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href=\"http:\/\/elitedaily.com\/dating\/science-timeline-heartbreak\/868720\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u5011\u7684\u5fc3\u5929\u751f\u5c31\u662f\u7528\u4f86\u514b\u670d\u5fc3\u788e\u7684<\/a>\uff0c\u9019\u9805\u7814\u7a76\u5f37\u8abf\u5728\u653e\u624b\u5f8c\u4e5f\u6703\u8b8a\u6210\u66f4\u5feb\u6a02\u3001\u5fc3\u80f8\u5bec\u95ca\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Tashiro \u548c\u4ed6\u7684\u7814\u7a76\u4eba\u54e1\u5011\u540c\u6a23\u8a8d\u70ba\u5206\u624b\u5728\u9577\u671f\u4f86\u770b\uff0c\u78ba\u5be6\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u8b93\u5fc3\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u5805\u5f37\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4ed6\u7e7c\u7e8c\u8aaa\u9053\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u6211\u8a8d\u70ba\u5206\u624b\u80fd\u8b93\u67d0\u4e9b\u4eba\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u5805\u5f37\u22ef\u22ef\u6709\u8da3\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u4eba\u5011\u90fd\u8868\u793a\u5206\u624b\u6709\u751f\u7406\u4e0a\u7684\u4e5f\u6709\u60c5\u7dd2\u4e0a\u7684\u75db\u82e6\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span 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noreferrer\">\u5931\u53bb\u6700\u611b\u7684\u4eba\u7684\u72c0\u614b\u3001\u8655\u7406\u6cae\u55aa\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u3001\u514b\u670d\u5206\u624b\u9019\u500b\u96e3\u95dc<\/a>\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #333399;\">\u5206\u624b\u5f8c\u8981\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u5805\u5f37\uff0c\u9700\u8981\u4f60\u7684\u5927\u8166\u8207\u5fc3\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u5e73\u8861\u3002<\/span><\/strong>\u8981\u5b8c\u5168\u514b\u670d\u9019\u500b\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u8271\u96e3\u6311\u6230\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u9700\u8981\u5805\u5f37\u8d77\u4f86\uff0c\u8b93\u7d81\u4f4f\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\u4e8b\u7269\u6efe\u4e00\u908a\u53bb\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Tashiro \u8868\u793a\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: 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