{"id":14182,"date":"2019-05-20T17:36:12","date_gmt":"2019-05-20T09:36:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2019\/05\/20\/6-ways-to-say-no\/"},"modified":"2019-05-20T17:36:12","modified_gmt":"2019-05-20T09:36:12","slug":"6-ways-to-say-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2019\/05\/20\/6-ways-to-say-no\/","title":{"rendered":"\u3010\u5be6\u7528\u82f1\u6587\u3011\u610f\u898b\u76f8\u5de6\u6642\uff0c\u9664\u4e86I don\u2019t think so \u9084\u53ef\u4ee5\u600e\u9ebc\u79ae\u8c8c\u8868\u9054\uff1f6\u7d44\u6e9d\u901a\u7528\u53e5\u6559\u4f60\u61c9\u5c0d\u9032\u9000"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_146817\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-146817\" class=\"wp-image-146817 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2019\/05\/photo-1531537571171-a707bf2683da-e1558330948781-600x315.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"315\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-146817\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo via <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/search\/photos\/discuss\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u76f8\u4fe1\u5927\u5bb6\u4e00\u5b9a\u90fd\u6709\u548c\u5225\u4eba\u610f\u898b\u76f8\u540c\u6216\u76f8\u5de6\u7684\u6642\u5019\u5427\uff01\u90a3\u7576\u4e0b\u8981\u600e\u9ebc\u56de\u7b54\u6bd4\u8f03\u59a5\u7576\u5462\uff1f\u6bcf\u6b21\u8aaa\u4f86\u8aaa\u53bb\u90fd\u662f I agree with you\u3001I don\u2019t think so \u55ce\uff1f\u90a3\u53ef\u8981\u597d\u597d\u770b\u770b\u4ee5\u4e0b 6 \u7d44\u8b93\u4f60\u8868\u9054\u610f\u898b\u7684\u7528\u53e5\uff0c\u8b93\u4f60\u4e0d\u7ba1\u8a8d\u540c\u6216\u662f\u5426\u6c7a\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u90fd\u80fd\u8f15\u9b06\u958b\u53e3\uff01<\/p>\n<h2>I see your point\u2026 \/ I see your point, but\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>\u5373\u300c\u6211\u4e86\u89e3\u4f60\u7684\u610f\u601d\u22ef\u22ef\u300d\u3001\u300c\u6211\u4e86\u89e3\u4f60\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u22ef\u22ef\u300d\uff0c<strong>\u524d\u8005\u8868\u300c\u7406\u89e3\u4e26\u8a8d\u540c\u5c0d\u65b9\u300d\uff0c\u5f8c\u8005\u8868\u300c\u7406\u89e3\u4f46\u4e0d\u8a8d\u540c\u5c0d\u65b9\u300d<\/strong>\uff0c\u7528 I see your point \u7576\u958b\u982d\u662f\u4e0d\u932f\u7684\u9078\u64c7\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u4e0d\u7ba1\u8a8d\u4e0d\u8a8d\u540c\uff0c\u5728\u95e1\u660e\u60f3\u6cd5\u524d\u5148\u80af\u5b9a\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5\u662f\u6bd4\u8f03\u4fdd\u96aa\u7684\u7528\u53e5\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A: I think the boss should give us a raise. We\u2019ve been working here for more than five years!<br \/>\n\uff08\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u8001\u95c6\u8981\u7d66\u6211\u5011\u52a0\u85aa\u5566\uff01\u6211\u5011\u90fd\u5728\u9019\u88e1\u5de5\u4f5c\u8d85\u904e\u4e94\u5e74\u4e86\u3002\uff09<br \/>\nB:<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u00a0I see your point, but<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0our company is suffering from the financial crisis. It\u2019s just not the best time to bring this up.<br \/>\n\uff08 \u6211\u4e86\u89e3\u4f60\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u53ef\u662f\u76ee\u524d\u516c\u53f8\u6b63\u906d\u53d7\u91d1\u878d\u5371\u6a5f\u7684\u6ce2\u53ca\uff0c\u73fe\u5728\u4e0d\u662f\u63d0\u9019\u500b\u7684\u597d\u6642\u6a5f\u3002\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>I see what you\u2019re getting at\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>\u5373<strong>\u300c\u6211\u4e86\u89e3\u4f60\u60f3\u8868\u9054\u7684\u610f\u601d\u22ef\u22ef\u300d<\/strong>\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u554f\u5c0d\u65b9 What are you getting