{"id":12787,"date":"2018-08-20T13:07:11","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T05:07:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/08\/20\/intimacy-fear\/"},"modified":"2021-12-20T14:59:52","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T06:59:52","slug":"intimacy-fear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/08\/20\/intimacy-fear\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u4f60\u6240\u6297\u62d2\u7684\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u611b\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u592a\u611b\u4e4b\u5f8c\u6703\u53d7\u50b7\u5bb3\u3002\u300d\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6\u7d66\u4f608\u7a2e\u300c\u89aa\u5bc6\u6050\u61fc\u300d\u7684\u89e3\u85e5"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>\u3010\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6311\u9078\u9019\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u3011<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u5c0d\u65bc\u8ac7\u6200\u611b\u611f\u5230\u6050\u61fc\u55ce\uff1f\u6709\u6642\u5019\u662f\u5bb3\u6015\u7f3a\u9ede\u88ab\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u6709\u6642\u5019\u662f\u5bb3\u6015\u6fc0\u6012\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u9019\u4e9b\u64d4\u5fc3\u90fd\u5316\u6210\u89aa\u5bc6\u6050\u61fc\uff0c\u53c8\u8a72\u5982\u4f55\u89e3\u5462\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u8cac\u4efb\u7de8\u8f2f\uff1a\u856d\u5982\u82b3\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: right;\">\u6587\uff0f\u79d1\u666e\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6 \u6d77\u82d4\u718a<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\">\u60f3\u50cf\u4f60\u5c0d\u65bc\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u6709\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u6050\u61fc\u55ce\uff1f<\/h2>\n<p><strong>1.\u4e00\u63d0\u5230\u904e\u53bb\u7684\u4e8b\u5c31\u6703\u6e3e\u8eab\u4e0d\u81ea\u5728<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>2.\u89ba\u5f97\u6709\u4e9b\u79c1\u4e8b\u5982\u679c\u88ab\u4ed6\u77e5\u9053\u4e86\u6703\u88ab\u5acc\u60e1<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>3.\u6015\u81ea\u5df1\u5982\u679c\u5766\u627f\u4ee5\u5c0d\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u6703\u6fc0\u6012\u5c0d\u65b9<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>4.\u5be7\u53ef\u4e0d\u611b\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u5c31\u4e0d\u7528\u627f\u64d4\u5931\u53bb\u4ed6\u7684\u98a8\u96aa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>5.\u7e3d\u89ba\u5f97\u5c0d\u65b9\u6700\u5f8c\u9084\u662f\u6703\u80cc\u53db\u6211<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>6.\u4e0d\u6562\u5728\u4ed6\u9762\u524d\u8868\u73fe\u771f\u5be6\u7684\u4e00\u9762<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>7.\u548c\u4ed6\u5f88\u89aa\u5bc6\u6642\uff0c\u60c5\u611f\u6703\u5f37\u70c8\u5230\u60f3\u505c\u4e0b\u4f86\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u662f\u6b63\u9762\u7684\u60c5\u611f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>8.\u64d4\u5fc3\u81ea\u5df1\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u505a\u51fa\u50b7\u5bb3\u4ed6\u60c5\u611f\u7684\u4e8b<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>9.\u6015\u4ed6\u60f3\u63a7\u5236\u6211\uff0c\u4e0d\u60f3\u8ddf\u4ed6\u592a\u89aa\u5bc6<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>10.\u5fc3\u88cf\u67d0\u90e8\u5206\u64d4\u5fc3\u505a\u51fa\u9577\u9060\u7684\u627f\u8afe<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>11.\u5c0d\u65bc\u88ab\u4ed6\u4f9d\u8cf4\u3001\u6210\u70ba\u4ed6\u7684\u652f\u67f1\u611f\u5230\u4e0d\u5b89<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>12.