{"id":4022,"date":"2015-07-05T19:34:32","date_gmt":"2015-07-05T11:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/05\/healthy-relationship\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:50:27","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:50:27","slug":"healthy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/05\/healthy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4ed6\u5f88\u611b\u6211\u53ea\u662f\u4e0d\u6703\u8868\u9054\uff1f\u5225\u50bb\u4e86\uff0c\u4e00\u6bb5\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u611b\u8ddf\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u611b\u5c31\u5dee\u5728\u9019 6 \u9ede\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/426\/18318172599_810d63bc79_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u771f\u8aa0\u7684\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u865b\u5047\u7684\u3002\u59b3\u76f8\u4fe1\u6703\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u611b\u59b3\u55ce\uff1f\u5728\u59b3\u9ede\u982d\u7b54\u61c9\u958b\u59cb\u4e00\u6bb5\u6b63\u5f0f\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u4e4b\u524d\uff0c\u6700\u597d\u5148\u5206\u6790\u9019\u4e00\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u5426\u503c\u5f97\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7576\u300c\u4ed6\u300d\u8aaa\u611b\u59b3\u6642\uff0c\u6216\u8a31\u4ed6\u53ea\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u53d7\u5230\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u5275\u50b7\u800c\u5c0b\u6c42\u6170\u85c9\u6216\u662f\u904e\u6e21\u6642\u671f\uff0c\u9019\u6642\u5019\u59b3\u5c31\u6703\u5e38\u5e38\u641e\u4e0d\u6e05\u695a\u4ed6\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u611f\u89ba\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u5728\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u9078\u64c7\u4e4b\u524d\uff0c\u4ed4\u7d30\u60f3\u60f3\u4e4b\u5f8c\u518d\u4f5c\u6c7a\u5b9a\uff0c\u6703\u514d\u65bc\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u9677\u5165\u4e00\u6bb5\u865b\u5047\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u908a\u6709\u516d\u500b\u65b9\u6cd5\u8b93\u59b3\u91cd\u65b0\u6aa2\u8996\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u50f9\u503c\uff1a<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>1. \u771f\u8aa0\u7684\u7d66\u4e88\u8207\u7372\u5f97<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4e00\u6bb5\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u52c7\u65bc\u4ed8\u51fa\u4e0d\u6c42\u56de\u5831\u7684\uff0c\u800c\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u884c\u70ba\u4e5f\u7a31\u4e4b\u70ba\u300c\u611b\u300d\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u5728\u7d66\u4e88\u7684\u524d\u63d0\u4e0b\u537b\u8981\u6c42\u6709\u6240\u56de\u5831\u3002\u4e00\u6bb5\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u300c\u4fe1\u4efb\u300d\u662f\u4e3b\u8981\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u9a45\u52d5\u529b\uff0c\u5728\u4efb\u4f55\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\u4e0b\u90fd\u6703\u6709\u5c0d\u65b9\u5728\u80cc\u5f8c\u652f\u6301\u8457\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u662f\u771f\u8aa0\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u59b3\u5011\u5169\u4eba\u6703\u5f88\u9858\u610f\u53bb\u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u7121\u8ad6\u59b3\u505a\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff0c\u6211\u6703\u6c38\u9060\u652f\u6301\u59b3\u300d\uff01\u59b3\u6703\u5b8c\u5168\u7684\u76f8\u4fe1\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u6703\u5f88\u653e\u5fc3\u7684\u53bb\u770b\u5f85\u9019\u4e00\u4efd\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u59b3\u77e5\u9053\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u6c38\u9060\u4e0d\u6703\u80cc\u53db\u59b3\u3002\u53e6\u4e00\u65b9\u9762\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u5f88\u5c11\u6703\u4ed8\u51fa\u800c\u4e0d\u8981\u6c42\u56de\u5831\u7684\uff0c\u597d\u6bd4\u662f\u6bcf\u4e00\u6b21\u7684\u4ed8\u51fa\u5c31\u50cf\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u8cb7\u8ce3\uff0c\u9700\u8981\u6709\u5be6\u8cea\u4e0a\u7684\u56de\u994b\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>2. \u63a5\u53d7 