{"id":3912,"date":"2015-07-20T11:03:54","date_gmt":"2015-07-20T03:03:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/20\/three-aspects-of-love\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:50:15","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:50:15","slug":"three-aspects-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/20\/three-aspects-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"\u611b\u60c5\u4e5f\u8981\u6c38\u7e8c\u7d93\u71df\uff1a\u8a71\u85cf\u5fc3\u5e95\u7121\u52a9\u65bc\u4e8b\uff0c\u8ac7\u300c\u6027\u300d\u5225\u5bb3\u7f9e\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_14189\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/3-toxic-expectations-that-kill-relationships-jgc\/\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14189\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14189\" src=\"\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2015\/06\/GmpPics28.jpg\" alt=\"Happy young couple outdoors\" width=\"500\" height=\"379\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-14189\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Happy young couple outdoors<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u5c0d\u65bc\u611b\u60c5\u7684\u6d6a\u6f2b\u5e7b\u60f3\uff0c\u7121\u8ad6\u7537\u5973\uff0c\u90fd\u6703\u5c0d\u672a\u4f86\u7684\u53e6\u5916\u4e00\u534a\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u7684\u671f\u671b\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u5fc3\u9748\u4e0a\u7684\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c<span style=\"color: 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#ff6600;\">\u7d93\u71df\u611b\u60c5<\/span>\uff0c\u5c31\u8981\u7279\u5225\u6ce8\u610f\u4ee5\u4e0b\u4e09\u9ede\uff0c<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u907f\u514d\u904e\u5ea6\u5408\u7406\u5316\u4f60\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5<\/span>\uff0c\u8b93\u4f60\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u53ef\u4ee5\u66f4\u5065\u5eb7\uff01<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>1. \u4e0d\u7528\u591a\u8aaa\uff0c\u5c31\u77e5\u9053\u6211\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u9ebc<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u5fc3\u88e1\u6240\u60f3\u7684\uff0c\u82e5\u4e0d\u8aaa\u51fa\u4f86\uff0c\u6c92\u6709\u4eba\u6703\u77e5\u9053\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u662f\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u90fd\u5584\u65bc\u6e9d\u901a\u8207\u8868\u9054\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u671f\u671b\u88ab\u4e86\u89e3\u7684\u5fc3\u90fd\u662f\u4e00\u6a23\u7684\uff01\u7537\u5973\u751f\u7684\u601d\u8003\u908f\u8f2f<span style=\"color: #333333;\">\u672c\u4f86\u5c31\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u76f8\u8655\u78e8\u5408\u66f4\u662f\u4e00\u5927\u5b78\u554f\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\uff0c\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u767c\u5c55\u4e5f\u662f\u6e9d\u901a\u4e2d\u5e38\u898b\u7684\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\uff0c\u592b\u59bb\u9593\u7684\u5e8a\u7b2c\u60c5\u8da3\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u9700\u8981\u5f7c\u6b64\u6e9d\u901a\u3002\u5c0d\u65bc\u95dc\u4fc2\u6700\u7dca\u5bc6\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u6709\u6642\u5019\u8d8a\u96e3\u8aaa\u51fa\u5fc3\u88e1\u9762\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u4e00\u958b\u59cb\u7576\u7136\u5f88\u96e3\u53bb\u8d64\u88f8\u5730\u8868\u9054\u6700\u771f\u5be6\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u4f46\u6162\u6162\u5730\u7df4\u7fd2\uff0c\u76e1\u53ef\u80fd\u5730\u5411\u5c0d\u65b9\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u65e5\u5fa9\u4e00\u65e5\uff0c\u76f8\u4fe1\u4e00\u5b9a\u6703\u5728\u8ac7\u8a71\u9593\u5c0d\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u77ad\u89e3\u66f4\u6df1\uff0c\u800c\u5728\u8eab\u5fc3\u9748\u4e0a\uff0c\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u90