{"id":3714,"date":"2015-07-08T11:55:02","date_gmt":"2015-07-08T03:55:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/08\/soft-heart-person-problems\/"},"modified":"2015-07-08T11:55:02","modified_gmt":"2015-07-08T03:55:02","slug":"soft-heart-person-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/08\/soft-heart-person-problems\/","title":{"rendered":"\u88ab\u6b3a\u8ca0\u9084\u7b11\u8457\u539f\u8ad2\uff0c8 \u500b\u5fc3\u8178\u8edf\u7684\u4eba\u6703\u78b0\u5230\u7684\u554f\u984c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn-media-1.lifehack.org\/wp-content\/files\/2015\/03\/Having-Soft-Heart.jpg\" alt=\"Having Soft Heart\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" 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8 \u500b\u554f\u984c\uff1a<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>1. \u6211\u5011\u6c38\u9060\u90fd\u6703\u652f\u6301\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u9019\u500b\u5145\u6eff\u81ea\u79c1\u7684\u4eba\u7684\u4e16\u754c\uff0c\u5fc3\u8178\u8edf\u7684\u4eba\u662f\u552f\u4e00\u4ecd\u7136\u6703\u53bb\u652f\u6301\u8207\u5e6b\u52a9\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u5118\u7ba1\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u4e0d\u662f\u5411\u4ed6\u5011\u5c0b\u6c42\u5e6b\u52a9\u800c\u662f\u5229\u7528\u4ed6\u5011\uff0c\u5fc3\u8178\u8edf\u7684\u4eba\u4f9d\u820a\u662f\u4efb\u4f55\u9700\u8981\u5354\u52a9\u7684\u4eba\u7684\u76fe\u3002\u7576\u4f60\u5411\u4ed6\u5011\u5c0b\u6c42\u5e6b\u52a9\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u4f60\u4e5f\u7d55\u5c0d\u4e0d\u6703\u88ab\u62d2\u7d55\u3002\u90a3\u4e9b\u4ecd\u7136\u9858\u610f\u6301\u7e8c\u5e6b\u52a9\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u90a3\u4e9b\u8b93\u4e16\u754c\u7e7c\u7e8c\u904b\u8f49\u4e0b\u53bb\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>2. 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\u6211\u5011\u80cc\u8ca0\u8457\u4e16\u754c\u7684\u91cd\u64d4<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5c0d\u4e00\u822c\u4eba\u800c\u8a00\uff0c\u9019\u53ef\u80fd\u592a\u904e\u65bc\u6c89\u91cd\uff0c\u4e26\u4e14\u4f7f\u4eba\u75b2\u5026\uff1b\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u5fc3\u8178\u8edf\u7684\u4eba\u4e0d\u6703\u88ab\u4ed6\u5011\u6240\u627f\u64d4\u7684\u773e\u591a\u8cac\u4efb\u7d66\u64ca\u57ae\u3002\u4ed6\u5011\u5f88\u6a02\u610f\u53bb\u627f\u64d4\u90a3\u4e9b\u4ed6\u5011\u88ab\u8ce6\u4e88\u7684\u8cac\u4efb\uff0c\u4e26\u4e14\u8996\u4e4b\u70ba\u79ae\u7269\u3002\u7121\u8ad6\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u5982\u4f55\u770b\u5f85\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u7e3d\u662f\u8a8d\u70ba\u9019\u4e9b\u5de5\u4f5c\u6bd4\u8d77\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u60f3\u50cf\u4e2d\u7684\u5bb9\u6613\u3002\u6148\u5584\u5c0d\u4ed6\u5011\u4f86\u8aaa\u5f9e\u4f86\u4e0d\u662f\u8ca0\u64d4\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>4. 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style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>8. 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