vs. \u60f3\u8981\u6539\u8b8a\u5c0d\u65b9<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4e00\u6bb5\u597d\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u95dc\u4fc2\u5305\u542b\u5168\u5fc3\u5168\u610f\u7684\u63a5\u53d7\u53e6\u5916\u4e00\u534a\uff0c\u8981\u53bb\u5b8c\u5168\u7684\u63a2\u7d22\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u662f\u5f88\u96e3\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u611b\u5c31\u662f\u611b\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u4e00\u5207\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u5c0d\u65b9\u9075\u7167\u59b3\u7684\u9700\u6c42\uff0c\u6b64\u6642\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u6703\u8b8a\u5f97\u597d\u50cf\u53d7\u5230\u67d0\u7a2e\u76ee\u7684\u800c\u88ab\u63a7\u5236\u4f4f\uff0c\u70ba\u4e86\u4e0d\u65b7\u7684\u53bb\u8ffd\u6c42\u7d66\u4e88\u5c0d\u65b9\u6eff\u8db3\u611f\u800c\u5b58\u5728\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>3. \u771f\u6b63\u7684\u5e0c\u671b vs. \u5f37\u8feb\u5c0d\u65b9<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4e00\u6bb5\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u6703\u4f7f\u7528\u7f6a\u60e1\u611f\u53bb\u5f97\u5230\u60f3\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u5b83\u8b93\u59b3\u89ba\u5f97\u6709\u7f6a\u60e1\u611f\u9032\u800c\u5f9e\u59b3\u8eab\u4e0a\u62ff\u5230\u5b83\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u6771\u897f\uff0c\u5728\u9019\u6a23\u5b50\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u5e95\u4e0b\u59b3\u5c31\u4e0d\u80fd\u5168\u7136\u7684\u7d66\u4e88\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u59b3\u7684\u7d66\u4e88\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u59b3\u9700\u8981\u53bb\u505a\u4e9b\u751a\u9ebc\u3002\u800c\u4e00\u6bb5\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u7d66\u4e88\u662f\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u5e0c\u671b\u5c0d\u65b9\u958b\u5fc3\u800c\u53bb\u7167\u9867\u5230\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u9700\u6c42\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">4. \u66b4\u9732 vs. \u4fdd\u8b77\u96b1\u79c1<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u4e00\u6bb5\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u6703\u53bb\u63a9\u8b77\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u7f3a\u9ede\uff0c\u59b3\u6703\u8996\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u9ed1\u6697\u9762\u70ba\u4e00\u4ef6\u795e\u8056\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u800c\u7121\u8ad6\u662f\u4efb\u4f55\u539f\u56e0\u90fd\u4e0d\u6703\u6d29\u6f0f\u7d66\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\uff0c\u5728\u9019\u908a\u8aaa\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u4e00\u6bb5\u89aa\u5bc6\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u96b1\u79c1\u7684\u5efa\u7acb\u662f\u70ba\u4e86\u589e\u9032\u5169\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u59b3\u4e0d\u6703\u628a\u5169\u4eba\u7684\u96b1\u79c1\u6d29\u6f0f\u7d66\u4efb\u4f55\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u662f\u5bb6\u4eba\u6216\u662f\u597d\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u5169\u4eba\u6240\u64c1\u6709\u7684\u5c31\u662f\u5f7c\u6b64\u5169\u500b\u4eba\uff0c\u5169\u4eba\u5728\u5c0d\u5f85\u96b1\u79c1\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u597d\u6bd4\u653f\u5e9c\u5728\u5c0d\u5f85\u6975\u795e\u8056\u6216\u662f\u6a5f\u5bc6\u6587\u4ef6\u90a3\u6a23\u7684\u91cd\u8996\u3002\u800c\u4e00\u6bb5\u8150\u6557\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u5247\u6703\u8996\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u70ba\u7b11\u8a71\uff0c\u4e5f\u6703\u628a\u89aa\u5bc6\u7684\u884c\u70ba\u5206\u4eab\u7d66\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>5. \u5831\u5fa9 vs. \u4fee\u88dc<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u5435\u67b6\u6216\u722d\u8ad6\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u65b9\u5f0f\u53bb\u589e\u9032\u5169\u4eba\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u722d\u5435\u7684\u76ee\u7684\u4e0d\u662f\u70ba\u4e86\u56e4\u7a4d\u5f48\u85e5\u800c\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u4e4b\u5f8c\u53ef\u4ee5\u53bb\u63a7\u5236\u6216\u662f\u50b7\u5bb3\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u722d\u5435\u7684\u52d5\u6a5f\u662f\u70ba\u4e86\u66f4\u4e86\u89e3\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u9032\u800c\u66f4\u61c2\u5f97\u5982\u4f55\u8ddf\u5c0d\u65b9\u76f8\u8655\uff0c\u7576\u59b3\u591a\u4e86\u89e3\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u5c31\u6703\u66f4\u77e5\u9053\u5982\u4f55\u4fee\u88dc\u59b3\u5011\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002\u800c\u4e00\u6bb5\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u6703\u662f\u5145\u6eff\u5831\u5fa9\u5fc3\u800c\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u722d\u5435\u53ea\u6703\u88fd\u9020\u51fa\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u6392\u65a5\u3001\u6307\u8cac\u548c\u58d3\u8feb\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>6. \u81ea\u6211\u70ba\u4e2d\u5fc3 