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style=\"color: #008000\"><strong>5. \u81ea\u79c1\u7684 Stanley<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"annotatable\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/qzprod.files.wordpress.com\/2015\/08\/selfish.png?w=320&amp;h=360\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"360\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"annotatable\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600\"><strong>\u81ea\u79c1\u5206\u6210 3 \u7a2e\u4e0d\u540c\u985e\u578b\uff1a<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"annotatable\"><span style=\"color: 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