{"id":3318,"date":"2015-04-16T17:48:09","date_gmt":"2015-04-16T09:48:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/04\/16\/what-your-psychologist-wants-you-to-know-about-your-dating-apps\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:53:02","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:53:02","slug":"what-your-psychologist-wants-you-to-know-about-your-dating-apps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/04\/16\/what-your-psychologist-wants-you-to-know-about-your-dating-apps\/","title":{"rendered":"\u81c9\u66f8\u6578\u5343\u597d\u53cb\u8ab0\u624d\u662f\u4f60\u7684\u738b\u5b50\u6216\u516c\u4e3b\uff1f \u79d1\u5b78\u5bb6\u8b49\u5be6\uff1a\u9078\u64c7\u8d8a\u591a\u8d8a\u6311\u4e0d\u5230\u7d04\u6703\u5c0d\u8c61"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5185\/5661879987_f3646dc9a5_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"601\" 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noreferrer\">\u5f88\u591a\u5176\u4ed6\u7684<\/a>\u2014\u2014<strong><span style=\"color: #003366\">\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6\u8b49\u5be6\u7dda\u4e0a\u7d04\u6703\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u58de\u8655\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u6703\u5f71\u97ff\u6211\u5011\u8207\u8eab\u908a\u4eba\u7684\u4e92\u52d5\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 300\"><span style=\"color: #333333\"><strong>\u592a\u56f0\u60d1\u800c\u96e3\u4ee5\u9078\u64c7<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333\">\u7dda\u4e0a\u7d04\u6703\u7684\u6726\u6727\u7f8e\u4e5f\u662f\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u500b\u7f3a\u9ede\uff1a\u7121\u6b62\u76e1\u7684\u9078\u64c7\u3002\u7d04\u6703\u9867\u554f\u00a0Steve Dean \u544a\u8a34\u00a0<em>Mic\u00a0<\/em>\uff1a\u300c\u7dda\u4e0a\u7d04\u6703\u6700\u6709\u50f9\u503c\u7684\u5730\u65b9\u53ea\u662f\u771f\u7684\u80fd\u4ee5\u660e\u78ba\u7684\u610f\u5716\u5feb\u901f\u64f4\u5c55\u793e\u4ea4\u5708\u3002\u300d\u4f46\u6709\u6642\u5019\u793e\u4ea4\u5708\u7121\u610f\u5716\u7684\u5feb\u901f\u64f4\u5c55\u6703\u9020\u6210\u554f\u984c\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333\">\u4e00\u9805\u53f0\u7063\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78<a style=\"color: #333333\" href=\"http:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/archives\/2009\/03\/15\/online-dating-too-many-choices-may-be-bad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u7814\u7a76<\/a>\u767c\u73fe\uff0c<strong>\u64c1\u6709\u592a\u591a\u9078\u64c7\u6642\u4eba\u5011\u5f88\u5feb\uff08\u4e14\u8f15\u6613\uff09\u5c31\u6703\u5206\u5fc3\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u7121\u6cd5\u9069\u7576\u904e\u6ffe\u4e14\u6703\u8ff7\u5931\u539f\u672c\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\uff0c\u6700\u7d42\u505a\u51fa\u932f\u7684\u6c7a\u5b9a\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300\">\u4e00\u540d 25 \u6b72\u7684\u5b78\u751f\u00a0Arturo Gutierrez \u544a\u8a34\u00a0<em>Mic\u00a0<\/em>\uff0c\u8eab\u70ba\u4e00\u500b\u7537\u540c\u6027\u6200\uff0c\u4ed6\u559c\u6b61\u7dda\u4e0a\u7d04\u6703\u56e0\u70ba\u5b83\u80fd\u958b\u555f\u66f4\u5ee3\u5927\u7684\u540c\u6027\u6200\u793e\u7fa4\uff0c\u4f46\u4ed6\u767c\u73fe\u6709\u592a\u591a\u9078\u64c7\u4e86\uff0c\u4ed6\u8aaa\uff1a\u300c\u6709\u5e7e\u6b21\u540c\u6642\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u79c1\u8a0a\u6211\uff0c\u4f60\u5fc5\u9808\u8a18\u4f4f\u4f60\u5728\u90a3\u88e1\u662f\u70ba\u4e86\u627e\u5c0b\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u8ddf\u4efb\u4f55\u63a5\u8fd1\u4f60\u7684\u4eba say yes \u3002\u300d<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300\">\u9019\u6703\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u9000\u7e2e\u3002\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6\u66a8\u00a0\u00a0<em>The Paradox of Choice\u00a0<\/em>\u7684\u4f5c\u8005\u00a0Barry Schwartz <a href=\"http:\/\/mic.com\/articles\/107210\/is-too-much-choice-ruining-dating-science-might-have-the-answer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8868\u793a<\/a>\uff0c<strong><span 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#003366\">\u7dda\u4e0a\u7d04\u6703\u5275\u9020\u4e86\u4e00\u7a2e\u8cfc\u7269\u5fc3\u7406\uff0c\u9019\u53ef\u80fd\u5c31\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u9078\u64c7\u4f34\u4fb6\u7684\u597d\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002<\/span><span style=\"color: #008080\">\u300d<\/span><\/strong>\u5176\u4ed6\u5c08\u5bb6\u4e5f\u4f7f\u7528\u540c\u6a23\u7684\u6bd4\u55bb\uff0c\u7814\u7a76\u4eba\u54e1\u751a\u81f3\u5728 2010 \u5e74\u7684\u7814\u7a76\u4e0a<a href=\"http:\/\/spr.sagepub.com\/content\/27\/4\/427.abstract\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f7f\u7528<\/a>\u300c<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>relationshopping<\/strong><\/span>\u300d\u9019\u500b\u8a5e\u3002<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300\">\u9019\u7a2e\u300c\u8cfc\u7269\u300d\u5fc3\u7406\u5ef6\u4f38\u5230\u6211\u5011\u5982\u4f55\u770b\u5f85\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002Albright \u5927\u5b78\u7684\u793e\u6703\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6\u00a0Gwendolyn Seidman 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href=\"http:\/\/mic.com\/articles\/112308\/what-your-psychologist-wants-you-to-know-about-your-dating-apps\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mic<\/a>\uff1b\u9996\u5716\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<a id=\"yui_3_11_0_3_1426668292335_307\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/jenny-pics\/\">jenny downing<\/a>, CC Licensed\uff09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u5728\u793e\u4ea4\u7db2\u7ad9\u8207\u4ea4\u53cb App \u5982\u6b64\u76db\u884c\u7684\u73fe\u4ee3\u793e\u6703\uff0c\u5982\u4f55\u8fa8\u8b58\u771f\u507d\u8207\u5982\u4f55\u9078\u64c7\u5c31\u8b8a\u6210\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u8b70\u984c\u3002\u4e0b\u9762\u4ee5\u539f\u6587\u4f5c\u8005\u00a0Chelsea Hawkins\u00a0\u70ba\u7b2c\u4e00\u4eba\u7a31\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u7de8\u8b6f\u3002 \u81ea\u767d\uff1a 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