fd\u80fd\u5920\u66f4\u7dca\u5bc6\u7684\u9023\u7d50\uff01<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/benurs\/5140213820\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-14192\" src=\"\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2015\/06\/5140213820_d212b84857_z.jpg\" alt=\"5140213820_d212b84857_z\" width=\"640\" height=\"405\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>2. \u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u5305\u5bb9\u4ed6\u7684\u6240\u6709\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4ed6\u662f\u6211\u7684\u5168\u4e16\u754c<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e26\u975e\u69cb\u7bc9\u5728\u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u4ed8\u51fa\u4e0b\u624d\u7b97\u5713\u6eff\uff0c\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u76f8\u8655\u662f\u900f\u904e\u6e9d\u901a\u5354\u8abf\u8207\u5171\u540c\u8abf\u6574\u6b65\u4f10\u3002\u4e00\u5473\u5bb9\u5fcd\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e0d\u662f\u611b\u7684\u8868\u73fe\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u662f<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u66b4\u529b<\/span>\uff0c\u4f60\u9084\u8a8d\u70ba\u61c9\u8a72\u7e7c\u7e8c\u611b\u4e0b\u53bb\u55ce\uff1f\u5408\u7406\u7684\u689d\u4ef6\u8207\u671f\u671b\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u900f\u904e\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u76f8\u8655\u8b93\u5169\u6027\u95dc\u4fc2\u66f4\u5065\u5eb7\u9032\u6b65\uff01\u7576\u96d9\u65b9\u53ef\u4ee5\u66f4\u6709\u667a\u6167\u5730\u53bb\u5f7c\u6b64\u6276\u6301\u6210\u9577\uff0c\u9069\u6642\u9069\u7576\u7684\u5305\u5bb9\uff0c\u53ea\u6703\u662f\u611b\u60c5\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u63a8\u9032\u52d5\u529b\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u55ce\uff01\uff1f<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/camdiluv\/4373811197\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-14191\" src=\"\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2015\/06\/4373811197_eb306bc8a2_z.jpg\" alt=\"4373811197_eb306bc8a2_z\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>3. \u6bcb\u9808\u8cbb\u795e\u3001\u8cbb\u529b<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\">\u4eba\u5011\u5c0d\u65bc\u611b\u60c5\u7684\u5e7b\u60f3\uff0c\u52a0\u4e0a\u597d\u840a\u5862\u96fb\u5f71\u7537\u5973\u4e3b\u89d2\u7684\u6d6a\u6f2b\u60c5\u7bc0\uff0c\u8b93\u7537\u4eba\u5973\u4eba\u5011\u89ba\u5f97\u611b\u60c5\u5c31\u61c9\u8a72\u50cf\u81ea\u52d5\u99d5\u99db\u6a21\u5f0f\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u4e0d\u9700\u6295\u6ce8\u7cbe\u795e\u53bb\u7d93\u71df\uff0c\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e78\u798f\u4e00\u8f29\u5b50\uff0c\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u55ce\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\">\u70ba\u4e86\u8b93\u96d9\u65b9\u53ef\u4ee5\u5728\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e0b<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">\u4e00\u8d77\u6210\u9577<\/span>\uff0c\u6642\u4e0b\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u95dc\u65bc\u5169\u6027\u76f8\u8655\u7684\u66f8\u7c4d\u3001\u8b1b\u5ea7\u3001\u7814\u8a0e\u6703\u7b49\u7b49\uff0c\u5e6b\u52a9\u592b\u59bb\u5f9e\u65e5\u5e38\u76f8\u8655\u5230\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u53ef\u4ee5\u66f4\u52a0\u878d\u6d3d\u3002\u900f\u904e\u9069\u7576\u7684\u5916\u529b\u5354\u52a9\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e6b\u52a9\u66f4\u4e86\u89e3\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u8eab\u5fc3\u9748\u548c\u57f9\u990a\u4f60\u5011\u7368\u6709\u7684\u4e92\u52d5\u6a21\u5f0f\uff0c\u4f7f\u6210\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u6700\u68d2\u7684\u300c\u5fc3\u9748\u4f34\u4fb6\u300d\uff01\u6216\u662f\uff0c\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u4e00\u8d77\u60a0\u9592\u7684\u6e21\u500b\u5047\u653e\u9b06\u5fc3\u60c5\uff0c\u8eba\u5728\u6c99\u7058\u4e0a\u5f9e\