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\n“most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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\n1.\u300aPsychology Today<\/a>\u300b\uff1aWhat Really Holds Relationships Together? It’s Not Love
\n2.\u300aPsych Central<\/a>\u300b\uff1aThe Power of Empathy in Romantic Relationships & How to Enhance It<\/p>\n

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