{"id":3495,"date":"2015-04-22T15:21:22","date_gmt":"2015-04-22T07:21:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/04\/22\/15-body-language-secrets-of-successful-people\/"},"modified":"2015-04-22T15:21:22","modified_gmt":"2015-04-22T07:21:22","slug":"15-body-language-secrets-of-successful-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/04\/22\/15-body-language-secrets-of-successful-people\/","title":{"rendered":"\u80a2\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\u5c08\u5bb6\u5927\u89e3\u5bc6\uff01\u6210\u529f\u4eba\u58eb\u7d55\u5c0d\u4e0d\u6703\u505a\u7684 15 \u7a2e\u52d5\u4f5c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u7121\u8ad6\u4f60\u662f\u8077\u5834\u65b0\u9bae\u4eba\u9084\u662f\u7d93\u9a57\u8001\u9053\u7684\u4e3b\u7ba1\uff0c\u5728\u9762\u8a66\u3001\u958b\u6703\u6216\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u6642\u6709\u54ea\u4e9b\u52d5\u4f5c\u8d85NG\uff1f\u5c31\u8b93\u60c5\u7dd2\u57f9\u8a13\u516c\u53f8TalentSmart\u7684\u7e3d\u88c1\u5e03\u840a\u5fb7\u8c9d\u745e(Travis Bradberry)\u535a\u58eb\u4f86\u544a\u8a34\u4f60\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8386\/8599320414_874fff2c51_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u6709\u9ad8\u60c5\u5546\u7684\u9802\u5c16\u4eba\u58eb\u5f80\u5f80\u5c0d\u61c9\u5c0d\u9032\u9000\u5f88\u6709\u4e00\u5957\u3002\uff08Photo credit:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/gldar\/8599320414\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00a0Glen Darrud<\/a>, CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u8981\u6210\u529f\u5c31\u5225\u505a<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u4ec0\u9ebc\u52d5\u4f5c\u6210\u529f\u8005\u7d55\u5c0d\u4e0d\u6703\u505a\uff0c\u4f46\u5931\u6557\u8005\u537b\u5e38\u5e38\u505a\u5462\uff1f\u5c31\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u8ddf\u8457\u60c5\u7dd2\u57f9\u8a13\u516c\u53f8TalentSmart\u7684\u7e3d\u88c1\u5e03\u840a\u5fb7\u8c9d\u745e(Travis 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100\u842c\u4eba\u5f8c\u767c\u73fe\uff0c\u8868\u73fe\u8f03\u597d\u7684\u4eba\u6709\u8f03\u9ad8\u7684\u60c5\u5546\uff0c\u6e96\u78ba\u5730\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c90%\u7684\u83c1\u82f1\u90fd\u6709\u9ad8\u60c5\u5546\u3002\u9019\u4e9b\u4eba\u77e5\u9053\u5728\u6e9d\u901a\u904e\u7a0b\u4e2d\u975e\u8a9e\u8a00\u7684\u529b\u91cf\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u4e5f\u6703\u56e0\u5730\u5236\u5b9c\u76e3\u6e2c\u4e26\u8abf\u6574\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8eab\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><strong>\u4ee5\u4e0b\u662f 15\u7a2e\u6700\u5e38\u898b\u7684\u8eab\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\u932f\u8aa4\uff0c\u60c5\u5546\u9ad8\u7684\u4eba\u6703\u5c0f\u5fc3\u907f\u958b\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u99dd\u80cc<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/107\/309526419_81c1bda528_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"595\" height=\"446\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u7121\u7cbe\u6253\u91c7\u53ef\u80fd\u4e0d\u77e5\u4e0d\u89ba\u5c31\u8b93\u5927\u597d\u6a5f\u6703\u846c\u9001\u773c\u524d\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/robadob\/309526419\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Robin Corps<\/a> ,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u4e0d\u5c0a\u91cd\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8868\u73fe\uff0c\u986f\u793a\u51fa\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u7121\u804a\u4e0d\u60f3\u5f85\u5728\u9019\u88e1\u3002\u4f60\u7d55\u4e0d\u6703\u8ddf\u4f60\u7684\u8001\u95c6\u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u4e0d\u61c2\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6211\u5f97\u807d\u4f60\u7684\u3002\u300d\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7121\u7cbe\u6253\u91c7\uff0c\u4f60\u9023\u8aaa\u90fd\u4e0d\u7528\u8aaa\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