\u70ba\u5c0f\u4e8b\u60f1\u6012\uff0c\u64d4\u5fc3\u81ea\u5df1\u7121\u6cd5\u8ddf\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\u5efa\u7acb\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\uff08\u5f15\u81ea[<span class=\"s1\">1<\/span>]<span class=\"s1\">p.93-114<\/span>\u90e8\u5206\u984c\u9805\uff0c\u539f\u984c\u9805<span class=\"s1\">15<\/span>\u984c\uff09<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u6839\u64da<span class=\"s1\">Elaine N. 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class=\"s1\">5<\/span>]\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\u300c\u6211\u4eca\u5929\u665a\u4e0a\u771f\u7684\u4e0d\u80fd\u8ddf\u4f60\u53bb\uff0c\u4eca\u5929\u5df2\u7d93\u8aaa\u904e\u4e86\u6211\u665a\u4e0a\u6709\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u8981\u5b8c\u6210\uff01\u300d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u30fb\u50b7\u5bb3\u61a4\u6012\uff1a\u4ed6\u751f\u6c23\u662f\u771f\u7684\u84c4\u610f\u8981\u50b7\u5bb3\u4f60\uff0c\u5982\u300c\u6211\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u8ddf\u90a3\u500b\u5973\u7684\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8b93\u4f60\u5403\u918b\u3001\u600e\u9ebc\u6a23\uff1f\u300d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u30fb\u81ea\u6211\u4fdd\u8b77\u61a4\u6012\uff1a\u4ed6\u751f\u6c23\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u70ba\u4e86\u907f\u514d\u81ea\u5df1\u53d7\u50b7\uff0c\u5982\u300c\u6c92\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u4f60\u8981\u53bb\u5c31\u53bb\u554a\u6211\u4e0d\u5728\u610f\uff01\u300d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u767c\u73fe\u4e86\u55ce\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u7b2c\u4e8c\u7a2e\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c<span style=\"color: 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class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a\u300a\u4ed6\u5176\u5be6\u6c92\u90a3\u9ebc\u559c\u6b61\u4f60\u300b\u5287\u7167<\/p><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">3.<\/span>\u5bb3\u6015\u88ab\u62cb\u68c4\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u5f88\u591a\u66f8\u90fd\u6709\u8ac7\u5230\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u5c24\u5176\u662f<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u4f60\u66fe\u7d93\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u88e1\u53d7\u904e\u50b7\u4e4b\u5f8c\uff0c\u66f4\u5bb3\u6015\u81ea\u5df1\u5982\u679c\u4ed8\u51fa\u592a\u591a\u6700\u5f8c\u6703\u8667\u672c\u3001\u751a\u81f3\u6688\u8239\u9677\u843d\u3002<\/span>\u9019\u7684\u78ba\u662f\u5f88\u5927\u7684\u50b7\uff0c\u4f46\u5728\u9019\u500b\u50b7\u53e3\u7684\u80cc\u5f8c\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u9810\u8a2d\u4e86\u5169\u4ef6\u4e8b\u60c5\uff1a<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>\uff08<span class=\"s1\">1<\/span>\uff09\u6211\u662f\u4e0d\u6703\u88ab\u611b\u7684<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>\uff08<span class=\"s1\">2<\/span>\uff09\u611f\u60c5\u662f\u4e0d\u53ef\u4fe1\u4efb\u7684\uff0c\u6240\u6709\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u6700\u5f8c\u90fd\u6703\u7d50\u675f<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>\u3010\u203b<\/b><\/span>\u89e3\u65b9\u3011\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u9996\u5148\uff0c\u4e0a\u9762\u5169\u500b\u9810\u8a2d\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u662f\u771f\u7684 \uff0c\u8981\u4f60\u6539\u8b8a\u9019\u5169\u500b\u76f8\u4fe1\u53ef\u80fd\u4e26\u975e\u4e00\u671d\u4e00\u5915\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4f5c\u8005\u63d0\u4f9b\u4e86\u4e00\u500b\u300c\u6b98\u5fcd\u300d\u7684\u89c0\u9ede\uff1a<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u4f60\u4e00\u76f4\u5f88\u5bb3\u6015\u5c0d\u65b9\u8b8a\u5fc3\uff0c\u4f46\u9019\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u6709\u8ab0\u53ef\u4ee5\u6c38\u4e45\u4e0d\u8b8a\u5462\uff1f<\/span>\u4f60\u6562\u4fdd\u8b49\u81ea\u5df1\u80fd\u5920\u6c38\u9060\u5c08\u60c5\u55ce\uff1f\u65e2\u7136\u5982\u6b64\uff0c\u4f55\u4e0d\u5927\u81bd\u611b\u4e00\u6b21\uff1f<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">4.