{"id":10779,"date":"2017-11-10T12:51:36","date_gmt":"2017-11-10T04:51:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/11\/10\/complaining\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T12:37:45","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T04:37:45","slug":"complaining","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/11\/10\/complaining\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u6211\u8ddf\u4f60\u8aaa\uff0c\u90a3\u500bXXX\u771f\u7684\u5f88&#8230;&#8230;\u300d\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u611b\u62b1\u6028\u537b\u53c8\u4e0d\u6539\u8b8a\u73fe\u72c0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-98952 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/11\/p46481246.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" 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style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u6163\u6027\u62b1\u6028\u8005\uff08chronic complainer\uff09<\/strong><\/span>\u3002<span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u62b1\u6028\u807d\u8d77\u4f86\u5c31\u50cf\u201c\u9b3c\u6253\u7246\u201d\uff0c\u4e0d\u8ad6\u600e\u9ebc\u60f3\u8981\u5e6b\u4ed6\u5011\u8d70\u51fa\u53bb\uff0c\u6700\u5f8c\u90fd\u50cf\u662f\u767d\u8cbb\u529f\u592b\u3002<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><strong>\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u62b1\u6028\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u70ba\u4e86\u8b93\u4f60\u7169<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u62b1\u6028\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u5f88\u5e73\u5e38\u7684\u793e\u4ea4\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u5b83\u662f\u8868\u9054\u4e0d\u6eff\u3001\u6028\u6068\u6216\u8005\u5f8c\u6094\u7684\u4e00\u7a2e\u65b9\u5f0f(Alicke et al., 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