vs. \u5206\u4eab\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u5922\u60f3<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u611b\u6703\u4f7f\u5169\u500b\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u500b\u9ad4\u7d50\u5408\uff0c\u7576\u5f62\u6210\u9019\u6a23\u5b50\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e4b\u5f8c\uff0c\u5979\u5011\u6703\u4e00\u8d77\u69cb\u7bc9\u5922\u60f3\uff0c\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u76ee\u6a19\u6703\u70ba\u4e86\u5e36\u7d66\u5f7c\u6b64\u5e78\u798f\u800c\u6f38\u6f38\u878d\u5408\u4e00\u81f4\u3002\u800c\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u53ea\u6703\u8b93\u59b3\u653e\u68c4\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u7406\u60f3\uff0c\u8b93\u4e00\u5207\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u6210\u771f\uff0c\u9019\u6a23\u5b50\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u4e0d\u6703\u662f\u7d66\u4e88\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5077\u53d6\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6709\u4e86\u9019\u4e9b\u57fa\u672c\u7684\u7406\u6027\u601d\u8003\uff0c\u5c31\u4e0d\u8981\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u4e00\u6642\u7684\u611f\u6027\u6c96\u660f\u982d\u800c\u5c07\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9752\u6625\u6d6a\u8cbb\u5728\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e0a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u8cc7\u6599\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/communication\/6-differences-between-healthy-and-unhealthy-relationships.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lifehack<\/a>\uff1b\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/alan_jamieson\/18318172599\/sizes\/z\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Alan-Jamieson<\/a>, CC Licensed\uff1b\u7981\u6b62\u8f49\u8f09\uff09<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u76f8\u95dc\u6587\u7ae0<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/06\/25\/love-without-reasons\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4e0d\u8b93\u5b78\u751f\u8ac7\u6200\u611b\uff0c\u5927\u4eba\u5011\u8ac7\u300c\u64c7\u5076\u689d\u4ef6\u300d\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u6709\u6bd4\u8f03\u7d14\u7cb9\uff1f<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/02\/12-movie-sex-scenes-that-are-better-than-porn\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A \u7247\u63b0\uff0112 \u90e8\u96fb\u5f71\u4e2d\u8840\u8108\u5674\u5f35\u7684\u6027\u611b\u5834\u666f\uff0c\u4f60 hold \u5f97\u4f4f\u55ce<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/06\/25\/love-is-everything\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5b78\u6821\u6c92\u6559\u7684\u4e8b\uff1a\u8ac7\u6200\u611b\uff0c\u8b93\u4f60\u5b78\u6703\u5206\u6790\u60c5\u52e2\u3001\u89e3\u6c7a\u554f\u984c\u7684\u751f\u5b58\u6280\u80fd\uff01<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u771f\u8aa0\u7684\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u865b\u5047\u7684\u3002\u59b3\u76f8\u4fe1\u6703\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u611b\u59b3\u55ce\uff1f\u5728\u59b3\u9ede\u982d\u7b54\u61c9\u958b\u59cb\u4e00\u6bb5\u6b63\u5f0f\u7684\u4ea4\u5f80\u4e4b\u524d\uff0c\u6700\u597d\u5148\u5206\u6790\u9019\u4e00\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u662f\u5426\u503c\u5f97\u3002 \u7576\u300c\u4ed6\u300d\u8aaa\u611b\u59b3\u6642\uff0c\u6216\u8a31\u4ed6\u53ea\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u53d7\u5230\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u5275\u50b7\u800c\u5c0b[&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":54,"featured_media":30530,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[68],"tags":[94,87],"coauthors":[16496],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4022"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/54"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4022"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4022\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38621,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4022\/revisions\/38621"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4022"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=4022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}