<\/span>\u5bb3\u6015\u5931\u63a7\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u4f60\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u6240\u6709\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u90fd\u9700\u8981\u5728\u81ea\u5df1\u638c\u63a7\u7bc4\u570d\u4e4b\u5167\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5305\u542b\u5de5\u4f5c\u548c\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u60c5\u7dd2\u548c\u611f\u53d7\u7b49\u7b49\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60c5\u7dd2\u4e00\u4f86\uff0c\u50cf\u6d2a\u6c34\u4e00\u822c\u8d85\u8d8a\u4f60\u6240\u80fd\u63a7\u5236\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u6703\u5f88\u5bb3\u6015\u6df9\u6c92\u5f7c\u6b64\u3002\u70ba\u4e86\u907f\u514d\u9019\u7a2e\u72c0\u6cc1\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u5169\u500b\u4eba\u5f88\u89aa\u5bc6\u7684\u6642\u5019\u4f60\u90fd\u6703\u60f3\u8981\u505c\u4e0b\u4f86\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u6015\u4e4b\u5f8c\u60c5\u7dd2\u6c3e\u6feb\u4e00\u767c\u4e0d\u53ef\u6536\u62fe\uff0c\u5c31\u7b97\u662f\u958b\u5fc3\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u4e5f\u4e00\u6a23\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>\u3010\u203b<\/b><\/span>\u89e3\u65b9\u3011\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u6709\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u4eba\u751f\u662f\u9700\u8981\u4e00\u4e9b\u5931\u63a7\u7684 \uff0c\u5c31\u50cf\u904a\u6232\u88e1\u9762\u7684\u52c7\u8005\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4ed6\u8001\u662f\u5f85\u5728\u7687\u5bae\u88e1\u9762\u5403\u9999\u559d\u8fa3\uff0c\u90a3\u5927\u6982\u7d42\u5176\u4e00\u751f\u5c31\u53ea\u6709\u80a5\u80d6\u800c\u5df2\u3002\u4f46<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u5982\u679c\u4ed6\u9858\u610f\u5230\u6d1e\u7a9f\u63a2\u96aa\uff0c\u90a3\u500b\u8b93\u4ed6\u6050\u61fc\u5bb3\u6015\u5931\u63a7\u7684\u5730\u65b9\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u85cf\u8457\u4ed6\u9700\u8981\u7684\u5bf6\u85cf<\/span>[<span class=\"s1\">6<\/span>]\u3002<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_123860\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-123860\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123860\" src=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/08\/gone-girl-e1534737601798.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"319\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-123860\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a\u300a\u63a7\u5236\u300b\u5287\u7167<\/p><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">5.<\/span>\u6bc0\u6ec5\u6027\u885d\u52d5\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u4e2d\u662f\u5426\u66fe\u7d93\u6709\u904e\u9019\u7a2e\u611f\u89ba<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u300c\u6211\u60f3\u8981\u8b93\u4ed6\u611f\u53d7\u5230\u75db\u82e6\uff0c\u7576\u4ed6\u611f\u89ba\u75db\u82e6\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u6703\u5f97\u5230\u67d0\u7a2e\u5feb\u611f\u300d<\/span>\uff0c\u5018\u82e5\u4f60\u4e5f\u66fe\u7d93\u6709\u9019\u7a2e\u5167\u5728\u7684\u8072\u97f3\uff0c\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u611f\u5230\u7f6a\u60e1\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u6703\u6709\u9019\u7a2e\u60f3\u6cd5\u6216\u8a31\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u7a2e\u53ef\u80fd\uff0c\u4f46\u4f60\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u771f\u7684\u60f3\u8981\u50b7\u5bb3\u4ed6\uff0c\u9019\u500b\u6bc0\u6ec5\u7684\u885d\u52d5\u53ef\u80fd\u4f86\u81ea\u65bc\u4e0b\u9762<span