at? \u5c31\u662f\u53eb\u5c0d\u65b9\u89e3\u91cb\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u4e0d\u904e\u9019\u6a23\u554f\u662f\u6bd4\u8f03\u4e0d\u79ae\u8c8c\u7684\u7528\u6cd5\uff0c\u4e0d\u50cf<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong> I see what you\u2019re getting at \u50c5\u50c5\u8868\u9054\u4e86\u89e3\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u610f\u601d\u800c\u5df2\u3002<\/strong><\/span>get at \u662f\u7247\u8a9e\uff0c\u8868\u300c\u6697\u793a\u3001\u610f\u6307\u300d\u4e4b\u610f\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A: You\u2019re not seeing anyone, right? I know this girl who\u2019s super nice and pretty, and she just broke up with her boyfriend.<br \/>\n\uff08 \u4f60\u6c92\u6709\u5c0d\u8c61\u5427\uff1f\u6211\u8a8d\u8b58\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u8d85\u597d\u53c8\u6f02\u4eae\u7684\u5973\u751f\uff0c\u5979\u525b\u597d\u6700\u8fd1\u8ddf\u7537\u53cb\u5206\u624b\u4e86\u3002\uff09<br \/>\nB:<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u00a0I see what you\u2019re getting at.<\/strong><\/span> You\u2019re trying to set us up!<br \/>\n\uff08\u6211\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u8981\u8868\u9054\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e86\uff0c\u4f60\u8981\u64ae\u5408\u6211\u548c\u90a3\u500b\u5973\u751f\uff01\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>I have to side with sb. on this one\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>\u5373<strong>\u300c\u6211\u540c\u610f\u3001\u652f\u6301\u4f60\u9019\u500b\u60f3\u6cd5\u22ef\u22ef\u300d<\/strong>\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>side with \u6bd4\u8f03\u5c6c\u65bc\u6b63\u5f0f\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5\uff0c\u53ef\u7576\u300c\u7ad9\u5728\u540c\u4e00\u9663\u7dda\u300d\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u53e3\u8a9e\u6216\u66f8\u9762\u90fd\u9069\u7528\u9019\u500b\u7247\u8a9e<\/strong><\/span>\uff0c\u65b0\u805e\u5e38\u898b\u7684\u300c\u652f\u6301\u300d\uff0c\u50cf\u662f\u652f\u6301\u67d0\u4e00\u653f\u9ee8\u6216\u5176\u4ed6\u5c0d\u8c61\u90fd\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528 side with\u3002\u53e6\u5916\u88dc\u5145\uff0c\u300c\uff08\u5728\u722d\u8ad6\u4e2d\uff09 \u652f\u6301\u67d0\u4eba\u300d\u662f take one\u2019s side\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A: I don\u2019t want to go to the family reunion. It\u2019s not that I hate my family; I just don\u2019t like it when certain relatives keep asking me questions about my relationships or my career.<br \/>\n\uff08\u6211\u4e0d\u60f3\u56de\u5bb6\u5718\u805a\uff0c\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u8aaa\u6211\u8a0e\u53ad\u5bb6\u4eba\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u8a0e\u53ad\u67d0\u4e9b\u89aa\u621a\u4e00\u76f4\u554f\u95dc\u65bc\u611f\u60c5\u548c\u4e8b\u696d\u7684\u554f\u984c\u3002\uff09<br \/>\nB:\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>I have to side with you on this one.<\/strong> <\/span>They\u2019re so annoying and they love to compare!<br \/>\n\uff08\u6211\u540c\u610f\u4f60\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u5f88\u7169\u53c8\u611b\u6bd4\u8f03\uff01\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>That\u2019s one way of looking at it. However\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>\u5373<strong>\u300c\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u9019\u9ebc\u8aaa \uff08\u60f3\uff09\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u2026\u2026\u300d<\/strong>\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u8868\u793a\u81ea\u5df1\u548c\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u89c0\u9ede\u4e0d\u540c\u3002<\/strong><\/span>However \u5f8c\u9762\u53ef\u4ee5\u52a0 I prefer to look at it another way \uff08\u6211\u50be\u5411\u4ee5\u5176\u4ed6\u89d2\u5ea6\u770b\u5f85\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\uff09\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A: Studying for a master\u2019s degree is a must-do for me because I can acquire more knowledge and skills that I will need for my future job.