{"id":5143,"date":"2016-03-16T17:35:24","date_gmt":"2016-03-16T09:35:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/03\/16\/make-people-dislike-you\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:42:03","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:42:03","slug":"make-people-dislike-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/03\/16\/make-people-dislike-you\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2 9 \u5927\u7981\u5fcc\u539f\u4f86\u90fd\u5728\u9019\u4e9b\u5c0f\u5730\u65b9\uff01\u81c9\u66f8\u982d\u8cbc\u81c9\u592a\u5927\u5c45\u7136\u4e5f\u4e0d\u884c\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_74748\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-74748\" class=\"wp-image-74748 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2016\/03\/lady-friends-women.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><p 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#800000\"><strong>1. \u5728 Facebook \u5206\u4eab\u904e\u591a\u7684\u500b\u4eba\u7167\u7247<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u6bcf\u4e00\u5929\uff0c\u4f60\u90fd\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u7b49\u4e0d\u53ca\u60f3\u8981\u8ddf\u5927\u5bb6\u5206\u4eab\u5ea6\u871c\u6708\u7684\u5e78\u798f\u7167\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u70ab\u8000\u4f60\u8868\u5f1f\u8d85\u76db\u5927\u7684\u7562\u696d\u5178\u79ae\uff0c\u53c8\u6216\u662f\u5bb6\u88e1\u7684\u72d7\u72d7\u5728\u842c\u8056\u7bc0\u5947\u88dd\u7570\u670d\u7684\u7167\u7247\u6709\u591a\u53ef\u611b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f46\u662f\u7814\u7a76\u767c\u73fe\uff0c<span style=\"color: #ff6600\">\u5728\u81c9\u66f8\u8cbc\u51fa\u592a\u591a\u7167\u7247\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u5371\u53ca\u5230\u4f60\u5728\u771f\u5be6\u4e16\u754c\u7684\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\">\u65bc<a style=\"color: #000000\" href=\"http:\/\/epapers.bham.ac.uk\/1723\/1\/2013-03_D_Houghton.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4e00\u4efd\u7814\u7a76<\/a>\u64d4\u4efb\u4e3b\u7b46\u7684 David Houghton \u535a\u58eb\u8fd1\u671f\u8868\u793a\uff1a\u300c\u9019\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u9664\u4e86\u4f60\u7684\u89aa\u670b\u597d\u53cb\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u4f3c\u4e4e\u5c0d\u4f60\u8cbc\u51fa\u7684\u7167\u7247\u8207\u4ed6\u5011\u672c\u8eab\u7121\u6cd5\u7522\u751f\u95dc\u806f\u6027\u3002\u300d\u66f4\u6e96\u78ba\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u7576\u4f60\u5206\u4eab\u592a\u591a\u5bb6\u5ead\u7167\u6642\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u4e26\u4e0d\u6703\u611f\u8208\u8da3\uff0c\u800c\u7576\u4f60\u5206\u4eab\u8207\u670b\u53cb\u5408\u7167\u6642\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u5bb6\u4eba\u7121\u6cd5\u9ad4\u6703\u7576\u4e2d\u7684\u8da3\u5473\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u540c\u9019\u4efd\u7814\u7a76\u53e6\u4e00\u4f4d\u4f5c\u8005 Ben Marder 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href=\"http:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/fact-tank\/2014\/02\/03\/6-new-facts-about-facebook\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2014 \u5e74\u4e00\u4efd\u8abf\u67e5<\/a>\u767c\u73fe\u81c9\u66f8\u6210\u5e74\u7528\u6236\u5e73\u5747\u6240\u64c1\u6709\u7684\u597d\u53cb\u6578\u70ba 338 \u500b\u3002\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u6709\u8da3\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u53c3\u8207\u9019\u4efd\u7814\u7a76\u7684\u53d7\u8a66\u8005\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u610f\u8b58\u5230\uff0c\u539f\u4f86\u4ed6\u5011\u6703\u56e0\u70ba\u7528\u6236\u597d\u53cb\u7684\u9ad8\u4f4e\u800c\u5448\u73fe\u4f4e\u559c\u597d\u7684\u8da8\u52e2\u3002<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/static5.businessinsider.com\/image\/5630dd5c9dd7cc25008c5504-1200\/.