{"id":5230,"date":"2015-08-11T12:49:37","date_gmt":"2015-08-11T04:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/08\/11\/bdsm-beginner-tips\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:49:32","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:49:32","slug":"bdsm-beginner-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/08\/11\/bdsm-beginner-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4e00\u7aba\u683c\u96f7\u7684\u617e\u671b\u7981\u5730\uff1a\u81f4 BDSM \u521d\u5b78\u8005\u7684 5 \u6b65\u6307\u5c0e\u68cb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/102\/295209352_14811f893d_o.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"313\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u300aVO \u5c0e\u8b80\u300b\uff1a\u5148\u5411\u521d\u5b78\u8005\u4ecb\u7d39 <strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">BDSM<\/span><\/strong> \u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f\u4e2d\u6587\u8b6f\u4f5c\u300c\u76ae\u7e69\u6109\u8650\u300d\uff0c\u4e3b\u8981\u5305\u542b\u7d81\u7e1b\u8207\u6027\u8abf\u6559\uff08Bondage &amp; Discipline\uff09\uff0c\u652f\u914d\u8207\u81e3\u670d\uff08Dominance &amp; Submission\uff09\uff0c\u65bd\u8650\u8207\u53d7\u8650\uff08Sadism &amp; Masochism\uff09\uff0cBDSM \u5373\u662f\u4f86\u81ea\u4ee5\u4e0a\u55ae\u5b57\u7684\u7e2e\u5beb\u3002\u53c3\u8207 BDSM \u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5927\u591a\u4f9d\u500b\u4eba\u559c\u597d\u9078\u64c7\u5e7e\u500b\u9805\u76ee\uff0c\u4e26\u975e\u57f7\u884c\u6240\u6709\u9805\u76ee\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u770b\u5b8c\u300a\u683c\u96f7\u7684\u4e94\u5341\u9053\u9670\u5f71\u300b\u5f8c\u4e5f\u60f3\u8a66\u8a66 BDSM \u55ce\uff1f\u539f\u6587\u4f5c\u8005 <a href=\"http:\/\/go.refinery29.com\/?id=30283X879131&amp;site=refinery29.com&amp;xcust=desktop0scrollable&amp;xs=1&amp;isjs=1&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.twitter.com%2Fthejessicadrake&amp;xguid=&amp;xuuid=a7c39e818f959ba10cae31950f8389ee&amp;xsessid=&amp;xcreo=0&amp;xed=0&amp;sref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.refinery29.com%2Fbdsm-beginner-tips&amp;xtz=-480\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jessica Drake<\/a>\u00a0\u7d66\u4f60\u5e7e\u500b\u521d\u5b78\u8005\u7684\u5c0f\u6280\u5de7\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>\uff08\u4ee5\u4e0b\u5167\u5bb9\u4ee5\u539f\u6587\u4f5c\u8005\u70ba\u7b2c\u4e00\u4eba\u7a31\u7de8\u8b6f\u3002\uff09<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u7121\u53ef\u5426\u8a8d\uff0c\u6700\u8fd1 BDSM \u851a\u70ba\u6f6e\u6d41\u3002\u770b\u770b\u4f60\u5bb6\u9644\u8fd1\u7684\u66f8\u5e97\u67b6\u4e0a\uff0c\u4f60\u4e0d\u6703\u53ea\u770b\u5230\u00a0E.L. 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