{"id":4348,"date":"2015-08-18T12:30:20","date_gmt":"2015-08-18T04:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/08\/18\/why-do-we-fall-in-love\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:49:20","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:49:20","slug":"why-do-we-fall-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/08\/18\/why-do-we-fall-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"\u79d1\u5b78\u89e3\u5bc6\uff1a\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6211\u5011\u6703\u300c\u611b\u300d\u4e0a\u5c0d\u65b9\uff1f\u7adf\u7136\u8ddf\u5916\u8c8c\u6c92\u6709\u95dc\u4fc2"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Q \uff1a\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4f7f\u4eba\u5011\u6709\u52d5\u529b\u53bb\u627e\u5c0b\u611b\uff1f<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

A \uff1a\u6211\u5011\u4e3b\u8981\u7684\u52d5\u6a5f\u662f\u7576\u6211\u5011\u8981\u64f4\u5c55\u81ea\u5df1\u3001\u589e\u52a0\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u80fd\u529b\u8207\u5f71\u97ff\u529b\uff0c\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u7a2e\u65b9\u5f0f\u5c31\u662f\u900f\u904e\u6211\u5011\u8207\u4ed6\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002\u6211\u5011\u5728\u7814\u7a76\u4e2d\u767c\u73fe\uff0c\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u6709\u80fd\u529b\u6210\u70ba\u6709\u5f71\u97ff\u529b\u7684\u4eba\u662f\u5f88\u91cd\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u7279\u5225\u662f\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u88e1\u3002<\/p>\n

Q \uff1a<\/span>\u300c\u81ea\u6211\u81a8\u8139\u300d\uff08 self-expansion \uff09<\/span>\u7684\u7406\u8ad6\u5982\u4f55\u89e3\u91cb fall in love \u7684\u904e\u7a0b\uff1f<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Q \uff1a\u4e8b\u60c5\u4e00\u5b9a\u90fd\u662f\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u55ce\uff1f<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

A \uff1a\u4e0d\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u5f88\u6c92\u81ea\u4fe1\u7684\u8a71\u5c31\u6703\u6709\u5f88\u6709\u8da3\u7684\u4f8b\u5916\u51fa\u73fe\u3002\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u4e0d\u8a8d\u70ba\u5225\u4eba\u89ba\u5f97\u6211\u5011\u5f88\u6709\u9b45\u529b\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u6574\u500b\u904e\u7a0b\u5c31\u4e0d\u6703\u662f\u9019\u6a23\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u5c0d\u81ea\u8eab\u6c92\u6709\u4fe1\u5fc3<\/span>\u901a\u5e38\u90fd\u6703\u932f\u904e fall in love \u7684\u6a5f\u6703\u3002<\/p>\n

Q \uff1a\u54ea\u4e9b\u662f\u9047\u898b\u300c\u90a3\u500b\u4eba\u300d\u548c fall in love \u7684\u6700\u4f73\u72c0\u6cc1\uff1f<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

A \uff1a\u7576\u4f60\u5728\u5f88\u9ad8\u5ea6\u523a\u6fc0\u7684\u72c0\u6cc1\u4e0b\u9047\u898b\u67d0\u4eba\uff08\u6297\u8b70\u793a\u5a01\u3001\u98db\u6a5f\u4e0a\u4e00\u7247\u6df7\u4e82\u3001\u7dca\u5f35\u523a\u6fc0\u7684\u8868\u6f14\u7b49\u7b49\uff09\uff0c\u8eab\u9ad4\u88ab\u523a\u6fc0\u3001\u611f\u5230\u8208\u596e\u7684\u90a3\u4e9b\u6642\u523b\u548c\u72c0\u6cc1\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u5f80\u5f80\u6703\u9ad4\u9a57\u5230\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u5438\u5f15\u529b\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u6548\u61c9\u662f\u6709\u6240\u6839\u64da\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u5c0d\u5b83\u7684\u89e3\u91cb\u537b\u5f88\u6709\u722d\u8b70\uff0c\u6211\u50be\u5411\u76f8\u4fe1\u6211\u5011\u6703\u5c07\u74b0\u5883\u7684\u523a\u6fc0\u611f\u8207\u9019\u500b\u4eba\u548c\u81ea\u6211\u81a8\u8139\u9023\u7d50\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002<\/p>\n

Q \uff1a\u6211\u5011\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6642\u5019\u6703 fall in love \uff1f<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Q \uff1a\u5916\u8c8c\u56e0\u7d20\u5728 fall in love \u65b9\u7a0b\u5f0f\u7684\u6bd4\u91cd\uff1f<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Q \uff1a\u4f60\u662f\u5982\u4f55\u89e3\u91cb\u9019\u7a2e\u60c5\u6cc1\u7684\uff1f<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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