u9ec3\u660f\u804a\u5230\u661f\u7a7a\u9ad8\u639b\uff0c\u4eab\u53d7\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u5e78\u798f\u5c0f\u6642\u5149\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\">\u5728\u96d9\u65b9\u7528\u5fc3\u7d93\u71df\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e0b\uff0c\u7576\u9047\u5230\u885d\u7a81\u6642\uff0c\u4e5f\u6703\u5b78\u8457\u5c0a\u91cd\u8207\u9ad4\u8ad2\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u5728\u6709\u667a\u6167\u7684\u8655\u7406\u96d9\u65b9\u60c5\u7dd2\u4e0b\uff0c\u7d50\u675f\u722d\u5435\u3002\u300c\u95dc\u4fc2\u6bd4\u4e8b\u60c5\u91cd\u8981\u300d\uff0c\u7576\u4f60\u770b\u91cd\u7684\u662f\u4f60\u8207\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u90a3\u5f15\u8d77\u4e0d\u6eff\u60c5\u7dd2\u7684\u4e8b\u4ef6\u4e5f\u5c31\u4e0d\u9019\u9ebc\u91cd\u8981\u4e86\u2026\u2026\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u611b\u7684\u662f\u4f60\u773c\u524d\u7684\u90a3\u500b\u300c\u4eba\u300d\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u300c\u6771\u897f\u300d\u3002\u611b\u60c5\u771f\u7684\u9700\u8981\u7d93\u71df\uff0c\u800c\u96d9\u65b9\u5728\u7528\u5fc3\u4e0b\u6240\u7d50\u51fa\u4f86\u7684\u751c\u7f8e\u679c\u5be6\uff0c\u7d55\u5c0d\u503c\u5f97\uff01<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/charlotte90t\/6986553224\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-14193\" src=\"\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2015\/06\/6986553224_183f14a44f_z.jpg\" alt=\"6986553224_183f14a44f_z\" width=\"640\" height=\"216\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u6240\u6709\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u7d50\u5408\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u90fd\u5e36\u6709\u4e00\u7a2e<span style=\"color: #333333;\">\u76f8\u4e92\u7642\u7652\u8207\u6276\u6301\uff0c<\/span>\u4ee5\u53ca\u4e00\u8d77\u5065\u5eb7\u6210\u9577\u7684\u6982\u5ff5\u3002\u6bcf\u5c0d\u76f8\u611b\u7684\u5f7c\u6b64\u90fd\u6709\u5404\u81ea\u9069\u5408\u7684\u76f8\u8655\u6a21\u5f0f\uff0c\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u53bb\u7528\u5fc3\u4e86\u89e3\u90a3\u51fa\u73fe\u5728\u4f60\u773c\u88e1\u5012\u5f71\u4e2d\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u966a\u4f60\u8d70\u4e00\u8f29\u5b50\u7684\u90a3\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4eba\uff5e<\/p>\n<p>\u6c38\u9060\u8a18\u5f97\uff0c\u4f60\u5011\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u6c38\u9060\u6bd4\u90a3\u5fae\u4e0d\u8db3\u5230\u7684\u829d\u9ebb\u5c0f\u4e8b\u9084\u8981\u91cd\u8981\uff01\u65e2\u7136\u5f7c\u6b64\u9858\u610f\u4f38\u51fa\u96d9\u624b\u7dca\u63e1\u4f4f\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u8a8d\u771f\u5730\u611b\uff0c\u7528\u5fc3\u7684\u76f8\u8655\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60f3\u8981\u5e78\u798f\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u5e78\u798f\u4e00\u8f29\u5b50\u90fd\u4e0d\u8981\u5206\u958b\uff5e<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>\uff1d\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80\uff1d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/16\/disney-pictures-thoughts\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u60f3\u50cf\u529b\u7d66\u4f60\u4e00\u5c0d\u7fc5\u8180\uff01\u90a3\u4e9b\u5e74\u548c\u8fea\u58eb\u5c3c\u4e00\u8d77\u505a\u7684\u5922\uff0c\u5c07\u5f71\u97ff\u4f60\u4e00\u8f29\u5b50<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/16\/miss-the-idea-of-them\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5931\u6200\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\uff1a\u4f60\u653e\u4e0d\u4e0b\u7684\u662f\u4ed6\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u8ddf\u4ed6\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u6642\u5feb\u6a02\u7684\u300c\u81ea\u5df1\u300d\uff1f<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/15\/to-be-a-glamorous-bride\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener 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