class=\"s1\">2<\/span>\u7a2e\u56e0\u7d20\uff1a<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>\uff08<span class=\"s1\">1<\/span>\uff09\u9019\u624d\u662f\u4f60\u5fc3\u88e1\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u8072\u97f3\uff1a\u300c<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u503c\u5f97\u4ed6\u5c0d\u6211\u90a3\u9ebc\u597d\u3002<\/span>\u7576\u4ed6\u5c0d\u6211\u592a\u597d\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u5c31\u6703\u7121\u6cd5\u505c\u6b62\u5730\u60f3\u8981\u50b7\u5bb3\u4ed6\u3001\u7834\u58de\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u8b93\u9019\u6bb5\u611b\u56de\u5230\u6211\u300c\u61c9\u5f97\u300d\u7684\u6c34\u5e73\u3002\u300d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>\uff08<span class=\"s1\">2<\/span>\uff09\u9019\u624d\u662f\u4f60\u5fc3\u88e1\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u8072\u97f3\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u60f3\u8981\u8b93\u4ed6\u5690\u5690\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u53d7\u904e\u7684\u90a3\u7a2e\u82e6\u3002\u300d<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>\u3010\u203b<\/b><\/span>\u89e3\u65b9\u3011\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u4e0d\u8ad6\u662f\u4e0a\u9762\u90a3\u500b\u56e0\u7d20\uff0c\u6216\u8a31\u90fd\u4f86\u81ea\u65bc\u4f60\u904e\u5f80\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5275\u50b7[<span class=\"s1\">7<\/span>] 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Aron<\/span>\u5728\u9019\u88e1\u7528\u4e00\u500b\u5f88\u68d2\u7684\u6bd4\u55bb\uff0c\u60f3\u50cf\u4e00\u4e0b\u4f60\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u9b5a\u7f38\uff0c\u88e1\u9762\u6709\u5e7e\u96bb\u9b5a\uff0c\u4ed6\u4e5f\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u9b5a\u7f38\uff0c\u88e1\u9762\u4e5f\u6709\u5e7e\u96bb\u9b5a\u3002\u300c\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u300d\u5c31\u50cf\u628a\u5169\u500b\u9b5a\u7f38\u88e1\u9762\u7684\u9b5a\u6df7\u5408\u5728\u4e00\u500b\u5927\u7684\u9b5a\u7f38\u88e1\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u64d4\u5fc3\u4ed6\u7684\u9b5a\u5403\u6389\u4f60\u7684\u9b5a\u3001\u64d4\u5fc3\u4f4f\u5728\u540c\u4e00\u500b\u9b5a\u7f38\u88e1\u592a\u904e\u64c1\u64e0\u3002\u7528\u901a\u4fd7\u7684\u8a71\u4f86\u8aaa\u5c31\u662f\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u4f60\u6015\u4ed6\u628a\u4f60\u5403\u6389\uff0c\u4e0d\u8ad6\u662f\u5fc3\u9748\u4e0a\u7684\u5403\u6389\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u662f\u300c\u81ea\u6211\u300d\u4e0a\u7684\u5403\u6389<\/span>[<span class=\"s1\">8<\/span>]\u3002<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>\u3010\u203b<\/b><\/span>\u89e3\u65b9\u3011\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u91cd\u9ede\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u4f60\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u8ddf\u5c0d\u65b9\u5728\u4e00\u8d77 \u3001\u4e5f\u4e0d\u662f\u4f60\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u4ea4\u51fa\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u81ea\u5df1 \uff0c\u800c\u662f\u4f60\u80fd\u4e0d\u80fd\u5920\u5728\u5169\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u8a2d\u5b9a\u597d\u754c\u9650\uff0c<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u5169\u4eba\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e92\u76f8\u4f9d\u8cf4\u548c\u89aa\u5bc6\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u4fdd\u6709\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u7a7a\u9593\u3002<\/span>\u5149\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\u60c5\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u5beb\u597d\u5e7e\u672c\u66f8\u4e86\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4e0d\u7d30\u7d30\u8aaa\u660e\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u770b\u4e0b\u9762\u7684\u53c3\u8003\u6587\u737b[<span class=\"s1\">5<\/span>]\u3002<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_123862\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-123862\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123862\" src=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/08\/FotoJet-11.