{"id":2848,"date":"2015-01-22T19:27:44","date_gmt":"2015-01-22T11:27:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/01\/22\/why-hard-for-women-to-say-no-at-work\/"},"modified":"2015-01-22T19:27:44","modified_gmt":"2015-01-22T11:27:44","slug":"why-hard-for-women-to-say-no-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/01\/22\/why-hard-for-women-to-say-no-at-work\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5973\u5b69\u5225\u518d\u7576\u8077\u5834\u6feb\u597d\u4eba\uff0c\u62d2\u7d55\u591a\u9918\u5de5\u4f5c\u5176\u5be6\u5f88\u7c21\u55ae"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/farm5.staticflickr.com\/4087\/5189224504_4420936700_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"597\" height=\"419\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e6b\u6211\u4e00\u500b\u5fd9\u55ce\uff1f\u300d\u5728\u8077\u5834\u4e0a\uff0c\u96e3\u514d\u6703\u9047\u5230\u4e0a\u53f8\u6307\u6d3e\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u6216\u540c\u4e8b\u592e\u6c42\u5e6b\u5fd9\uff0c\u5c0f\u5fd9\u5076\u723e\u70ba\u4e4b\u9084\u597d\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u7576\u6709\u4e9b\u984d\u5916\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u8b8a\u6210\u91cd\u64d4\u6216\u589e\u9577\u4e86\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5de5\u6642\u6642\uff0c\u5c31\u4e0d\u662f\u90a3\u53e5\uff1a\u300c\u597d\u554a\u3002\u300d\u80fd\u5920\u8f15\u6613\u61c9\u4ed8\u7684\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u300c\u5973\u6027\u6bd4\u7537\u6027\u66f4\u96e3\u62d2\u7d55\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e0d\u5c6c\u65bc\u5979\u5011\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u300d<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Katharine O&#8217;Brien \u548c Eden King \u5206\u5225\u70ba\u8c9d\u52d2\u91ab\u5b78\u9662\uff08 Baylor School of Medicine\uff09\u548c\u00a0\u55ac\u6cbb\u6885\u68ee\u5927\u5b78\uff08George Mason University\uff09\u7684\u535a\u58eb\u5f8c\u526f\u7814\u7a76\u54e1\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u5728\u5be6\u884c\u4e00\u7cfb\u5217\u7684<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff; 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