{"id":13435,"date":"2018-12-06T11:37:16","date_gmt":"2018-12-06T03:37:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/12\/06\/seven-ways-be-in-love\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T11:50:26","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T03:50:26","slug":"seven-ways-be-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/12\/06\/seven-ways-be-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"\u3010\u60c5\u611f\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u3011\u300c\u5fc5\u7136\u5931\u6557\u300d\u7684 7 \u7a2e\u611b\u60c5\u6a21\u5f0f\uff0c\u7406\u89e3\u5f8c\u4e0d\u518d\u91cd\u8e48\u8986\u8f4d"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_133256\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-133256\" class=\"wp-image-133256 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/12\/541-e1543912281286.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"393\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-133256\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a\u300aHe&#8217;s Just Not That Into You\u300b\u5287\u7167<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u611f\u60c5\u5931\u6557\u7e3d\u662f\u4ee4\u4eba\u96e3\u4ee5\u63a5\u53d7\uff0c\u66f4\u8b93\u4eba\u7121\u6cd5\u63a5\u53d7\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u5f9e\u611b\u4e0a\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u3001\u66d6\u6627\u3001\u4ea4\u5f80\u3001\u78e8\u5408\u5230\u95dc\u4fc2\u7834\u88c2\u800c\u5206\u624b\uff0c\u6bcf\u4e00\u6b21\u4f3c\u4e4e\u90fd\u662f\u5927\u540c\u5c0f\u7570\u7684\u904e\u7a0b\uff0c\u5f77\u5f7f\u9677\u5165\u7121\u6cd5\u8df3\u812b\u7684\u9b54\u5492\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u300c\u6211\u5011\u50be\u5411\u5728\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u91cd\u8907\u6b77\u53f2\u3002<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u505a\u8457\u540c\u6a23\u7684\u4e8b\u537b\u6e34\u671b\u5f97\u5230\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u7d50\u679c\uff0c\u6b63\u662f\u611b\u60c5\u5fc5\u7136\u5931\u6557\u7684\u539f\u56e0<\/strong><\/span>\u3002\u300d\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6 Karl Albrecht \u8aaa\u3002\u8a31\u591a\u4eba\u5916\u5728\u689d\u4ef6\u4e0d\u5dee\u751a\u81f3\u5f88\u6709\u5e02\u5834\uff0c\u537b\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u8def\u4e0a\u6301\u7e8c\u985b\u7c38\uff0c\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u4ed6\u5011\u6df1\u9677\u67d0\u7a2e\u932f\u8aa4\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u601d\u7dad\u3002Karl Albrecht \u63d0\u51fa\u4e86\u5e7e\u7a2e\u5e38\u898b\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u6a21\u5f0f\uff0c\u8d70\u5165\u9019\u4e9b\u6a21\u5f0f\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\u5011\u96e3\u4ee5\u64c1\u6709\u5feb\u6a02\u6301\u4e45\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>1. \u91cd\u529b\u6a21\u5f0f The Gravity model \uff1a\u4f60\u5c31\u662f\u6211\u7684\u5168\u90e8<\/h2>\n<p>\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u4f3c\u4e4e\u843d\u5165\u4e00\u7a2e\u60c5\u7dd2\u5316\u7684\u6df1\u5751\uff1a<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u760b\u72c2\u611b\u4e0a\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u4ee5\u81f4\u5931\u53bb\u4e86\u751f\u6d3b\u91cd\u5fc3<\/strong><\/span>\u3002\u4f60\u7684\u559c\u6012\u54c0\u6a02\u570d\u8457\u5c0d\u65b9\u6253\u8f49\uff0c\u4ed6\u7684\u4e00\u8a00\u4e00\u884c\u90fd\u80fd\u727d\u52d5\u4f60\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u3002\u7576\u95dc\u4fc2\u51fa\u73fe\u88c2\u75d5\uff0c\u4e16\u754c\u4e5f\u8b8a\u5f97\u6416\u6416\u6b32\u589c\uff0c\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u91cd\u5ea6\u4f9d\u6200\u6a21\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u547d\u904b\u6a21\u5f0f\u00a0The Destiny model\uff1a\u4f60\u662f\u6211\u7684\u771f\u547d\u5929\u5b50<\/h2>\n<p>\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u5e7b\u60f3\u4e16\u4e0a\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u80fd\u5b8c\u5168\u7406\u89e3\u4e26\u8207\u81ea\u5df1\u5951\u5408\u7684\u300c\u9748\u9b42\u4f34\u4fb6\u300d\u3002\u4e8b\u5be6\u4e0a\uff0c<a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1177\/0265407512453009?etoc=\">\u7814\u7a76\u8868\u660e<\/a>\u6709\u4e00\u7a2e\u66f4\u5be6\u7528\u7684\u6200\u611b\u65b9\u5f0f\uff1a<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u5c07\u4f34\u4fb6\u8996\u70ba\u6700\u597d\u7684\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u771f\u547d\u5929\u5b50<\/strong><\/span>\u3002\u63a1\u7528\u9019\u7a2e\u54f2\u5b78\u7684\u592b\u59bb\u4e4b\u9593\u76f8\u8655\u58d3\u529b\u66f4\u5c0f\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u722d\u5435\u8f03\u5c11\u3001\u6027\u751f\u6d3b\u66f4\u591a\uff0c\u95dc\u4fc2\u9577\u4e45\u7684\u6a5f\u7387\u4e5f\u8d8a\u9ad8\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u57ce\u5821\u6a21\u5f0f\u00a0The Camelot model\uff1a\u611b\u60c5\u5c31\u662f\u6c38\u4e0d\u60b2\u50b7<\/h2>\n<p>Camelot \u662f\u4e9e\u745f\u738b\u50b3\u8aaa\u4e2d\u5805\u4e0d\u53ef\u6467\u7684\u57ce\u5821\u3002\u5728\u9019\u7a2e\u6a21\u5f0f\u4e2d\uff0c\u611b\u60c5\u88ab\u904e\u5ea6\u7406\u60f3\u5316\uff0c\u5c31\u50cf\u7ae5\u8a71\u6545\u4e8b\u4e2d\u7684\u516c\u4e3b\uff0c\u7e3d\u6709\u7a7f\u8457\u9583\u4eae\u76d4\u7532\u7684\u9a0e\u58eb\u6703\u76e1\u5168\u529b\u5b88\u8b77\u5979\uff0c\u4e0d\u8b93\u5979\u53d7\u50b7\u843d\u6dda\u3002\u73fe\u5be6\u4e2d\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u6709\u8a31\u591a\u6b98\u9177\u3001\u4e0d\u582a\u7684\u4e00\u9762\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u5982\u679c\u6c92\u6709\u60b2\u50b7\u7684\u80fd\u529b\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u6703\u5931\u53bb\u5e78\u798f\u7684\u6b0a\u5229<\/strong><\/span>\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>4.\u00a0\u878d\u5408\u6a21\u5f0f The Merger model\uff1a\u6211\u5011\u662f\u5171\u540c\u9ad4<\/h2>\n<p>\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u8ffd\u6c42\u96d9\u65b9\u5728\u60c5\u611f\u3001\u793e\u4ea4\u3001\u7cbe\u795e\u601d\u60f3\u3001\u751f\u6d3b\u7bc0\u594f\u7b49\u65b9\u9762\u5b8c\u5168\u540c\u6b65\u3002\u500b\u9ad4\u7684\u7368\u7acb\u6027\u5728\u9019\u7a2e\u6a21\u5f0f\u4e2d\u88ab\u62b9\u715e\uff0c\u800c\u6700\u5927\u7684\u539f\u56e0\u5c31\u662f<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u5b89<\/strong><strong>\u5168\u611f\u4f4e\u843d<\/strong><\/span>\uff0c\u7121\u6cd5\u5b8c\u5168\u53c3\u8207\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u4ee4\u4ed6\u5011\u9677\u5165\u6050\u614c\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u623f\u5730\u7522\u6a21\u5f0f