{"id":3133,"date":"2015-02-12T10:48:48","date_gmt":"2015-02-12T02:48:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/02\/12\/lessons-everyone-should-learn-in-their-30s\/"},"modified":"2015-02-12T10:48:48","modified_gmt":"2015-02-12T02:48:48","slug":"lessons-everyone-should-learn-in-their-30s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/02\/12\/lessons-everyone-should-learn-in-their-30s\/","title":{"rendered":"\u3010\u82f1\u8a9e\u5cf6\u301130 \u6b72\u7684\u7f8e\u597d\u4eba\u751f\u4e09\u5802\u8ab2\uff0c\u7b2c\u4e00\uff1a\u5225\u518d\u64d4\u5fc3\u672a\u4f86"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm3.staticflickr.com\/2373\/2372487324_0a44556071_o.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"602\" height=\"401\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u5230\u4e86 30 \u6b72\u662f\u8a72\u5b89\u5b9a\u4e0b\u4f86\u7684\u6642\u5019\u3002\u4ee5\u4e0b\u5e7e\u4f4d\u5df2\u7d93\u6b77 30 \u6b72\u9019\u500b\u968e\u6bb5\uff0c\u63d0\u4f9b\u4ed6\u5011\u81ea\u8eab\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5fe0\u544a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Your 30s are typically a time of settling down. The following is some wise advice from those who have already experienced their 30s.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>They spend time with people who add value to their lives.<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>\u4ed6\u5011\u548c\u80fd\u8b93\u751f\u547d\u589e\u503c\u7684\u4eba\u76f8\u8655\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Stop spending time with those who don\u2019t treat you well and instead spend more time with loved ones. &#8220;Don\u2019t just work. Make memories. The older you get, the harder it is to make meaningful relationships,&#8221; writes Microsoft product designer Michael Bach.<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u518d\u548c\u4e0d\u80fd\u5584\u5f85\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\u76f8\u8655\uff0c\u800c\u61c9\u82b1\u66f4\u591a\u6642\u9593\u548c\u6240\u611b\u7684\u4eba\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002\u5fae\u8edf\u7522\u54c1\u8a2d\u8a08\u5e2b Michael Bach \u8868\u793a\uff1a\u300c\u4e0d\u8981\u4e00\u5473\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u800c\u8981\u5275\u9020\u56de\u61b6\u3002\u5e74\u9f61\u6108\u5927\uff0c\u5247\u6108\u96e3\u57f9\u990a\u6709\u6df1\u5ea6\u7684\u60c5\u8abc\u3002<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>They pursue their loftier aspirations.<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">\u4ed6\u5011\u8ffd\u6c42\u66f4\u5d07\u9ad8\u7684\u5fd7\u5411\u3002<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Twenty-somethings often settle for a job they are not passionate about. Before they know it, a temporary job becomes a career. While it\u2019s certainly more difficult to switch industries in your 30s, it\u2019s not impossible and may be the right choice.<\/p>\n<p>20 \u6b72\u7684\u4eba\u5f80\u5f80\u9077\u5c31\u4e00\u4efd\u4ed6\u5011\u4e0d\u71b1\u611b\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u3002\u7576\u4ed6\u5011\u610f\u8b58\u5230\u6642\uff0c\u4e00\u4efd\u81e8\u6642\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u5df2\u7d93\u8b8a\u6210\u4e86\u4e8b\u696d\u3002\u96d6\u7136 30 \u6b72\u6642\u60f3\u8981\u8f49\u884c\u5f88\u56f0\u96e3\uff0c\u4f46\u4e26\u975e\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u662f\u6b63\u78ba\u7684\u6289\u64c7\u3002<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>They don\u2019t obsess about the future.<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>\u4ed6\u5011\u4e0d\u64d4\u5fc3\u672a\u4f86\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Author Mark Manson realized in his 20s that there is not a magical moment where you start feeling like an adult who has it all figured out. You cannot even anticipate your life 5 years into the future.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f5c\u5bb6 Mark Manson \u5728 20 \u5e7e\u6b72\u6642\u5c31\u9818\u609f\u5230\uff0c\u4e26\u4e0d\u6703\u6709\u90a3\u795e\u5947\u7684\u6642\u523b\uff0d\u958b\u59cb\u611f\u89ba\u81ea\u5df1\u50cf\u500b\u6210\u4eba\uff0c\u5c0d\u4eba\u751f\u604d\u7136\u5927\u609f\u3002\u4f60\u751a\u81f3\u7121\u6cd5\u9810\u77e5 5\u5e74\u5f8c\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>Key Usages<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Get the ball rolling \u63a1\u53d6\u5177\u9ad4\u884c\u52d5<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Since our office has decided to recycle paper, we should get the ball rolling right away.