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I don\u2019t give a damn\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

What you were wearing<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t give a damn\u00a0<\/span>how much you drank\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t give a damn\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

If you danced with him earlier in the evening\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

If you texted him first\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Or were the one to go back to his place.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

People may continue to come up with reasons \u201cwhy it happened\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

But the truth is, I don\u2019t give a damn.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

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But I do give a damn\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

How you\u2019re doing\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I give a damn about you being okay\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I give a damn if you\u2019re being blamed for the hurt you were handed\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re being made to believe you\u2019re deserving of pain.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

The only reason I am standing here\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Is because people gave a damn about my well-being\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Even when I did not.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

They reminded me that I carry light and I deserve to be loved\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Even when I forgot.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

They gave a damn.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am who I am today.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

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So here\u2019s the takeaway.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

When we step up for survivors\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

when we stop sealing them off in shame\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

When we quit interrogating them with stupid questions<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Look what happens.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Books are written, laws are changed,\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

We remember we were born to create<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

To not only survive, but look hot and celebrate.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Tonight you must come away knowing\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

That I will always, always give a damn about you\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

The way you gave a damn about me.<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u6211\u4e0d\u518d\u53ea\u662fEmily Doe<\/b><\/h2>\n

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