The Real Estate model\uff1a\u4f60\u4ed8\u51fa\u7684\u9084\u4e0d\u5920\u591a<\/h2>\n<p>\u300c\u4f60\u4e0d\u5920\u6d6a\u6f2b\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u5011\u624d\u4e0d\u80fd\u66f4\u9032\u4e00\u6b65\u3002\u300d<br \/>\n\u300c\u771f\u7684\u559c\u6b61\u6211\uff0c\u5c31\u61c9\u8a72\u5e36\u6211\u53bb\u8cb4\u4e00\u9ede\u7684\u9910\u5ef3\u3002\u300d<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u7a2e\u4eba\u5c07\u60c5\u611f\u95dc\u4fc2\u3001\u5fc3\u7406\u8a8d\u540c\u7b49\u62bd\u8c61\u56e0\u7d20\u8996\u70ba\u53ef\u50f9\u503c\u5316\u7684\u8cc7\u7522\uff0c\u8a8d\u70ba\u611f\u60c5\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u4e0d\u65b7\u6295\u8cc7\u624d\u6709\u300c\u7372\u5229\u300d\u3002\u5728\u6b64\u6a21\u5f0f\u4e2d<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u81ea\u79c1\u7684\u5fc3\u614b\u662f\u5c0e\u81f4\u95dc\u4fc2\u7834\u88c2\u7684\u4e3b\u56e0<\/strong><\/span>\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u6feb\u597d\u4eba\u6a21\u5f0f\u00a0The Doormat model\uff1a\u6211\u4ec0\u9ebc\u90fd\u7121\u6240\u8b02\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u4f60\u958b\u5fc3<\/h2>\n<p>\u904e\u5206\u8a0e\u597d\u3001\u8fce\u5408\uff0c\u70ba\u4e86\u611b\u60c5\u653e\u68c4\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5c0a\u56b4\u3002\u9019\u7a2e\u6a21\u5f0f\u901a\u5e38\u767c\u751f\u5728\u4f4e\u81ea\u6211\u50f9\u503c\u7684\u4eba\u8eab\u4e0a\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u72a7\u7272\u81ea\u5df1\u4f86\u6210\u5c31\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u4e26\u5c07\u9019\u7a2e\u884c\u70ba\u7a31\u70ba\u300c\u611b\u300d\uff0c\u5be6\u969b\u4e0a<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u4ed6\u5011\u6c92\u6709\u611b\u81ea\u5df1\u4ee5\u53ca\u611b\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\u7684\u80fd\u529b<\/strong><\/span>\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>7. \u4eba\u8cea\u6a21\u5f0f The Hostage model \uff1a\u611b\u6211\u5c31\u8981\u807d\u6211\u8a71<\/h2>\n<p>\u300c\u6211\u53ea\u60f3\u8981\u4e00\u500b\u5c0d\u6211\u5b8c\u5168\u8aa0\u5be6\u7684\u4eba\uff01\u300d<br \/>\n\u300c\u9664\u4e86\u6211\u4ee5\u5916\u4f60\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5176\u4ed6\u7570\u6027\u670b\u53cb\uff01\u300d<\/p>\n<p>\u8a87\u5927\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u6b0a\u5229\u3001\u5f37\u70c8\u7684\u4f54\u6709\u6b32\u662f\u9019\u7a2e\u6a21\u5f0f\u7684\u6a19\u8a8c\u3002<span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>\u6975\u5177\u4fb5\u7565\u6027\u7684\u5ac9\u5992\u611f\u548c\u63a7\u5236\u6b32\u6700\u7d42\u6703\u5c07\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u611b\u8207\u8010\u5fc3\u6d88\u78e8\u6b86\u76e1<\/strong><\/span>\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Karl Albrecht 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