{"id":55028,"date":"2021-11-02T19:36:42","date_gmt":"2021-11-02T11:36:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/?p=55028"},"modified":"2021-11-12T19:11:20","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T11:11:20","slug":"book-you-are-not-meant-to-be-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2021\/11\/02\/book-you-are-not-meant-to-be-happy\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5076\u723e\u7684\u4e0d\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u4ee5\u8166\u79d1\u5b78\u770b\u5176\u5be6\u5f88\u5408\u7406\uff01\u7cbe\u795e\u79d1\u91ab\u5e2b\u7280\u5229\u7834\u89e3\u300c\u6b63\u5411\u8ff7\u601d\u300d"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>\u300c\u4e00\u672c\u597d\u66f8\uff0c\u61c9\u8a72\u6703\u8b93\u4f60\u64c1\u6709\u8a31\u591a\u7d93\u9a57\uff1b\u7576\u4f60\u95b1\u8b80\u6642\uff0c\u5c31\u50cf\u904e\u8457\u597d\u5e7e\u7a2e\u751f\u6d3b\u3002\u300d\u2014\u2014\u7f8e\u570b\u5c0f\u8aaa\u5bb6 William Styron<\/p>\n<p>VidaOrange \u751f\u6d3b\u5831\u6a58\u7684\u300c\u4e16\u754c\u65c5\u8b80\u300d\u5c08\u5340\uff0c\u6bcf\u9031\u6301\u7e8c\u63a8\u85a6\u570b\u5916\u5c1a\u672a\u5f15\u9032\u53f0\u7063\u7684\u6df1\u5ea6\u597d\u66f8\uff0c\u70ba\u6df1\u77e5\u95b1\u8b80\u50f9\u503c\u4e26\u6e34\u6c42\u65b0\u77e5\u7684\u4f60\uff0c\u6253\u958b\u901a\u5f80\u570b\u969b\u7684\u7a97\u3002\u770b\u904e\u7684\u66f8\u3001\u53bb\u904e\u7684\u5730\u65b9\uff0c\u90fd\u5c07\u6210\u70ba\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u7368\u7279\u7684\u6c23\u8cea\uff0c\u64c1\u6709\u66f4\u7cbe\u5f69\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u5468\u65cb\u65bc\u8077\u5834\u8207\u5bb6\u5ead\u9593\u7684\u5206\u8eab\u4e4f\u8853\u3001\u8eab\u8ca0\u91cd\u4efb\u800c\u9577\u671f\u7d2f\u7a4d\u7684\u58d3\u529b\u8207\u75b2\u618a\uff0c\u9084\u6709\u60f3\u5728\u751f\u6d3b\u8207\u751f\u5b58\u9593\u53d6\u5f97\u5e73\u8861\u7684\u7126\u616e\u22ef\u22ef\uff0c\u5118\u7ba1\u6709\u8457\u591a\u6578\u4eba\u7a31\u7fa8\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3001\u7a69\u5b9a\u767c\u5c55\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u53ca\u5fc3\u9748\u5951\u5408\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u6709\u6642\u4ecd\u4e0d\u514d\u89ba\u5f97\uff0c\u8d8a\u662f\u8a8d\u70ba\u81ea\u5df1\u503c\u5f97\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\uff0c\u5c31\u5f77\u5f7f\u88ab\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u63a8\u5f97\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u9060\u3002\u6709\u6642\u4e5f\u4e0d\u7981\u61f7\u5ff5\u8d77\u5e74\u8f15\u4e00\u4e9b\u6642\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u90a3\u500b\u7169\u60f1\u7e3d\u88ab\u5c0f\u4e8b\u800c\u89e3\u3001\u7b11\u984f\u4e5f\u7e3d\u70ba\u5c0f\u4e8b\u800c\u958b\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f47\u8db3\u66f8\u5e97\u88e1\u7684\u66a2\u92b7\u66f8\u699c\u524d\uff0c\u653e\u773c\u671b\u53bb\uff0c\u4e00\u672c\u53c8\u4e00\u672c\u8ac7\u8457\u300c\u6b63\u5411\u3001\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u7684\u52f5\u5fd7\u53e2\u66f8\uff0c\u4f3c\u4e4e\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u4e5f\u6f38\u6f38\u5730\u8b8a\u6210\u58d3\u529b\uff0c\u4e00\u7a2e\u985e\u4f3c\u65bc\u300c\u6210\u529f\u300d\u7684\u58d3\u529b\u3002\u7576\u5927\u90e8\u5206\u7684\u4eba\u50cf\u8ffd\u6c42\u8457\u300c\u6210\u529f\u4eba\u751f\u300d\u90a3\u6a23\uff0c\u6c72\u6c72\u71df\u71df\u5730\u8ffd\u9010\u8457\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\uff0c\u6709\u500b\u4eba\u537b\u8a8d\u70ba\u4eba\u985e\u7684\u5929\u6027\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>\u6211\u5011\u7684DNA\u8aaa\u660e\u4e86\uff1a\u300c\u4e0d\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u5176\u5be6\u5f88\u5408\u7406<\/h2>\n<p>\u4e00\u76f4\u4ee5\u7814\u7a76\u53ca\u8457\u4f5c\u81f4\u529b\u65bc\u300c\u7cbe\u795e\u75c5\u5b78\u8207\u6291\u9b31\u75c7\u6cbb\u7642\u300d\u7684\u897f\u73ed\u7259\u7cbe\u795e\u79d1\u91ab\u5e2b Rafa Euba\uff0c\u5728\u7cbe\u795e\u75c5\u5b78\u7684\u76f8\u95dc\u9818\u57df\u90fd\u64c1\u6709\u8c50\u5bcc\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\uff0c\u4e5f\u5728\u4eca\u5e74\u51fa\u7248\u4e86\u4ee5\u7280\u5229\u6d1e\u5bdf\u64ab\u6170\u4eba\u5fc3\u7684\u300a<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3myzejS\">You are not meant to be happy. So stop trying.