u8eab\u9ad4\u5c31\u5e6b\u4f60\u6e05\u695a\u4e14\u5927\u8072\u5730\u8aaa\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u6d3b\u52d5\u7684\u7a7a\u9593\u5927\u5c0f\u4e5f\u8207\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u5c55\u73fe\u51fa\u7684\u529b\u91cf\u76f8\u7b49\u3002\u7ad9\u76f4\u4e14\u628a\u80a9\u8180\u5f80\u5f8c\u63a8\u662f\u5e36\u6709\u529b\u91cf\u7684\u59ff\u52e2\uff0c\u9019\u500b\u59ff\u52e2\u8b93\u4f60\u4f54\u7684\u7a7a\u9593\u6975\u5927\u5316\u3002\u76f8\u53cd\u7684\uff0c\u99dd\u80cc\u8b93\u4f60\u4f54\u64da\u7684\u7a7a\u9593\u7e2e\u5c0f\uff0c\u4e5f\u50b3\u9054\u51fa\u7121\u529b\u611f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u62ac\u982d\u633a\u80f8\u50b3\u9054\u51fa\u5c0a\u91cd\uff0c\u4e5f\u589e\u52a0\u4e86\u5c0d\u8a71\u96d9\u65b9\u7684\u9023\u7d50\u3002<br \/>\n<strong>2.<span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u8a87\u5f35\u624b\u52e2<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5271\/14404726485_a8a87f7ee7_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"404\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u5728\u5c0d\u8a71\u6642\u624b\u52e2\u592a\u8a87\u5f35\u4e5fNG\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/mtsofan\/14404726485\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">MTSOfan<\/a> , CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u53ef\u80fd\u6697\u6307\u4f60\u8a00\u904e\u5176\u5be6\u3002\u5efa\u8b70\u7528\u5c0f\u578b\u80fd\u63a7\u5236\u7684\u624b\u52e2\u5c55\u73fe\u9818\u5c0e\u529b\u8207\u81ea\u4fe1\u3002\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u958b\u653e\u6027\u7684\u59ff\u52e2\uff0c\u50cf\u662f\u5f35\u958b\u4f60\u7684\u96d9\u81c2\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u8b93\u4f60\u7684\u624b\u638c\u9732\u51fa\u90fd\u5728\u50b3\u9054\u4e00\u500b\u8a0a\u606f\u2500\u2500\u4f60\u6c92\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u597d\u96b1\u779e\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>3.<span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u770b\u6642\u9418<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5198\/14291869897_e81d3b8dc9_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"588\" height=\"441\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u4e00\u908a\u8b1b\u8a71\u4e00\u908a\u770b\u624b\u9336\u5f88\u4e0d\u79ae\u8c8c\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/istargazer\/14291869897\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Albert Lynn<\/a> ,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u8ddf\u67d0\u4eba\u5c0d\u8a71\u6642\u770b\u6642\u9418\u662f\u500b\u660e\u986f\u4e0d\u5c0a\u91cd\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8868\u73fe\uff0c\u4e5f\u986f\u5f97\u4f60\u5f88\u6c92\u8010\u5fc3\u8207\u9a55\u50b2\u81ea\u5927\uff0c\u7d66\u4eba\u4e00\u7a2e\u4f60\u9084\u6709\u66f4\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\u8981\u505a\u7684\u611f\u89ba\uff0c\u5c0e\u81f4\u4f60\u7126\u6025\u4e0d\u5b89\u60f3\u8981\u8d95\u5feb\u96e2\u958b\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u628a\u80cc\u5c0d\u8457\u5225\u4eba<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm4.staticflickr.com\/3331\/3567904905_66cf7378da_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"441\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u628a\u80cc\u8f49\u904e\u53bb\u4ee3\u8868\u4f60\u4e0d\u60f3\u8207\u67d0\u4eba\u6e9d\u901a\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/yourdon\/3567904905\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ed Yourdon<\/a> ,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\u628a\u80cc\u5c0d\u8457\u5225\u4eba\u6216\u662f\u5c0d\u5c0d\u8a71\u4e0d\u5920\u6295\u5165\u90fd\u8868\u793a\u4f60\u4e0d\u5728\u4e4e\u3001\u6c92\u6709\u8208\u8da3\u3001\u4e0d\u8212\u670d\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u4e0d\u4fe1\u4efb\u5728\u8b1b\u8a71\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u8a66\u8457\u628a\u4f60\u7684\u982d\u7a0d\u7a0d\u5f80\u6b63\u5728\u8b1b\u8a71\u7684\u4eba\u524d\u50be\u4e00\u9ede\uff0c\u9019\u8b93\u8b1b\u8005\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u5168\u795e\u8cab\u6ce8\u5728\u807d\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>5.