<br \/>\n\uff08\u8b80\u78a9\u58eb\u5c0d\u6211\u4f86\u8aaa\u662f\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u53ef\u4ee5\u5b78\u5230\u672a\u4f86\u5de5\u4f5c\u6240\u9700\u7684\u77e5\u8b58\u8207\u6280\u5de7\u3002\uff09<br \/>\nB:\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>That\u2019s one way of looking at it. However, I prefer<\/strong> <\/span>to go straight to work after college, since I can learn what I need on the job.<br \/>\n\uff08\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u9019\u9ebc\u8aaa\uff0c\u4f46\u6211\u50be\u5411\u65bc\u7562\u696d\u5f8c\u5148\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u53ef\u4ee5\u900f\u904e\u5de5\u4f5c\u5b78\u7fd2\u6211\u60f3\u5b78\u7684\u3002\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>\uff0a\u88dc\u5145\uff1a\u7247\u8a9e see one\u2019s way of doing sth. \u662f\u8868\u793a\u300c\u67d0\u4eba\u540c\u610f\u3001\u5141\u8a31\u505a\u67d0\u4e8b\u300d\u7684\u610f\u601d\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>I wouldn\u2019t quite put it that way myself\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>\u5373<strong>\u300c\u6211\u500b\u4eba\u4e0d\u6703\u9019\u9ebc\u8aaa\u22ef\u22ef\u300d<\/strong>\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u9019\u53e5\u662f\u59d4\u5a49\u5730\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e0d\u8a8d\u540c<\/strong><\/span>\uff0c\u5f8c\u9762\u53ef\u52a0\u4e0a I would say\u2026 \uff0c\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u8aaa Let me put it this way,\u2026 \u5c31\u662f\u300c\u90a3\u6211\u9019\u6a23\u8aaa\u597d\u4e86\uff0c\u22ef\u22ef\u300d\uff0c\u4e5f\u5c31\u662f\u53e3\u8a9e\u7248\u7684 In other words\u2026\uff08\u63db\u53e5\u8a71\u8aaa\uff0c\u2026\u2026\uff09\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A: Would you say being a brown-noser is shameful?<br \/>\n\uff08\u4f60\u8a8d\u70ba\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41\u7684\u4eba\u53ef\u6065\u55ce\uff1f\uff09<br \/>\nB:\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>I wouldn\u2019t quite put it that way myself\u2026I would say<\/strong> <\/span>that person knows how to deal with his or her boss.<br \/>\n\uff08\u6211\u500b\u4eba\u4e0d\u6703\u9019\u9ebc\u8aaa\uff0c\u6211\u6703\u8aaa\u90a3\u500b\u4eba\u77e5\u66c9\u548c\u8001\u95c6\u61c9\u5c0d\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>That\u2019s one way we could go, but what about\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>\u5373<strong>\u300c\u9019\u500b\u60f3\u6cd5\u53ef\u884c\uff0c\u4e0d\u904e\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u22ef\u22ef\u300d<\/strong>\uff0c\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u5df2\u7d93\u975e\u5e38\u6709\u79ae\u8c8c\u4e86\uff01<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u5148\u80af\u5b9a\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5\u6c92\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u518d\u59d4\u5a49\u63d0\u51fa\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u9069\u7528\u65bc\u8077\u5834\u4e0a\u5404\u7a2e\u5834\u5408\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A: What do you think about our proposal? Do you have any suggestion?<br \/>\n\uff08\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u6211\u5011\u7684\u63d0\u6848\u5982\u4f55\uff1f\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u5efa\u8b70\u55ce\uff1f\uff09<br \/>\nB: Well,\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>that\u2019s one way we could go, but what about<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0modifying it a bit? It\u2019ll be more feasible.