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"301\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>3. \u5728\u4e00\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u5f88\u5feb\u5c31\u50be\u5410\u81ea\u5df1\u5167\u5fc3\u4e16\u754c<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u666e\u904d\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u4eba\u5011\u5f7c\u6b64\u5efa\u7acb\u4fe1\u4efb\u611f\u5f8c\u6703\u66f4\u52a0\u559c\u6b61\u5c0d\u65b9\u3002\u5be6\u969b\u4e0a\uff0c\u5410\u9732\u5fc3\u4e8b\u4e5f\u662f\u6210\u5e74\u4eba\u4ea4\u670b\u53cb\u6700\u597d\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e4b\u4e00\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f46\u662f\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6\u6307\u51fa\uff0c\u7576\u4f60\u9084\u8655\u65bc\u8a8d\u8b58\u67d0\u4eba\u7684\u521d\u671f\u968e\u6bb5\uff0c\u5c31\u5410\u9732\u904e\u65bc\u79c1\u4eba\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u6642\uff08\u6bd4\u5982\u544a\u8a34\u5c0d\u65b9\u4f60\u7684\u59d0\u59d0\u767c\u751f\u4e86\u5a5a\u5916\u60c5\uff09\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u8a8d\u70ba\u4f60\u4e0d\u592a\u53ef\u9760\uff0c\u964d\u4f4e\u5c0d\u4f60\u7684\u597d\u611f\u5ea6\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u95dc\u9375\u9ede\u5728\u65bc\u4f60\u5982\u4f55\u5206\u4eab\u79c1\u4e8b\u537b\u4e0d\u904e\u65bc\u6beb\u7121\u96b1\u79c1\u3002\u4f86\u81ea Illinois State University \u7684 Susan Sprecher \u66fe\u65bc<a href=\"http:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/256080358_Taking_turns_Reciprocal_self-disclosure_promotes_liking_in_initial_interactions_\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u7814\u7a76<\/a>\u4e2d\u64b0\u6587\uff0c\u55ae\u7d14\u5730\u5206\u4eab\u4f60\u7684\u55dc\u597d\u6216\u662f\u7ae5\u5e74\u56de\u61b6\u7684\u9ede\u6ef4\u6709\u52a9\u65bc\u8b93\u4f60\u66f4\u53d7\u4eba\u559c\u611b\uff0c\u76f8\u53cd\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u6975\u5ea6\u79c1\u4eba\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u5247\u6703\u9020\u6210\u53cd\u6548\u679c\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>4. \u53ea\u554f\u5c0d\u65b9\u554f\u984c\u537b\u5f9e\u4e0d\u63d0\u53ca\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e8b<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\">Susan Sprecher \u4e5f\u767c\u73fe\uff0c\u50be\u5410\u7684\u6700\u9ad8\u6e96\u5247\u662f\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\u5fc5\u9808\u662f\u4e92\u76f8\u9032\u884c\u7684\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e0d\u7a0d\u5fae\u53cd\u994b\uff0c\u9806\u4fbf\u5206\u4eab\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u53ea\u60f3\u807d\u5225\u4eba\u5bb6\u88e1\u7684\u516b\u5366\u53ef\u80fd\u5c31\u6703\u5f15\u8d77\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e0d\u5feb\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u53e6\u4e00\u7814\u7a76\u4e2d\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u5c07\u53c3\u8207\u8005\u5206\u6210\u5169\u7d44\uff0c\u4e00\u7d44\u662f\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e0d\u8a8d\u8b58\u7684\u53d7\u8a66\u8005\u540c\u6642\u4e92\u76f8\u5206\u4eab\u79c1\u4e8b\uff0c\u53e6\u4e00\u7d44\u5247\u662f\u4e00\u65b9\u5206\u4eab 12 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src=\"\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2015\/11\/jpg-3.jpeg\" alt=\"jpg (3)\" width=\"603\" height=\"452\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>6. 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loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-28847\" src=\"\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2015\/11\/jpg-4.jpeg\" alt=\"jpg (4)\" width=\"601\" height=\"451\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>7. \u8868\u73fe\u5730\u904e\u5ea6\u53cb\u5584<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4f60\u4ee5\u70ba\u4f60\u80fd\u900f\u904e\u8868\u73fe\u5f97\u5341\u5206\u7121\u79c1\u4f86\u7372\u5f97\u5225\u4eba\u82b3\u5fc3\uff0c\u4f46\u5176\u5be6\u79d1\u5b78\u8b49\u660e\u9019\u662f\u932f\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>2010 \u5e74\u7684<a href=\"http:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/index.cfm?fa=buy.optionToBuy&amp;uid=2010-14719-007\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u7814\u7a76<\/a>\uff0cWashington State University 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loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-28848\" src=\"\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2015\/11\/jpg-5.jpeg\" alt=\"jpg (5)\" width=\"597\" height=\"447\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>8. 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