<span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u96d9\u81c2\u4ea4\u53c9<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/34\/70751294_8c143cec90_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"543\" height=\"407\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u96d9\u81c2\u4ea4\u53c9\u5728\u80f8\u524d\u7121\u5f62\u4e2d\u7d66\u4eba\u4e00\u7a2e\u8ddd\u96e2\u611f\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/jimbaker\/70751294\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Forest Runner<\/a>,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u4ea4\u53c9\u96d9\u81c2\u548c\u96d9\u817f\u5728\u67d0\u7a2e\u7a0b\u5ea6\u4e0a\u4ee3\u8868\u4e00\u7a2e\u8eab\u9ad4\u4e0a\u7684\u963b\u7919\uff0c\u4e5f\u5c31\u662f\u4f60\u5c0d\u8b1b\u8005\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u655e\u958b\u5fc3\u80f8\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u4f60\u9762\u5e36\u7b11\u5bb9\u6216\u662f\u5c0d\u8a71\u9032\u884c\u5f97\u5f88\u9806\u5229\uff0c\u5225\u4eba\u4e5f\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u62d2\u4eba\u65bc\u5343\u91cc\u4e4b\u5916\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5373\u4f7f\u96d9\u81c2\u4ea4\u53c9\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e36\u7d66\u4f60\u5b89\u5168\u611f\uff0c\u4e5f\u8acb\u4e0d\u8981\u9019\u9ebc\u505a\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u60f3\u8b93\u4eba\u5011\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u662f\u500b\u958b\u6717\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u4f60\u5c0d\u4ed6\u5011\u8aaa\u7684\u8a71\u6709\u8208\u8da3\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u9762\u90e8\u8868\u60c5\u8207\u5c0d\u8a71\u642d\u4e0d\u8d77\u4f86<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm5.staticflickr.com\/4070\/4330928390_4a7258562b_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"559\" height=\"372\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u7dca\u5f35\u7684\u5fae\u7b11\u6709\u6642\u53cd\u800c\u6703\u7d66\u8ac7\u5224\u5e36\u4f86\u53cd\u6548\u679c\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/andrewrennie\/4330928390\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Andy Rennie<\/a>,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u6703\u8b93\u5c0d\u65b9\u89ba\u5f97\u54ea\u88e1\u51fa\u4e86\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u958b\u59cb\u61f7\u7591\u4f60\u5728\u6b3a\u9a19\u4ed6\u5011\u3002\u8209\u4f8b\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u7528\u4e00\u500b\u7dca\u5f35\u7684\u5fae\u7b11\u62d2\u7d55\u5354\u5546\u4e2d\u63d0\u4f9b\u7684\u689d\u4ef6\uff0c\u4e26\u4e0d\u80fd\u8b93\u4f60\u5f97\u5230\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u7d50\u679c\uff0c\u53ea\u6703\u8b93\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u89ba\u5f97\u548c\u4f60\u4e00\u8d77\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e0d\u8f15\u9b06\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4ed6\u5011\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u5fc3\u88cf\u5728\u76e4\u7b97\u8457\u4ec0\u9ebc\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u8a87\u5f35\u5730\u9ede\u982d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm2.staticflickr.com\/1427\/1266155281_fe91c74652_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"571\" height=\"428\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u9ede\u982d\u9ede\u592a\u5927\u529b\u4e5f\u986f\u793a\u51fa\u4f60\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12346850@N07\/1266155281\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">chloe lizbeth \u2665\/\/<\/a>,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\u9019\u986f\u793a\u51fa\u4f60\u5c0d\u540c\u610f\u7684\u4e8b\u5f88\u4e0d\u5b89\u3002\u4eba\u5011\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u91cd\u91cd\u5730\u9ede\u982d\u8868\u793a\u4f60\u540c\u610f\uff0c\u6216\u4f60\u77e5\u9053\u4e00\u4e9b\u4e8b\u5be6\u4e0a\u4f60\u6839\u672c\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u7684\u6771\u897f\u3002<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>8. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u73a9\u982d\u9aee<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm4.staticflickr.com\/3167\/2605624053_ddefa05d28_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"606\" height=\"404\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u5728\u8077\u5834\u4e0a\u73a9\u982d\u9aee\u4e0d\u53ea\u4e0d\u5c08\u696d\uff0c\u7d66\u4eba\u8f15\u6d6e\u7684\u611f\u89ba\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/dawnashley\/2605624053\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dawn Ashley<\/a>,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\u9019\u986f\u793a\u4f60\u4e0d\u5b89\u4e14\u904e\u5ea6\u8208\u596e\u3001\u592a\u5c08\u6ce8\u65bc\u81ea\u5df1\u4e14\u5fc3\u7169\u610f\u4e82\u3002\u4eba\u5011\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u904e\u65bc\u5728\u610f\u5916\u8868\uff0c\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e8b\u696d\u53cd\u800c\u4e0d\u5920\u5728\u610f\u3002<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>9. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u907f\u514d\u773c\u795e\u63a5\u89f8<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/38\/83633700_7d421a1214_z.jpg?zz=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"601\" height=\"451\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u8aaa\u8a71\u6642\u773c\u795e\u9583\u720d\u5bb9\u6613\u8b93\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e0d\u4fe1\u4efb\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/foxtongue\/83633700\/in\/photostream\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jhayne<\/a> ,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u5f77\u5f7f\u4f60\u4f01\u5716\u96b1\u85cf\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff0c\u9019\u6703\u6fc0\u8d77\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u61f7\u7591\u3002\u7f3a\u4e4f\u773c\u795e\u63a5\u89f8\u4e5f\u4ee3\u8868\u7f3a\u4e4f\u81ea\u4fe1\u548c\u8208\u8da3\uff0c\u4f60\u7d55\u5c0d\u4e0d\u60f3\u5728\u8ac7\u751f\u610f\u6642\u9019\u9ebc\u505a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8b1b\u8a71\u6642\u770b\u5730\u4e0a\u4e5f\u8b93\u4f60\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u7f3a\u4e4f\u81ea\u4fe1\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u592a\u904e\u5c08\u6ce8\u5728\u81ea\u5df1\u8eab\u4e0a\uff0c\u53cd\u800c\u8b93\u4f60\u8aaa\u7684\u8a71\u5931\u53bb\u6548\u679c\uff0c\u7576\u4f60\u5728\u8ad6\u8ff0\u8907\u96dc\u8207\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\u6642\uff0c\u8a18\u5f97\u8b93\u4f60\u7684\u773c\u775b\u4fdd\u6301\u5728\u4e00\u5b9a\u9ad8\u5ea6\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u53e6\u4e00\u65b9\u9762\uff0c\u7dad\u6301\u773c\u795e\u63a5\u89f8\u50b3\u9054\u51fa\u81ea\u4fe1\u3001\u9818\u5c0e\u529b\u3001\u529b\u91cf\u548c\u667a\u6167\u3002\u96d6\u7136\u4e0d\u7528\u6301\u7e8c\u76f4\u63a5\u7684\u773c\u795e\u63a5\u89f8\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u7522\u751f\u9023\u7d50\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u90fd\u4e0d\u773c\u795e\u63a5\u89f8\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u7d55\u5c0d\u5c0d\u4f60\u7684\u5c08\u696d\u95dc\u4fc2\u6709\u8ca0\u9762\u5f71\u97ff\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>10. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u773c\u795e\u592a\u5147<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm5.staticflickr.com\/4034\/4704353204_230e2297f7_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"358\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u773c\u795e\u592a\u6709\u4fb5\u7565\u6027\u6703\u7d66\u5c0d\u65b9\u7121\u5f62\u7684\u58d3\u529b\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u6709\u6548\u6e9d\u901a\u7684\u826f\u65b9\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/rammorrison\/4704353204\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ram reddy<\/a>,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u773c\u795e\u592a\u5147\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u611f\u89ba\u6709\u4fb5\u7565\u6027\uff0c\u60f3\u8981\u7368\u9738\u5168\u5834\u3002\u5e73\u5747\u800c\u8a00\uff0c\u7f8e\u570b\u4eba\u6703\u4fdd\u6301 7\u523010\u79d2\u7684\u773c\u795e\u63a5\u89f8\uff0c\u50be\u807d\u6642\u6703\u6bd4\u8aaa\u8a71\u6642\u9577\u3002\u6211\u5011\u6253\u7834\u773c\u795e\u63a5\u89f8\u6642\u4e5f\u50b3\u905e\u4e86\u4e00\u500b\u8a0a\u606f\uff0c\u773c\u795e\u671d\u4e0b\u770b\u8c61\u5fb5\u670d\u5f9e\uff0c\u5f80\u4e00\u65c1\u770b\u5247\u7d66\u4eba\u81ea\u4fe1\u7684\u611f\u89ba\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>11. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u7ffb\u767d\u773c<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/79\/226797202_8e7ab89c70_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"589\" height=\"442\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u7ffb\u767d\u773c\u4ee3\u8868\u968a\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8aaa\u8a71\u5167\u5bb9\u55e4\u4e4b\u4ee5\u9f3b\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/greggoconnell\/226797202\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Gregg O&#8217;Connell<\/a>,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u6e9d\u901a\u4e2d\u975e\u5e38\u4e0d\u5c0a\u91cd\u5c0d\u65b9\u3002\u5e78\u904b\u5730\u662f\uff0c\u96d6\u7136\u9019\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u4f60\u7684\u7fd2\u6163\uff0c\u4f60\u662f\u6539\u5f97\u4e86\u7684\uff0c\u4e5f\u503c\u5f97\u4f60\u52aa\u529b\u53bb\u6539\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>12. <span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u76ba\u7709<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm5.staticflickr.com\/4074\/4822437341_8ec6a448ee_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u76ba\u7709\u6703\u8b93\u6b63\u5728\u8ddf\u4f60\u8aaa\u8a71\u7684\u5c0d\u65b9\u64d4\u5fc3\u60f9\u4f60\u4e0d\u5feb\uff0c\u6c23\u6c1b\u88ab\u641e\u50f5\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ninedragons\/4822437341\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Christopher Lance<\/a>,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u76ba\u7709\u548c\u81c9\u4e0a\u4e0d\u958b\u5fc3\u90fd\u8868\u793a\u4f60\u56e0\u70ba\u8eab\u908a\u7684\u67d0\u500b\u4eba\u800c\u4e0d\u9ad8\u8208\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u4f60\u6839\u672c\u4e0d\u662f\u5728\u6c23\u4ed6\u5011\u3002\u62c9\u4e0b\u4e00\u5f35\u81c9\u8b93\u4eba\u4e0d\u6562\u9760\u8fd1\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4ed6\u5011\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u5728\u6279\u5224\u4ed6\u5011\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7121\u8ad6\u5982\u4f55\uff0c\u5fae\u7b11\u90fd\u53ef\u4ee5\u8868\u73fe\u51fa\u4f60\u662f\u958b\u6717\u3001\u503c\u5f97\u4fe1\u4efb\u3001\u81ea\u4fe1\u4e14\u53cb\u5584\u7684\u3002\u6838\u78c1\u5171\u632f\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\uff0c\u4eba\u985e\u5927\u8166\u504f\u597d\u7b11\u5bb9\u6eff\u9762\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u9762\u5e36\u7b11\u5bb9\u4e5f\u80fd\u7d66\u4eba\u9577\u4e45\u7684\u6b63\u9762\u5370\u8c61\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>13.<span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u7121\u529b\u7684\u63e1\u624b<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8330\/8103976340_18f92c4113_c.