{"id":14624,"date":"2019-09-24T21:05:41","date_gmt":"2019-09-24T13:05:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2019\/09\/24\/just-trust-your-heart-is-bad-advice\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T11:33:40","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T03:33:40","slug":"just-trust-your-heart-is-bad-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2019\/09\/24\/just-trust-your-heart-is-bad-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"\u3010\u9806\u5f9e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5fc3\uff0c\u8ddf\u8457\u611f\u89ba\u8d70\uff1f\u3011\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u5546\u5e2b\uff1a\u5225\u56e0\u70ba\u300c\u611b\u60c5\u96de\u5c3e\u9152\u6548\u61c9\u300d\uff0c\u800c\u505a\u51fa\u932f\u8aa4\u7684\u9078\u64c7"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_156652\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-156652\" class=\"wp-image-156652 size-full\" 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\u6307\u7684\u662f\u6211\u5011\u56e0\u589c\u5165\u611b\u6cb3\u800c\u5728\u5927\u8166\u4e2d\u89f8\u767c\u7684\u5316\u5b78\u7269\u8cea\u6fc0\u589e\uff0c\u800c\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u89ba\u5f97\u5c0d\u65b9\u597d\u597d\u770b\u3001\u805e\u8d77\u4f86\u597d\u9999\u3001\u8072\u97f3\u4e5f\u597d\u6085\u8033\u3001\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u7f8e\u597d\uff1b\u4f46\u5176\u5be6\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u90a3\u9ebc\u597d\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u6211\u5011\u7684\u5927\u8166\u5f37\u5316\u4e86\u597d\u7684\u90a3\u4e00\u90e8\u4efd\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Linda 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\u518d\u5ba2\u89c0\u91cd\u65b0\u5be9\u8996\u4e00\u4e0b\u4f60\u5c0d\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u7684\u60f3\u50cf\uff0c\u800c\u4ed6\u9069\u4e0d\u9069\u5408\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u589c\u5165\u611b\u6cb3\u300d\u53ef\u4ee5\u8aaa\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u883b\u6e96\u78ba\u7684\u5f62\u5bb9\uff0c\u300c\u589c\u5165\u300d\u662f\u7121\u6cd5\u6297\u62d2\u7684\uff0c\u53ea\u6709\u4f60\u62c9\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u6295\u7d66\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u300c\u7406\u667a\u7dda\u300d\u6642\uff0c\u4f60\u624d\u662f\u90a3\u500b\u9078\u64c7\u8981\u300c\u964d\u5165\u611b\u6cb3\u300d\u9084\u662f\u722c\u56de\u5cb8\u4e0a\u7684\u6c7a\u5b9a\u8005\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u53c3\u8003\u8cc7\u6599\uff1a<br \/>\n\u300aMind Body Green\u300b\u3008<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindbodygreen.com\/articles\/why-trusting-your-heart-wont-help-you-find-a-good-relationship\">Why &#8216;Just Trust Your Heart&#8217; Is Bad Advice For Finding A Good Relationship<\/a>\u3009<br \/>\n\u300aLindaa Carroll\u300b\u3008<a 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