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Andrea & Jonathan Taylor \u592b\u5a66\u5728 TED \u7684\u6f14\u8b1b\u300c\u6240\u6709\u6210\u529f\u611b\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u90fd\u5177\u5099\u7684 4 \u500b\u7fd2\u6163\u300d\uff084 Habits of ALL Successful Relationships\uff09\u7372\u5f97\u71b1\u70c8\u8ff4\u97ff\uff0c\u9019\u56db\u500b\u7fd2\u6163\u90fd\u662fTaylor \u592b\u5a66\u5f9e\u4ed6\u5011\u65e9\u5e74\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u56f0\u96e3\u548c\u50b7\u75db\u4e2d\u6240\u5f97\u51fa\u7684\uff0c\u592b\u59bb\u5006\u4e8c\u5341\u591a\u5e74\u4f86\u4e00\u76f4\u81f4\u529b\u65bc\u5c07\u9019\u4e9b\u89c0\u5ff5\u50b3\u905e\u7d66\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u5e6b\u52a9\u4eba\u5011\u89e3\u6c7a\u611b\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u56f0\u96e3\u3002<\/p>\n

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1.\u597d\u5947\uff0c\u800c\u975e\u6279\u5224 Be CURIOUS, not critical<\/strong><\/h4>\n

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2.\u5475\u8b77\uff0c\u800c\u975e\u7834\u58de Be CAREFUL, not crushing<\/strong><\/h4>\n

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3.\u63d0\u554f\uff0c\u800c\u975e\u81c6\u6e2c ASK, don\u2019t assume<\/strong><\/h4>\n

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4.\u5728\u7cfe\u6b63\u4e4b\u524d\u5148\u9023\u7d50 CONNECT before you correct<\/strong><\/h4>\n

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