{"id":5678,"date":"2016-06-17T07:30:40","date_gmt":"2016-06-16T23:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/06\/17\/lust-passion-and-commitment-an-independent-elegant-neurobiological-theory-of-love\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:39:14","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:39:14","slug":"lust-passion-and-commitment-an-independent-elegant-neurobiological-theory-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/06\/17\/lust-passion-and-commitment-an-independent-elegant-neurobiological-theory-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"\u611f\u60c5\u5fc5\u7d93\u6b77\u9019\u4e09\u968e\u6bb5\uff01\u8ac7\u4e0d\u6210\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u90fd\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u5361\u5728\u90a3\u88e1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/c2.staticflickr.com\/6\/5583\/15258228475_b1ebe09d16_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"401\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u611b\u60c5\u5230\u5e95\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6a23\u5b50\uff1f\u6709\u4eba\u4e00\u8f29\u5b50\u53ea\u611b\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\uff0c\u6709\u4eba\u5927\u5b78\u56db\u5e74\u80fd\u63db\u56db\u4efb\uff0c\u4ec0\u9ebc\u624d\u662f\u6240\u8b02\u771f\u6b63\u9069\u5408\u7684\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u770b\u770b\u00a0<a class=\"author-name has-title\" href=\"http:\/\/qz.com\/581215\/lust-passion-and-commitment-an-independent-elegant-neurobiological-theory-of-love\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mark Manson<\/a>\u00a0\u600e\u9ebc\u89e3\u91cb\u611b\u60c5\u9019\u4ef6\u5927\u4e8b\u3002<\/p>\n<p><em>\uff08\u4ee5\u4e0b\u5167\u5bb9\u4ee5\u539f\u6587\u4f5c\u8005\u00a0<a class=\"author-name has-title\" href=\"http:\/\/qz.com\/581215\/lust-passion-and-commitment-an-independent-elegant-neurobiological-theory-of-love\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mark Manson<\/a>\u00a0\u70ba\u7b2c\u4e00\u4eba\u7a31\u7de8\u8b6f\uff09<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u6700\u611b\u7684\u5169\u6027\u95dc\u4fc2\u7814\u7a76\u4f86\u81ea\u4eba\u985e\u5b78\u5bb6\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.helenfisher.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Helen Fisher<\/a>\u00a0\uff0c\u5979\u82b1\u4e86\u5e7e\u5341\u5e74\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u548c\u8077\u6daf\u7814\u7a76\u548c\u7406\u89e3\u611b\u3001\u89aa\u5bc6\u611f\u8207\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002\u9019\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u5167\u5bb9\u6703\u6db5\u84cb\u5979\u7684<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u4e09\u611b\u7406\u8ad6\uff08\u00a0Three Loves Theory \uff09<\/span>\uff0c\u6211\u767c\u73fe\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u500b\u7406\u8ad6\u5c0d\u65bc\u7406\u89e3\u611f\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u975e\u5e38\u6709\u5e6b\u52a9\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Three Loves Theory \u7684\u524d\u63d0\u662f\uff0c<span style=\"color: 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\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u79d1\u5b78\u5bb6\u5df2\u7d93\u7814\u7a76\u300c\u4e92\u76f8\u5438\u5f15\u300d\u8207\u300c\u611b\u60c5\u300d\u6f5b\u5728\u7684\u8a8d\u77e5\u8207\u795e\u7d93\u751f\u7269\u5b78\u904e\u7a0b\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u4e5f\u958b\u59cb\u627e\u51fa\u5728\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u6200\u611b\u968e\u6bb5\u4e2d\u6703\u767c\u751f\u7684\u4e0d\u540c\u60c5\u7dd2\u3002\u900f\u904e\u9019\u4e9b\u7814\u7a76\uff0c Fisher \u63cf\u7e6a\u51fa\u6bcf\u7a2e\u611b\u7684\u9ad4\u9a57\u7684\u751f\u7269\u5b78\u7d44\u6210\uff0c\u4e26\u5c07\u4ed6\u5011\u8207\u771f\u5be6\u4e16\u754c\u7684\u793e\u4ea4\u72c0\u614b match \u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u5979\u60f3\u51fa\u7684 three loves \u70ba\uff1a\u00a0Lust \uff08\u6e34\u671b\uff09\u3001\u00a0Passion \uff08\u71b1\u60c5\uff09\u3001\u00a0Commitment \uff08\u627f\u8afe\uff09<\/span>\uff0c\u9019\u4e09\u7a2e\u611b\u5728\u5927\u8166\u7684\u4e0d\u540c\u5340\u57df\u767c\u751f\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u662f\u500b\u5404\u81ea\u7368\u7acb\u3001\u4e92\u4e0d\u5f71\u97ff\u7684\u3002\u6bd4\u5982\u8aaa\u4f60\u6703\u300c\u6e34\u671b\u300d\u67d0\u4eba\uff0c\u4f46\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u6703\u5c0d\u4ed6\u5011\u300c\u627f\u8afe\u300d\uff08\u4f8b\u5982\u4e00\u591c\u60c5\uff09\uff0c\u4f46\u5728\u6211\u5011\u958b\u59cb\u63a2\u8a0e\u524d\uff0c\u5148\u628a\u9019\u4e09\u7a2e\u611b\u90fd\u5b9a\u7fa9\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Love one \uff1a Lust \uff08\u6e34\u671b\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u300c\u6e34\u671b\u300d\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u90fd\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u906d\u9047\u5230\u7684\u611f\u89ba\uff0c\u722c\u87f2\u985e\u52d5\u7269\u7684\u5927\u8166\u6703\u6709\u9019\u7a2e\u55ae\u7d14\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u672c\u80fd\u6027\u5730\u4e00\u518d\u51fa\u73fe\u3002\u300c\u6e34\u671b\u300d\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e yes\/no 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annotatable\"><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Love three \uff1a Commitment \uff08\u627f\u8afe\u3001\u5b9a\u4e0b\u4f86\uff09<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"selectionShareable annotatable\">\u5982\u679c\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u71b1\u60c5\u80fd\u5920\u6301\u7e8c\uff0c\u5169\u4eba\u9577\u671f\u7684\u300c<a href=\"http:\/\/markmanson.net\/compatibility-and-chemistry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u76f8\u5bb9\u6027<\/a>\u300d\u5c31\u6703\u63d0\u9ad8\uff0c\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e5f\u80fd\u5920\u7e7c\u7e8c\u5206\u4eab\u65b0\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\uff0c\u5c31\u80fd\u9081\u5165\u7b2c\u4e09\u968e\u6bb5\uff1a\u300c\u627f\u8afe\u4e26\u5b9a\u4e0b\u4f86\u300d\u3002\u9019\u500b\u968e\u6bb5\u7d66\u4e88\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e00\u7a2e\u96e3\u4ee5\u60f3\u50cf\u7684\u5f37\u70c8\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u5728\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u5f88\u5c11\u51fa\u73fe\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"selectionShareable 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