{"id":12428,"date":"2018-06-28T17:15:49","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T09:15:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/06\/28\/stop-insecure-in-relationship\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T12:09:07","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T04:09:07","slug":"stop-insecure-in-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/06\/28\/stop-insecure-in-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"\u3010\u9760\u81ea\u5df1\u6700\u5be6\u5728\u3011\u5b78\u6703\u5f9e\u81ea\u8eab\u7372\u5f97\u5c0d\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u5b89\u5168\u611f\uff0c\u624d\u80fd\u4eab\u53d7\u611b\u60c5\u4e2d\u7684\u6bcf\u4e00\u523b\u7f8e\u597d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-118777 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/06\/\u5bae\u6fa4\u8ce2\u6cbb\u7684\u9910\u684c_miyazawakenji_\u9234\u6728\u4eae\u5e73_\u77f3\u6a4b\u674f\u594803-e1530131119587.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"401\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u5728\u9762\u5c0d\u611f\u60c5\u4e2d\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u6642\uff0c\u5bb9\u6613\u795e\u7d93\u7dca\u5f35\uff0c\u5c0e\u81f4\u7d93\u5e38\u548c\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u767c\u751f\u722d\u57f7\uff0c\u9032\u800c\u62b1\u6028\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u6c92\u6709\u7d66\u4e88\u81ea\u5df1\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3002\u4f46\u5176\u5be6\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u4e2d\u7684\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u9664\u4e86\u4f86\u81ea\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u4f60\u4e5f\u8981\u61c2\u5f97\u5f9e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8eab\u4e0a\u7372\u5f97\u5b89\u5168\u611f\uff0c\u7d9c\u5408\u4e86\u5c0d\u65b9\u548c\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u5275\u9020\u7684\u5b89\u5fc3\u74b0\u5883\uff0c\u4f60\u624d\u80fd\u5920\u4eab\u53d7\u9019\u6bb5\u611b\u60c5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u6bcf\u4e00\u523b\u7f8e\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f46\u662f\u8981\u5982\u4f55\u624d\u80fd\u5920\u5f9e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8eab\u4e0a\u5f97\u5230\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u5462\uff1f\u4f86\u81ea\u5169\u6027\u611f\u60c5\u7db2\u7ad9 LovePanky \u7684\u5c08\u6b04\u4f5c\u5bb6 Bella Pope \u7d66\u4e86\u4ee5\u4e0b\u7684\u5e7e\u9ede\u63d0\u793a\uff1a<\/p>\n<h2>1. \u5225\u628a\u932f\u63a8\u7d66\u4f60\u7684\u53e6\u4e00\u534a<\/h2>\n<p>\u9019\u662f\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u5728\u611f\u5230\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u6642\u6703\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u4f60\u6703\u8cac\u602a\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u548c\u5225\u4eba\u4ea4\u8ac7\u6216\u8005\u662f\u7784\u4e86\u4e00\u773c\u4ed6\u8a8d\u70ba\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u4f60\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u6240\u6b78\u759a\u6210\u4ed6\u7684\u932f\u3002\u8acb\u907f\u514d\u9019\u6a23\u505a\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u8d8a\u662f\u5982\u6b64\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8d8a\u758f\u9060\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\u3002\u8acb\u8a18\u5f97\u8b93\u4f60\u611f\u5230\u81ea\u4fe1\u7684\u4e0d\u662f\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u529f\u8ab2\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u81ea\u6211\u53cd\u601d<\/h2>\n<p>\u4f60\u5fc5\u9808\u8003\u616e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u884c\u70ba\u4ee5\u53ca\u4f60\u5728\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u7684\u8868\u73fe\u3002\u4f60\u662f\u5e0c\u671b\u611f\u60c5\u6301\u7e8c\u4e0b\u53bb\u55ce\uff1f \u9084\u662f\u4f60\u5728\u601d\u8003\u96e2\u958b\uff1f\u56e0\u70ba\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u6c92\u6709\u6539\u5584\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u4e2d\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\uff0c\u9019\u5c07\u6703\u5c0e\u81f4\u611f\u60c5\u51fa\u73fe\u8a31\u591a\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u4e5f\u5c31\u9810\u8a00\u4e86\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u5931\u6557\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u548c\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u8ac7\u8ac7<\/h2>\n<p>\u4f60\u5fc5\u9808\u8981\u548c\u4ed6\u8ac7\u8ad6\u9019\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u5766\u8aa0\u5730\u8868\u793a\u4f60\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u4e2d\u9762\u5c0d\u5230\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u90a3\u4e9b\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u4ed6\u6703\u96e2\u958b\u4f60\u7684\u539f\u56e0\u3002\u8b93\u4f60\u611f\u5230\u81ea\u4fe1\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u4ed6\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u4f46\u4ed6\u80fd\u5920\u5e6b\u52a9\u4f60\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u5f97\u5230\u8212\u7de9\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4ed6\u5e0c\u671b\u4f60\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u4ed6\u6703\u966a\u8457\u4f60\u601d\u8003\u5982\u4f55\u9762\u5c0d\u9019\u4e9b\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u8a18\u5f97\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\u539f\u56e0\u8b93\u4ed6\u611b\u4e0a\u4f60\u7684<\/h2>\n<p>\u5728\u4eba\u6d77\u4e4b\u4e2d\uff0c\u4ed6\u5c31\u662f\u9078\u64c7\u4e86\u4f60\u3002 \u4ed6\u5e0c\u671b\u548c\u4f60\u4e00\u8d77\u751f\u6d3b\u3002\u4f60\u5fc5\u9808\u8a18\u4f4f\u9019\u4e00\u9ede\uff0c\u5426\u5247\u4f60\u5c07\u7e7c\u7e8c\u9677\u5728\u9019\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u7684\u80e1\u601d\u4e82\u60f3\u4e4b\u4e2d\uff0c\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u760b\u72c2\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u505c\u6b62\u548c\u5225\u4eba\u6bd4\u8f03<\/h2>\n<p>\u9019\u662f\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u70ba\u4f60\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u505a\u7684\u6700\u7cdf\u7cd5\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e0d\u65b7\u8207\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u6bd4\u8f03\uff0c\u4f60\u6c38\u9060\u4e0d\u6703\u611f\u5230\u5feb\u6a02\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u6c38\u9060\u7121\u6cd5\u6210\u70ba\u5225\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u5411\u5c08\u696d\u4eba\u58eb\u5c0b\u6c42\u5354\u52a9<\/h2>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u4e26\u975e\u7e3d\u662f\u80fd\u5920\u9760\u81ea\u5df1\u89e3\u6c7a\u554f\u984c\u3002 \u6709\u6642\u5019\u6703\u9700\u8981\u6709\u6280\u80fd\u548c\u7d93\u9a57\u7684\u4eba\u70ba\u6211\u5011\u6307\u8def\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u53bb\u548c\u8aee\u5546\u5e2b\u8ac7\u8ac7\u3002\u4ed6\u5011\u53ef\u4ee5\u70ba\u4f60\u9047\u5230\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u88fd\u5b9a\u51fa\u5be6\u969b\u53ef\u884c\u7684\u8a08\u5283\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u53c3\u8003\u8cc7\u6599\uff1a<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/love-couch\/better-love\/how-to-stop-being-insecure-in-a-relationship\">LovePanky<\/a>\uff1b\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a\u300a\u5bae\u6fa4\u8ce2\u6cbb\u7684\u9910\u684c\u300b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u5728\u9762\u5c0d\u611f\u60c5\u4e2d\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u6642\uff0c\u5bb9\u6613\u795e\u7d93\u7dca\u5f35\uff0c\u5c0e\u81f4\u7d93\u5e38\u548c\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u767c\u751f\u722d\u57f7\uff0c\u9032\u800c\u62b1\u6028\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u6c92\u6709\u7d66\u4e88\u81ea\u5df1\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3002\u4f46\u5176\u5be6\u5728\u611f\u60c5\u4e2d\u7684\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u9664\u4e86\u4f86\u81ea\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u4f60\u4e5f\u8981\u61c2\u5f97\u5f9e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8eab\u4e0a\u7372\u5f97\u5b89\u5168\u611f\uff0c\u7d9c\u5408\u4e86\u5c0d\u65b9\u548c\u81ea\u5df1[&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":84,"featured_media":20128,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[68],"tags":[94,81,87],"coauthors":[16335],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12428"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/84"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12428"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12428\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35767,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12428\/revisions\/35767"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20128"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12428"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=12428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}