{"id":10977,"date":"2017-12-07T16:56:59","date_gmt":"2017-12-07T08:56:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/12\/07\/talking-is-not-that-important-in-a-relationship\/"},"modified":"2021-10-29T11:27:40","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T03:27:40","slug":"talking-is-not-that-important-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/12\/07\/talking-is-not-that-important-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u7121\u8a71\u4e0d\u8ac7\u300d\u5728\u611b\u60c5\u4e2d\u6709\u90a3\u9ebc\u91cd\u8981\u55ce\uff1f\u7f8e\u570b\u5fc3\u7406\u5e2b\uff1a\u592a\u5f37\u8abf\u6e9d\u901a\u53cd\u800c\u50b7\u611f\u60c5"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>\u300aVO\u300b\u5c0e\u8b80\uff1a<\/p>\n<p>\u807d\u8457 Charlie Puth \u7684\u300aWe don&#8217;t talk anymore\u300b\uff0c\u5fc3\u88e1\u9ed8\u9ed8\u5730\u54c0\u50b7\uff0c\u6f38\u6f38\u6c92\u8a71\u804a\u3001\u4e0d\u8aaa\u5fc3\u88e1\u8a71 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