{"id":39884,"date":"2021-06-22T16:05:52","date_gmt":"2021-06-22T08:05:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/?p=39884"},"modified":"2021-08-27T17:25:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-27T09:25:04","slug":"be-who-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2021\/06\/22\/be-who-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u8981\u662f\u6211\u80fd\u66f4\u5916\u5411\u4e00\u9ede\u5c31\u597d\u4e86\u3002\u300d\u8a8d\u77e5\u795e\u7d93\u5b78\u5bb6\u63ed\u958b\u6210\u5e74\u4eba\u300c\u6539\u8b8a\u6027\u683c\u300d\u7684\u79d1\u5b78\uff1a\u6210\u70ba\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u81ea\u5df1"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>\u300c\u6211\u66fe\u5728\u66f8\u88e1\u65c5\u884c\uff0c\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u65c5\u884c\u4e16\u754c\uff0c\u66f4\u662f\u5c0d\u65bc\u81ea\u5df1\u5167\u5728\u7684\u65c5\u884c\u63a2\u7d22\u3002\u300d\u2014\u2014\u7372\u666e\u7acb\u8332\u8a55\u8ad6\u734e\u8a18\u8005 \u5b89\u5a1c\u30fb\u6606\u767b (Anna 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