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-123862\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a\u300a\u4ed6\u5176\u5be6\u6c92\u90a3\u9ebc\u559c\u6b61\u4f60\u300b\u5287\u7167<\/p><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">7.<\/span>\u6050\u61fc\u627f\u8afe\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u5176\u5be6\u5c31\u662f\u5f88\u6015\u88ab\u5c0d\u65b9\u4f9d\u8cf4\u3002<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u4f60\u64d4\u5fc3\u5982\u679c\u6c7a\u5b9a\u8981\u7a69\u5b9a\u516c\u958b\u4ea4\u5f80\u3001\u6c7a\u5b9a\u7d50\u5a5a\uff0c\u5f88\u53ef\u80fd\u8981\u8ca0\u8d77\u5f88\u591a\u7684\u8cac\u4efb\u3001\u5931\u53bb\u5f88\u591a\u7684\u81ea\u7531<\/span>[<span class=\"s1\">9<\/span>]\uff0c\u4f60\u5f88\u5bb3\u6015\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u8d70\u5230\u6700\u5f8c\u6703\u8b8a\u5f88\u7121\u804a\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4f60\u9072\u9072\u4e0d\u6562\u4e0b\u5b9a\u6c7a\u5fc3\u505a\u51fa\u627f\u8afe\u3002<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b>\u3010\u203b<\/b><\/span>\u89e3\u65b9\u3011\uff1a<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">\u5176\u5be6\u8ddf\u525b\u525b\u7684\u754c\u9650\u6709\u9ede\u50cf\uff0c\u4e0d\u8ad6\u662f\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u6216\u8005\u662f\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u4eba\u751f\uff0c\u4f60\u90fd\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u8ca0\u8d77\u5168\u90e8\u7684\u8cac\u4efb\uff0c\u540c\u6a23\u7684\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u8ddf\u5c0d\u65b9\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u5f8c\u5931\u53bb\u81ea\u7531\uff0c\u90a3\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u300c\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u300d\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u800c\u662f<span style=\"color: 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N.<span class=\"s1\">\uff08<\/span>2018<span class=\"s1\">\uff09\u3002<a href=\"http:\/\/www.books.com.tw\/exep\/assp.php\/ispaceservice\/products\/0010784422?utm_source=ispaceservice&amp;utm_medium=ap-books&amp;utm_content=recommend&amp;utm_campaign=ap-201808\"><span class=\"s2\">\u555f\u52d5\u9ad8\u654f\u611f\u7684\u611b\u60c5\u5929\u8ce6\uff1a\u5e78\u798f\u662f\u4f60\u8207\u751f\u4ff1\u4f86\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u529b<\/span><\/a>\uff08<\/span>The Highly Sensitive Person in Love<span class=\"s1\">\uff1a<\/span>Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You<span class=\"s1\">\uff09\uff08\u8b1d\u96c5\u6587\u8207\u66fe\u5a49\u7433\u8b6f\uff09\u3002\u53f0\u7063\uff0c\u53f0\u5317\uff1a\u4e09\u91c7\u6587\u5316\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">[<span class=\"s3\">2<\/span>]<span class=\"s3\">Sand<\/span>,<span class=\"s3\"> I.<\/span>\uff08<span class=\"s3\">2018<\/span>(\u4ed8\u5370\u4e2d)\uff09\u3002\u6211\u53ea\u662f\u5047\u88dd\u4e0d\u5728\u4e4e\uff1a\u6458\u4e0b\u300c\u81ea\u6211\u4fdd\u8b77\u300d\u7684\u793e\u4ea4\u9762\u5177\uff0c\u4eab\u53d7\u6b63\u5411\u7684\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002\u53f0\u7063\uff0c\u53f0\u5317\uff1a\u5e73\u5b89\u6587\u5316\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">[<span class=\"s3\">3<\/span>]\u6c6a\u6dd1\u5a9b\uff08<span class=\"s3\">2018<\/span>\uff09\u3002<a href=\"http:\/\/www.books.com.tw\/exep\/assp.php\/ispaceservice\/products\/0010788798?utm_source=ispaceservice&amp;utm_medium=ap-books&amp;utm_content=recommend&amp;utm_campaign=ap-201808\"><span