{"id":4975,"date":"2016-05-05T16:40:45","date_gmt":"2016-05-05T08:40:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/05\/05\/the-divorce-proof-marriage\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:40:36","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:40:36","slug":"the-divorce-proof-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/05\/05\/the-divorce-proof-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\u5728\u5a5a\u524d\u5c31\u7b97\u5f97\u51fa\u4f86\uff1a\u7838\u5927\u9322\u7684\u5a5a\u79ae\u6ce8\u5b9a\u8d70\u5411\u5931\u6557\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/mt\/2014\/10\/3119144658_b9dfe4a1b8_b\/lead_large.jpg?1430152020\" alt=\"\" width=\"615\" height=\"379\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u592b\u59bb\u7684\u5171\u540c\u6536\u5165\u3001\u7d50\u5a5a\u524d\u4f60\u5011\u7d04\u6703\u7684\u6642\u9593\u6709\u591a\u4e45\u4e86\u3001\u6709\u591a\u5c11\u4eba\u4f86\u53c3\u52a0\u4f60\u5011\u7684\u5a5a\u79ae\u2014\u2014\u9019\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u5f71\u97ff\u8457\u4f60\u5011\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u80fd\u7dad\u6301\u591a\u4e45<\/span>\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u947d\u77f3\u6046\u4e45\u9060\uff0c\u4f46\u8d8a\u662f\u6602\u8cb4\u7684\u8a02\u5a5a\u6212\u6307\uff0c\u4ee3\u8868\u4e00\u6bb5\u5a5a\u59fb\u8d8a\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u6301\u7e8c\u5f88\u4e45\u3002\u6839\u64da\u4e00\u9805\u65b0\u7684<a href=\"http:\/\/papers.ssrn.com\/sol3\/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2501480\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener 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#ff6600;\">\u6700\u597d\u7d04\u6703\u6eff\u4e09\u5e74\uff0c\u518d\u958b\u53e3\u6c42\u5a5a\uff1b\u53ef\u4ee5\u8cfa\u9322\u904e\u5bcc\u88d5\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\uff0c\u4f46\u4e0d\u8981\u6210\u70ba\u4e00\u500b\u773c\u88e1\u53ea\u6709\u9322\u7684\u4eba\uff1b\u8fa6\u4e00\u5834\u76db\u5927\u7684\u5a5a\u79ae\uff0c\u4f46\u50f9\u683c\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u6602\u8cb4\uff1b\u9084\u6709\uff0c\u4e0d\u7ba1\u600e\u9ebc\u6a23\uff0c\u90fd\u4e0d\u8981\u8df3\u904e\u871c\u6708\u65c5\u884c\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u4e0b\u5217\u6709\u5e7e\u9805\u91cd\u9ede\uff0c\u642d\u914d Olson \u88fd\u4f5c\u7684\u5716\u8868\u5448\u73fe\u7d66\u5927\u5bb6\uff1a<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>1. \u6c42\u5a5a\u524d\uff0c\u5169\u4eba\u7d04\u6703\u7684\u6642\u9593\u6709\u591a\u4e45<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/posts\/2014\/10\/Screen_Shot_2014_10_13_at_7.01.58_PM\/890a039a7.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"371\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u6c42\u5a5a\u524d\uff0c\u81f3\u5c11\u7d04\u6703\u904e\u4e09\u5e74\u4ee5\u4e0a\u7684\u592b\u59bb\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\uff0c\u9060\u6bd4\u90a3\u4e9b\u6c42\u5a5a\u524d\u7d04\u6703\u6642\u9593\u4e0d\u5230\u4e00\u5e74\u6642\u9593\u7684\u592b\u59bb\u7684\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\u4f4e\u4e86 39 %\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>2. \u5bb6\u5ead\u5e74\u6536\u5165<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/posts\/2014\/10\/Screen_Shot_2014_10_13_at_7.04.42_PM\/46384034e.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"360\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u5bb6\u5ead\u5e74\u6536\u5165\uff08\u592b\u59bb\u5171\u8a08\uff09\u8d85\u904e\u56db\u767e\u842c\u7684\u592b\u59bb\uff0c\u76f8\u5c0d\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\u76f4\u63a5\u780d\u4e86\u4e00\u534a\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>3.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u4e0a\u6559\u5802\u7684\u983b\u7387<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/posts\/2014\/10\/Screen_Shot_2014_10_13_at_7.06.59_PM\/ae335e7f8.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"353\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u6703\u56fa\u5b9a\u4e0a\u6559\u5802\u7684\u592b\u59bb\uff0c\u5176\u76f8\u5c0d\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\u4e5f\u662f\u76f4\u63a5\u5c11\u4e86\u4e00\u534a\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>4.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u89ba\u5f97\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u6709\u4e0d\u6709\u9322\u548c\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u7684\u9577\u76f8\uff0c\u91cd\u8981\u55ce\uff1f<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/posts\/2014\/10\/Screen_Shot_2014_10_13_at_7.13.39_PM\/312eac9e9.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"366\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u7537\u4eba\u5982\u679c\u56de\u7b54\u4ed6\u5011\u5728\u9078\u64c7\u7d50\u5a5a\u5c0d\u50cf\u6642\uff0c\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u9577\u76f8\u5f88\u91cd\u8981\uff1b\u90a3\u9ebc\u5176\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u96e2\u5a5a\u6a5f\u7387\u5c31\u8f03\u5176\u4ed6\u592b\u59bb\u7684\u9ad8\u51fa 50 %\uff1b\u800c\u5973\u4eba\u82e5\u662f\u5728\u610f\u5c0d\u65b9\u6709\u4e0d\u6709\u9322\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\u76f8\u8f03\u65bc\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e0d\u5728\u610f\u5c0d\u65b9\u9577\u76f8\u548c\u91d1\u9322\u7684\u592b\u59bb\u7adf\u9ad8\u51fa 60%\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>5.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u5a5a\u79ae\u7684\u898f\u6a21<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/posts\/2014\/10\/Screen_Shot_2014_10_13_at_7.17.20_PM\/bd1b2437a.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"364\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u8fa6\u4e00\u5834\u76db\u5927\u7684\u5a5a\u79ae\u5427\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>6.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u5a5a\u79ae\u7684\u82b1\u8cbb<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/posts\/2014\/10\/Screen_Shot_2014_10_13_at_7.19.01_PM\/b2020d367.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"374\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;\u5a5a\u79ae\u8981\u8fa6\u7684\u76db\u5927\u6c92\u932f\uff1b\u4f46\u7d55\u5c0d\u4e0d\u80fd\u82b1\u592a\u591a\u9322\u3002 Olson \u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u4f60\u5011\u7838\u8d8a\u591a\u9322\u5728\u8209\u8fa6\u5a5a\u79ae\u4e0a\uff0c\u5c07\u4f86\u96e2\u5a5a\u7684\u6a5f\u7387\u5c31\u8d8a\u9ad8\u3002\u300d<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>7.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u53bb\u871c\u6708\u65c5\u884c\uff1f<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.theatlantic.com\/assets\/media\/img\/posts\/2014\/10\/Screen_Shot_2014_10_13_at_7.24.24_PM\/f5b55a9ee.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"387\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u53bb\u4e00\u8d9f\u5cc7\u91cc\u5cf6\u5427\uff01\u871c\u6708\u65c5\u884c\u80fd\u964d\u4f4e 41 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