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"585\" height=\"439\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u63e1\u624b\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u9580\u5927\u5b78\u554f\uff0c\u592a\u91cd\u592a\u8f15\u90fd\u4e0d\u5c0d\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/broadbeanmedia\/8103976340\/in\/photolist-dm7ZQ1-nt8bww-abkrZj-c1iJvo-hpTXqg-jiAJ4S-9fh4c1-eUScnJ-9D97xM-qbAL4A-bXsfU3-qNpSbw-cT2zWG-9CX6B8-5pR7vK-qaDcn8-rcYbev-4T9et8-2zqPa-mTjCpM-faRfEy-8y7T45-an6jWE-5ytBdS-bEvhCr-d4TmAW-8ZRMdc-9S6ec-7r8pZd-8QYBXU-5DzQZX-kSp8N-6wVSM7-4V54ft-8ZVfnA-92oamF-7CmDpf-7ChPtP-7CmDBd-7CmDv5-ppPyx9-8JQWNs-8zfKa5-o5gu7F-8ZUVRG-s6TYQi-75u1Rv-fgJUpW-9xu5a-d9bYtm\">Broad Bean Media<\/a> \u00a0,CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u986f\u793a\u4f60\u7f3a\u4e4f\u6b0a\u5a01\u8207\u81ea\u4fe1\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u63e1\u624b\u63e1\u592a\u5927\u529b\u4e5f\u6703\u7d66\u4eba\u4fb5\u7565\u611f\uff0c\u9019\u6a23\u4e5f\u4e0d\u597d\u3002\u56e0\u4e0d\u540c\u4eba\u548c\u5834\u5408\u8abf\u6574\u4f60\u63e1\u624b\u7684\u529b\u9053\uff0c\u4f46\u8a18\u5f97\u6c38\u9060\u90fd\u8981\u5805\u5b9a\u6709\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>14.<span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u63e1\u62f3<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm8.staticflickr.com\/7208\/13314475484_5cf00c010a_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"592\" height=\"395\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u63e1\u62f3\u7d66\u4eba\u4e00\u7a2e\u5e36\u6709\u9632\u885b\u5fc3\u7684\u611f\u89ba\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/yourdon\/13314475484\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ed Yourdon<\/a>, CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u5c31\u50cf\u624b\u81c2\u548c\u96d9\u817f\u4ea4\u53c9\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u63e1\u62f3\u4ee3\u8868\u4f60\u4e0d\u63a5\u7d0d\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u63e1\u62f3\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u8b93\u4f60\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u5f88\u597d\u8faf\u6216\u662f\u6709\u9632\u885b\u5fc3\uff0c\u8b93\u4eba\u5011\u5728\u548c\u4f60\u4e92\u52d5\u6642\u5f88\u7dca\u5f35\u3002<\/p>\n<p><strong>15.<span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u9760\u592a\u8fd1<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/farm5.staticflickr.com\/4103\/4992413955_5162df0883_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"491\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u9760\u5c0d\u65b9\u592a\u8fd1\u6703\u8b93\u6574\u500b\u6e9d\u901a\u904e\u7a0b\u4e0d\u9806\u5229\u3002\u5716\u5de6\u70ba\u4ee5\u8272\u5217\u524d\u7e3d\u7d71\u4f69\u96f7\u65af\uff0c\u4ed6\u7576\u6642\u6b63\u548c\u6642\u4efb\u7f8e\u570b\u570b\u52d9\u537f\u7684\u5e0c\u62c9\u854a\u6703\u9762\u3002\uff08Photo credit:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/israel-mfa\/4992413955\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs<\/a>, CC licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u9760\u5c0d\u65b9\u592a\u8fd1\u4e5f\u6703\u8b93\u5c0d\u65b9\u89ba\u5f97\u6709\u5931\u5c0a\u91cd\uff0c\u4e0d\u61c2\u5f97\u4fdd\u6301\u79ae\u8c8c\u4e0a\u7684\u8ddd\u96e2\uff0c\u9019\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u5011\u5728\u548c\u4f60\u76f8\u8655\u6642\u5f88\u4e0d\u8212\u670d\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>\u597d\u597d\u5730\u628a\u9019 15\u500b\u52d5\u4f5c\u8a18\u5728\u5fc3\u88e1\uff0c\u907f\u514d\u9019\u4e9b\u52d5\u4f5c\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e6b\u52a9\u4f60\u5728\u5c08\u696d\u548c\u79c1\u4eba\u4e0a\u5efa\u7acb\u66f4\u6709\u529b\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u7de8\u8a3b01\uff1a\u5c0d\u539f\u6587\u6709\u8208\u8da3\u7684\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u8acb\u53c3\u8003\u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/15-body-language-blunders-successful-people-never-make-bradberry?trk=mp-reader-card\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">15 Body Language Secrets of Successful People<\/a>\u201d<br 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