class=\"s2\">\u597d\u597d\u5b58\u5728\uff1a\u3127\u4f4d\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6\u7684\u7642\u7652\u66f8\u5beb<\/span><\/a>\u3002\u53f0\u7063\uff0c\u53f0\u5317\uff1a\u555f\u793a\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s4\">[<\/span><span class=\"s5\">4<\/span><span class=\"s4\">]\u746a\u90a3\u718a\uff08<\/span><span class=\"s5\">2018<\/span><span class=\"s4\">\uff09\u3002<a href=\"http:\/\/www.books.com.tw\/exep\/assp.php\/ispaceservice\/products\/0010790228?utm_source=ispaceservice&amp;utm_medium=ap-books&amp;utm_content=recommend&amp;utm_campaign=ap-201808\"><span class=\"s2\">\u4e00\u958b\u53e3\u64a9\u4eba\u53c8\u804a\u5fc3\uff1a\u88ab\u7570\u6027\u559c\u6b61\uff0c\u88ab\u540c\u6027\u80af\u5b9a\uff0c\u4e0d\u51b7\u5834\u3001\u4e0d\u8fad\u7aae\u3001\u4e0d\u5c37\u5c2c\u3001\u4e0d\u88ab\u53e5\u9ede<\/span><\/a>\u3002\u53f0\u5317\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u51fa\u7248\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">[<span class=\"s3\">5<\/span>]\u5433\u59f5\u7469\uff08<span class=\"s3\">2018<\/span>\uff09\u3002<a href=\"http:\/\/www.books.com.tw\/exep\/assp.php\/ispaceservice\/products\/0010787649?utm_source=ispaceservice&amp;utm_medium=ap-books&amp;utm_content=recommend&amp;utm_campaign=ap-201808\"><span class=\"s2\">\u95dc\u4fc2\u754c\u9650\uff1a\u89e3\u6c7a\u4eba\u969b\u3001\u611b\u60c5\u3001\u7236\u6bcd\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u7cfe\u7d50\u75c7<\/span><\/a>\u3002\u53f0\u7063\uff1a\u9060\u6d41\u51fa\u7248\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s4\">[<\/span><span class=\"s5\">6<\/span><span class=\"s4\">]<\/span><span class=\"s5\">\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/womany.net\/read\/article\/9884\"><span class=\"s6\">\u5e74\u5047\u8ffd\u7247\uff01<\/span><span class=\"s2\">14 <\/span><span class=\"s6\">\u90e8\u96fb\u5f71\u5e36\u4f60\u8a8d\u540c\u81ea\u5df1\uff1a\u6050\u61fc\u662f\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u5bf6\u85cf<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">[<\/span>7<span class=\"s1\">]<\/span>Stahl<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> S.<span class=\"s1\">\uff08<\/span>2018<span class=\"s1\">\uff09\u3002<a href=\"http:\/\/www.books.com.tw\/exep\/assp.php\/ispaceservice\/products\/0010781418?utm_source=ispaceservice&amp;utm_medium=ap-books&amp;utm_content=recommend&amp;utm_campaign=ap-201808\"><span class=\"s2\">\u7ae5\u5e74\u7684\u50b7\uff0c\u60c5\u7dd2\u90fd\u77e5\u9053\uff1a<\/span><span class=\"s7\">26<\/span><span class=\"s2\">\u500b\u7df4\u7fd2\uff0c\u64c1\u62b1\u5167\u5728\u9670\u9b31\u5c0f\u5b69\uff0c\u6399\u812b\u6f5b\u85cf\u7684\u5bb6\u5ead\u5275\u50b7\u9670\u5f71\uff0c\u627e\u56de\u4fe1\u4efb\u8207\u611b<\/span><\/a>(<\/span>Das Kind in dir muss Heimat finden: Der Schl\u00fcssel zur L\u00f6sung <span class=\"s1\">(<\/span>fast<span class=\"s1\">)<\/span> aller Probleme<span class=\"s1\">)\uff08\u738b\u69ae\u8f1d\u8b6f\uff09\u3002\u53f0\u5317\uff1a\u6642\u5831\u51fa\u7248<\/span> <span class=\"s1\">\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">[<\/span>8<span class=\"s1\">]<\/span>Kwang<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> T.<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> Neff<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> L. A.<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> &amp; Swann<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> W. B. <span class=\"s1\">(<\/span>2011<span class=\"s1\">)<\/span>. When two become one:Nature and consequences of three forms of identity merger in couples. Paper presented at the 2011 annual meeting of Society for Personality and Social Psychology<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> San Antonio<span class=\"s1\">,<\/span> Texas. 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