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Hara Estroff Marano. (<\/span>2016)<\/span>. Jealousy: Love\u2019<\/span>sdestroyer. Psychology Today.<\/p>\n

Neal,<\/span> A. M.,<\/span> & Lemay,<\/span> E. P. (<\/span>2014)<\/span>. How partners\u2019<\/span> temptation leads totheir heightened commitment The interpersonal regulation of infidelity threats.\u00a0Journalof Social and Personal Relationships,<\/span>\u00a031(<\/span>7),<\/span> 938-957.<\/p>\n

Sara Eckel. (<\/span>2016)<\/span>. Listening to jealousy. PsychologyToday.<\/p>\n

Slotter,<\/span> E. B.,<\/span> Lucas,<\/span> G. M.,<\/span> Jakubiak,<\/span> B.,<\/span> & Lasslett,<\/span> H. (<\/span>2013)<\/span>.Changing Me to Keep You State Jealousy Promotes Perceiving Similarity Betweenthe Self and a Romantic Rival.\u00a0Personality and Social PsychologyBulletin,<\/span> 0146167213492427.<\/p>\n

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