<\/p>\n<p>\u65e2\u7136\u8fa6\u516c\u5ba4\u5df2\u6c7a\u5b9a\u958b\u59cb\u56de\u6536\u5ee2\u7d19\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u61c9\u8a72\u7acb\u5373\u63a1\u53d6\u5177\u9ad4\u884c\u52d5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>John has gotten the ball rolling by setting up a series of meetings and notifying everyone involved.<\/p>\n<p>\u7d04\u7ff0\u5df2\u7d93\u63a1\u53d6\u5177\u9ad4\u884c\u52d5\uff1a\u5b89\u6392\u4e00\u7cfb\u5217\u7684\u6703\u8b70\uff0c\u4e26\u901a\u77e5<\/p>\n<p>\u76f8\u95dc\u4eba\u54e1\u3002<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Bear something in mind \u7262\u8a18\uff0c\u8003\u616e<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Bearing in mind that she\u2019s had so little experience, I thought she had done a good job.<\/p>\n<p>\u8003\u616e\u5230\u5979\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\u5982\u6b64\u4e4b\u5c11\uff0c\u6211\u8a8d\u70ba\u5979\u7684\u8868\u73fe\u5df2\u7d93\u4e0d\u932f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>As a generation gap exists, we should bear in mind that younger people might not like this idea.<\/p>\n<p>\u7531\u65bc\u6709\u4ee3\u6e9d\u5b58\u5728\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u61c9\u8a72\u8003\u616e\u5230\uff0c\u5e74\u8f15\u4eba\u53ef\u80fd\u4e0d\u6703\u559c\u6b61\u9019\u500b\u9ede\u5b50\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u6587\u7ae0\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\"><a style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.eisland.com.tw\/\">\u82f1\u8a9e\u5cf6\u96dc\u8a8c<\/a><\/span><\/span>\uff1b\u9996\u5716\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><a style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/myvector\/2372487324\/sizes\/o\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u0141ukasz Strachanowski<\/a><\/span><\/span>, CC Licensed\uff09<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"title\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\"><a style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\" title=\"\u3010\u7814\u7a76\u3011IQ \u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u6210\u529f\u95dc\u9375\uff0c\u8a72\u5982\u4f55\u935b\u934a\u56db\u7a2e EQ \u4f86\u63d0\u9ad8\u8868\u73fe\uff1f\" href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/02\/10\/why-you-need-emotional-intelligence-to-succeed\/?utm_source=relatedvoc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"bookmark noopener noreferrer\">\u3010\u7814\u7a76\u3011IQ \u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u6210\u529f\u95dc\u9375\uff0c\u8a72\u5982\u4f55\u935b\u934a\u56db\u7a2e EQ \u4f86\u63d0\u9ad8\u8868\u73fe\uff1f<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"title\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\"><a style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\" title=\"\u4e00\u500b\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u4e09\u5341\u6b72\u5f8c \u6211\u6240\u5b78\u5230\u7684\u4e5d\u4ef6\u4e8b\" href=\"\/vidaorange\/2014\/12\/16\/starting-new-city-age-30\/?utm_source=relatedvoc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"bookmark noopener noreferrer\">\u4e00\u500b\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u4e09\u5341\u6b72\u5f8c \u6211\u6240\u5b78\u5230\u7684\u4e5d\u4ef6\u4e8b<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\"><a style=\"color: #3366ff; text-decoration: underline;\" title=\"\u6bd4 E=mc\u00b2 \u66f4\u503c\u5f97\u8a18\u4f4f\uff01 23 \u53e5\u611b\u56e0\u65af\u5766\u7528\u4f86\u7834\u89e3\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u516c\u5f0f\" href=\"\/vidaorange\/2015\/02\/07\/23-life-lessons-albert-einstein\/?utm_source=relatedvoc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"bookmark noopener noreferrer\">\u6bd4 E=mc\u00b2 \u66f4\u503c\u5f97\u8a18\u4f4f\uff01 23 \u53e5\u611b\u56e0\u65af\u5766\u7528\u4f86\u7834\u89e3\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u516c\u5f0f<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u5230\u4e86 30 \u6b72\u662f\u8a72\u5b89\u5b9a\u4e0b\u4f86\u7684\u6642\u5019\u3002\u4ee5\u4e0b\u5e7e\u4f4d\u5df2\u7d93\u6b77 30 \u6b72\u9019\u500b\u968e\u6bb5\uff0c\u63d0\u4f9b\u4ed6\u5011\u81ea\u8eab\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5fe0\u544a\u3002 Your 30s are typically a time of settling down. 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