<\/a>\u300b\u3002\u5149\u770b\u66f8\u540d\uff0c\u5c31\u80fd\u7565\u77e5 Rafa \u91ab\u5e2b\u5c0d\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u7684\u7368\u7279\u898b\u89e3\uff0c\u5e7e\u4e4e\u4eba\u4eba\u90fd\u56ae\u5f80\u8457\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u4f46\u5176\u5be6\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u4eba\u985e\u7684\u5929\u6027\uff1f<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-55046 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/app\/uploads\/2021\/11\/not-happy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"234\" height=\"373\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000; font-weight: bold;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/3bzOg2l\">\u9ede\u64ca\u2192<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/3bzOg2l\">\u4f60\u4e5f\u6709\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u7591\u554f\u55ce<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/3bzOg2l\">\uff1a\u300c\u4e0d\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8ca0\u9762\u7684\u4e8b\uff1f\u300d<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5927\u8166\u7dad\u6301\u8457\u751f\u6d3b\u904b\u4f5c\uff0c\u5f9e\u6b23\u8cde\u4e00\u9996\u53e4\u5178\u6a02\u66f2\uff0c\u5230\u805e\u4e00\u6735\u4ee4\u4eba\u50be\u5fc3\u7684\u73ab\u7470\u3001\u5f9e\u66f8\u5beb\u4e00\u5c01\u4fe1\u4ef6\uff0c\u5230\u7dad\u6301\u8d70\u8def\u6642\u7684\u5e73\u8861\uff0c\u5927\u8166\u77e5\u9053\u5982\u4f55\u57f7\u884c\u9019\u4e9b\u5927\u5927\u5c0f\u5c0f\u7e41\u7463\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u7136\u800c\u7576\u6211\u5011\u5e0c\u671b\u5927\u8166\u80fd\u611f\u5230\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u5b83\u4e26\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u8a72\u5982\u4f55\u56de\u61c9\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Rafa \u91ab\u5e2b\u63d0\u5230\uff0c\u9019\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u4eba\u985e\u7684 DNA 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Nathaniel Hawthorne<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u4f60\u6709\u904e\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\u55ce\uff1f\u660e\u660e\u4e0a\u4e00\u79d2\u9084\u6c89\u6d78\u5728\u5feb\u6a02\u3001\u6eff\u8db3\u7684\u6c1b\u570d\u4e2d\uff0c\u6c92\u6709\u591a\u4e45\uff0c\u90a3\u6a23\u7684\u5fc3\u60c5\u537b\u50cf\u505a\u4e86\u4e00\u5834\u597d\u9577\u3001\u597d\u9577\u7684\u5922\u822c\u4e0d\u5fa9\u5b58\u5728\u3002\u5e78\u798f\u6642\u5e38\u5728\u8f49\u77ac\u9593\u6d88\u901d\uff0c\u4ee5\u65b7\u65b7\u7e8c\u7e8c\u7684\u300c\u5feb\u6a02\u300d\u5f62\u5f0f\u51fa\u73fe\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64 Rafa \u91ab\u5e2b\u4e5f\u8a8d\u70ba\uff0c\u5feb\u6a02\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u5982\u4e00\u4e9b\u300c\u5fc3\u7406\u81ea\u52a9\u300d\u7684\u66f8\u7c4d\u6240\u544a\u8a34\u6211\u5011\u7684\u90a3\u6a23\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u900f\u904e\u5e7e\u500b\u6b65\u9a5f\u8f15\u6613\u800c\u5f97\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u300a<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3myzejS\">You are not meant to be happy<\/a>\u300b\u9019\u672c\u66f8\u4e2d\uff0cRafa 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