u7126\u616e\u3001\u8207\u6182\u9b31<\/a>\u3009\uff1b\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/jennyleesilver\/9251541341\/in\/photolist-f6wyVt-hs2sL-7h6Rib-6rkqce-8ouWJg-4nqn9V-5wojP6-8M3zC7-82899z-6vymZP-qctCRj-8M3ziJ-oDqo8x-52oJPk-63rdHV-6robm-7qBs3i-7ScLXL-4GZUZ9-dgpMz-nDnpNu-fMR14a-73vAmP-gr5bM7-4tZRTN-awbark-oBfkAQ-8U1ADR-gMhxBb-6Biye3-oZUAFC-swuwxS-47pLK4-e5BXC2-8dQWTB-9e9Rsh-8fvtDP-boSgbD-dBLX8s-anvDSW-m9mHtZ-d9ZcB5-rwLPtM-cnD3GL-owzkD3-fUfXdX-6bPtvZ-gr64s4-bf9df2-4NksMd\">Jenny Lee Silver<\/a>, CC licensed\u3002\uff09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u4eca\u5e74\u4e09\u6708\uff0c\u5b78\u8853\u671f\u520a Journal of Personality \u4e0a\u520a\u767b\u4e86\u4e00\u7bc7\u65b0\u52a0\u5761\u7684\u7814\u7a76\u3002\u65b0\u52a0\u5761\u5927\u5b78\u7684\u516d\u4f4d\u5b78\u8005\u82b1\u4e86\u7e3d\u5171\u4e94\u5e74\u7684\u6642\u9593\u7814\u7a76\u8ffd\u8e64\u4e86\u7d04\u4e09\u767e\u4f4d\u5c0f\u5b69\u8207\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u5bb6\u9577\u3002\u9019\u500b\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\uff0c\u7576\u5bb6\u9577\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u63a7\u5236\u8207[&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":24808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[92],"coauthors":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7067"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7067"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7067\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24808"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7067"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7067"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7067"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=7067"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}