{"id":12151,"date":"2018-05-21T18:34:44","date_gmt":"2018-05-21T10:34:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/05\/21\/lasting-relationship\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T12:14:37","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T04:14:37","slug":"lasting-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/05\/21\/lasting-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5c08\u5bb6\u7cbe\u95e2\u5256\u6790\uff1a\u4e00\u6bb5\u611f\u60c5\u6703\u4e0d\u6703\u6709\u672a\u4f86\uff0c\u5f9e 4 \u9ede\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u770b\u51fa\u4f86\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_115127\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-115127\" class=\"wp-image-115127 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/05\/1_img_885_590-e1526783506188.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-115127\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u300a\u5f8c\u4f86\u7684\u6211\u5011\u300b\u5287\u7167<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u6709\u6642\u5728\u591c\u6df1\u4eba\u975c\u6642\uff0c\u6703\u770b\u8457\u6b63\u8eba\u5728\u8eab\u65c1\u7684\u6795\u908a\u4eba\uff0c\u6697\u81ea\u611f\u5606\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u5011\u6703\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u591a\u4e45\u5462\uff1f\u300d\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u7528\u81ea\u5df1\u80e1\u4e82\u778e\u60f3\uff0c\u300c\u6709\u672a\u4f86\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u300d\u7684\u78ba\u662f\u6709\u4e9b\u6307\u6a19\u53ef\u4ee5\u53c3\u8003\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4ee5\u4e0b\u6574\u7406\u81ea\u5fc3\u7406\u5c08\u5bb6\u00a0John M. 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