<br \/>\n\uff08\u55ef\u22ef\u22ef\u662f\u6c92\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u4f46\u8981\u4e0d\u8981\u7a0d\u5fae\u4fee\u6539\u4e00\u4e0b\uff1f\u9019\u6a23\u6703\u66f4\u53ef\u884c\u3002\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u5927\u5bb6\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u767c\u73fe\u5982\u679c\u5148\u80af\u5b9a\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u6703\u8b93\u8a9e\u6c23\u6bd4\u8f03\u548c\u7de9\u5462\uff1f<\/strong><\/span>\u6c92\u932f\uff01\u5982\u6b64\u4e00\u4f86\u518d\u63d0\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u6703\u6bd4\u8f03\u597d\u5594\uff01\u4ee5\u4e0a\u9019\u4e9b\u7528\u53e5\u8b93\u4f60\u4e0d\u7ba1\u5728\u8077\u5834\u8207\u4e0a\u53f8\u6216\u540c\u4e8b\u6e9d\u901a\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u904e\u5e74\u9762\u5c0d\u89aa\u621a\u9023\u73e0\u7832\u822c\u7684\u554f\u5019\u6642\uff0c\u90fd\u80fd\u59d4\u5a49\u5730\u61c9\u5c0d\uff01<\/p>\n<h2>\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2019\/05\/06\/interview-english-introduction\/\">\u3010\u9762\u8a66\u5fc5\u5099\u3011\u8acb\u4f60\u7528\u82f1\u6587\u4ecb\u7d39\u4e00\u4e0b\u81ea\u5df1\uff013 \u9805\u6c42\u8077\u82f1\u6587\u8981\u9ede\uff1a\u500b\u6027\u3001\u9577\u8655\u548c\u7d93\u9a57\u600e\u9ebc\u8868\u9054<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2019\/05\/07\/right-side-right\/\">\u300c\u5f9e\u53f3\u5074\u9760\u8fd1\u4e3b\u7ba1\u5c31\u5c0d\u4e86\uff01\u300d\u6697\u9ed1\u8077\u5834\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\uff1a\u5360\u4f4f\u5c0d\u65b9\u8996\u7dda\u53f3\u5074\uff0c\u5c31\u80fd\u8b93\u4eba\u5c0d\u4f60\u66f4\u6709\u597d\u611f<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2019\/02\/18\/meeting-speaking-skills\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u3010\u5c55\u73fe\u6703\u8b70\u4e0a\u7684\u6e9d\u901a\u9b45\u529b\u3011Let\u2019s move on ! 3 \u5927\u300c\u958b\u6703\u82f1\u6587\u7528\u8a9e\u300d\u6280\u5de7\uff1a\u8a00\u8a9e\u76f4\u63a5\u3001\u5438\u5f15\u4eba\u53c8\u805a\u7126<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u672c\u6587\u7d93\u5408\u4f5c\u5925\u4f34 Voicetube \u6388\u6b0a\u8f49\u8f09\uff0c\u4e26\u540c\u610f VidaOrange \u7de8\u5beb\u5c0e\u8b80\u8207\u4fee\u8a02\u6a19\u984c\uff0c\u539f\u6587\u6a19\u984c\u70ba \u3008<a href=\"https:\/\/tw.blog.voicetube.com\/archives\/64676?mtc=campaign_vo_blog_20190506&amp;utm_source=vo&amp;utm_campaign=64676&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;ref=20180506\">\u60f3\u5426\u6c7a\u5225\u4eba\u53ea\u80fd\u8aaa I don\u2019t think so\uff1f 6 \u7d44\u7528\u53e5\u6559\u4f60\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff01<\/a>\u3009\u3002\uff09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u76f8\u4fe1\u5927\u5bb6\u4e00\u5b9a\u90fd\u6709\u548c\u5225\u4eba\u610f\u898b\u76f8\u540c\u6216\u76f8\u5de6\u7684\u6642\u5019\u5427\uff01\u90a3\u7576\u4e0b\u8981\u600e\u9ebc\u56de\u7b54\u6bd4\u8f03\u59a5\u7576\u5462\uff1f\u6bcf\u6b21\u8aaa\u4f86\u8aaa\u53bb\u90fd\u662f I agree with you\u3001I don\u2019t think so \u55ce\uff1f\u90a3\u53ef\u8981\u597d\u597d\u770b\u770b\u4ee5\u4e0b 6 \u7d44\u8b93\u4f60\u8868\u9054\u610f[&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":26662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[8594,2877,8595,8596,8597,8598,3674,8599,103,2656,8600,118,8601,8602,7231],"coauthors":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14182"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14182"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14182\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14182"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14182"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14182"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=14182"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}