{"id":3044,"date":"2015-05-12T12:40:25","date_gmt":"2015-05-12T04:40:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/05\/12\/science-has-bad-news-for-the-jerk-who-claims-those-flirty-texts-aren-t-cheating\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T13:51:56","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T05:51:56","slug":"science-has-bad-news-for-the-jerk-who-claims-those-flirty-texts-aren-t-cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/05\/12\/science-has-bad-news-for-the-jerk-who-claims-those-flirty-texts-aren-t-cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"\u7537\u53cb\u534a\u591c\u4e0d\u7761\u50b3\u7c21\u8a0a\uff1f\u5c0f\u5fc3\u4ed6\u6b63\u5728\u300c\u7cbe\u795e\u51fa\u8ecc\u300d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm3.staticflickr.com\/2110\/1501431983_94003de5f4_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"423\" 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dir=\"ltr\">\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\u8b93\u7cbe\u795e\u51fa\u8ecc\u8b8a\u5f97\u9019\u9ebc\u7cdf\uff1f\u9664\u4e86\u7c21\u8a0a\u4e4b\u5916\u3001Facebook\u548c\u5176\u4ed6\u5e73\u53f0\u4e5f\u8b93\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u7c21\u55ae\uff0c\u7cbe\u795e\u51fa\u8ecc\u5c0d\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u8a62\u5e2b\u4f86\u8aaa\u5e7e\u4e4e\u4e0d\u662f\u65b0\u8b70\u984c\u4e86\u3002\u4f86\u81ea\u829d\u52a0\u54e5\u7684\u7cbe\u795e\u5b78\u5bb6\u8207\u4f5c\u5bb6Elizabeth Lombardo\u8aaa\uff1a<span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>\u300c\u6027\u751f\u6d3b\u4e0d\u6aa2\u9ede\u5305\u542b\u8ddf\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u4e0a\u5e8a\u3002\u4f46\u7cbe\u795e\u51fa\u8ecc\u662f\u628a\u5fc3\u2014\u2014\u6709\u6642\u5019\u751a\u81f3\u662f\u9748\u9b42\u2014\u2014\u7d66\u4f60\u4f34\u4fb6\u4e4b\u5916\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u800c\u9019\u901a\u5e38\u6bd4\u8f03\u96e3\u8655\u7406\u3002\u300d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"\" 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