{"id":4980,"date":"2016-05-25T09:02:29","date_gmt":"2016-05-25T01:02:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/05\/25\/damaging-phrases-in-a-relationship\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:40:08","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:40:08","slug":"damaging-phrases-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/05\/25\/damaging-phrases-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u4f60\u6839\u672c\u6c92\u5728\u807d\u6211\u8aaa\u8a71\uff01\u300d\u5435\u67b6\u812b\u53e3\u800c\u51fa\u9019 7 \u53e5\u8a71\u5c0d\u5f7c\u6b64\u53ea\u662f\u66f4\u50b7"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/c2.staticflickr.com\/6\/5027\/5596344183_c391e601e9_z.jpg\" width=\"640\" height=\"393\" 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#993300;\"><strong>1.<\/strong><strong>\u300c\u6211\u60f3\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u51b7\u975c\u4e00\u4e0b\u3002\u300d<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u7576\u5c0d\u65b9\u63d0\u9ad8\u5206\u8c9d\u885d\u8457\u4f60\u7684\u81c9\u5927\u543c\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u4f60\u5c07\u611f\u53d7\u5230<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u8f15\u8996<\/span>\u548c<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u81ea\u6211\u512a\u8d8a\u611f<\/span>\uff1b\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u540c\u6a23\u5c45\u9ad8\u81e8\u4e0b\u5730\u56de\u7b54\u4ed6\uff1a\u300c\u8acb\u4f60\u51b7\u975c\u4e00\u9ede\u3002\u300d\uff1b\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e5f\u6703\u906d\u53d7\u5230\u76f8\u540c\u88ab\u8f15\u8996\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u2014\u2014\u6d1b\u6749\u78ef\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6 Andra Brosh 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#993300;\"><strong>2.<\/strong><strong>\u300c\u4f60\u5225\u5e6b\u5fd9\u5e36\u5c0f\u5b69\u3002\u300d<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u548c\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\u6709\u5b69\u5b50\uff0c\u90a3\u9ebc\u4f60\u5011\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u500b\u4e00\u5b9a\u6703\u591a\u6b21\u89ba\u5f97\uff1a\u5728\u7167\u9867\u3001\u990a\u80b2\u5b69\u5b50\u4e0a\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u7684\u6bd4\u5c0d\u65b9\u591a\u3002\u5e95\u7279\u5f8b\u7684\u5169\u6027\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c08\u5bb6 Lisa Schmidt 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#993300;\"><strong>3.<\/strong><strong>\u300c\u4f60\u6839\u672c\u6c92\u5728\u807d\u6211\u8aaa\u8a71\u3002\u300d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u4e8b\u5be6\u4e0a\uff0c<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u5343\u842c\u3001\u5343\u842c\u4e0d\u8981\u8aaa\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u3002<\/span>\u300c\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u80fd\u8b93\u4f60\u7684\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u611f\u5230\u7d55\u671b\uff0c\u4e0d\u767c\u4e00\u8a9e\uff1b<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u5b83\u4e0d\u7559\u9918\u5730\u7684\u7d42\u7d50\u4e86\u4f60\u5011\u5546\u91cf\u7684\u7a7a\u9593\u3002<\/span>\u300dBrosh\u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5\u662f\uff1a\u300e\u6bcf\u6b21\u4f60\u5728\u8b1b\u96fb\u8a71\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u90fd\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u6c92\u6709\u5728\u807d\u6211\u8aaa\u8a71\u300f\u6216\u8005\u662f\u300e\u6709\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u5728\u807d\u6211\u8aaa\u8a71\u300f\u3002\u300d<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>4.<\/strong><strong>\u300c\u6c92\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u4f86\u3002\u300d<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u548c\u4e0a\u4e00\u53e5\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u5145\u6eff\u7834\u58de\u6027\u3002\u300dSchmidt 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#993300;\"><strong>5.<\/strong><strong>\u300c\u6211\u4e0d\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u6211\u60f3\u96e2\u5a5a\u3002\u300d<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5fb7\u5dde\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6 Anne Crowley \u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u8a08\u5283\u771f\u7684\u8981\u96e2\u5a5a\uff0c\u90a3\u9ebc\u9019\u7a2e\u8a71\u56b4\u91cd\u524a\u5f31\u4e86\u4f60\u5011\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u57fa\u790e\uff1b\u5b83\u88fd\u9020\u4e86\u4e0d\u78ba\u5b9a\u6027\u548c\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3002\u300d\u5979\u8aaa\uff1a\u300c<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5728\u5a5a\u59fb\u88e1\u611f\u5230\u4e0d\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u8aaa\uff0c\u6c92\u95dc\u4fc2\uff1b\u4f46\u662f\u4f60\u4e5f\u8981\u60f3\u597d\u2014\u2014\u7136\u5f8c\u5462\uff0c\u4f60\u60f3\u600e\u9ebc\u505a\uff1f\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f<\/span>\u300d\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7684\u7b54\u6848\u662f\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u60f3\u8981\u9019\u6bb5\u5a5a\u59fb\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u597d\u3002\u300d\u90a3\u9ebc\u8acb\u4f60\u9078\u64c7\u66f4\u6709\u5efa\u8a2d\u6027\u7684\u505a\u6cd5\uff0c<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u958b\u53e3\u9589\u53e3\u5c31\u63d0\u300c\u96e2\u300d\u5b57<\/span>\u3002 Crowley \u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u8aaa\uff1a\u300e\u6211\u60f3\u8981\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u8b8a\u597d\uff0c\u4f60\u9858\u610f\u8ddf\u6211\u4e00\u8d77\u53bb\u505a\u5a5a\u59fb\u6cbb\u7642\u55ce\uff1f\u300f\u300d<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>6.<\/strong><strong>\u300c\u4f60\u662f\u4e0d\u662f\u5728\u5916\u9762\u6709\u5225\u4eba\uff1f\u300d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u5011\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u7684\u6642\u9593\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u5c11\uff0c\u4f60\u5011\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u4e0d\u89aa\u5bc6\uff0c\u4f60\u958b\u59cb\u61f7\u7591\u4ed6\u5728\u5916\u9762\u662f\u4e0d\u662f\u6709\u4e86\u5225\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u7576\u4f60\u6709\u4e86\u60f3\u91d0\u6e05\u7684\u554f\u984c\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u8b39\u614e\u5c0f\u5fc3\u7684\u505a\uff0c\u907f\u514d\u592a\u65e9\u5c31\u4e0b\u7d50\u8ad6\u3002\u300dCrowley 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