{"id":10523,"date":"2017-10-05T13:29:59","date_gmt":"2017-10-05T05:29:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/10\/05\/chocolate-for-relationship\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T12:41:59","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T04:41:59","slug":"chocolate-for-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/10\/05\/chocolate-for-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5a5a\u59fb\u9577\u8dd1 40 \u5e74\u7684\u592b\u59bb\u90fd\u7528\u9019\u4e9b\u62db\u7dad\u6301\u611f\u60c5\uff1a\u7b2c\u4e00\uff0c\u96a8\u8eab\u5e36\u689d\u5de7\u514b\u529b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96105 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/10\/hugs-wedding-bride-mans.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\u9817\u9ad8\u7684\u73fe\u4ee3\uff0c\u5df2\u7d93\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u96e3\u770b\u5230\u5a5a\u59fb\u95dc\u4fc2\u8d85\u904e\u5341\u5e7e\u5e74\u7684\u592b\u59bb\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u65b0\u5a5a\u592b\u5a66\uff0c\u904e\u4e86\u5e7e\u5e74\uff0c\u5c31\u56e0\u70ba\u751f\u6d3b\u4e0a\u7684\u6469\u64e6\u3001\u500b\u6027\u4e0a\u7684\u4e0d\u5408\u800c\u5206\u958b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u4e0d\u7981\u60f3\uff0c\u7238\u7238\u5abd\u5abd\u90a3\u4e00\u8f29\u7684\u592b\u59bb\uff0c\u5230\u5e95\u662f\u600e\u9ebc\u7dad\u7e6b\u5a5a\u59fb\u8d85\u904e 40 \u5e74\u7684\u5462\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u5eb7\u4e43\u723e\u5927\u5b78\u5c08\u7cbe\u4eba\u985e\u767c\u5c55\u7684 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.human.cornell.edu\/bio.cfm?netid=kap6\">Karl Pillemer<\/a> \u6559\u6388\u5728\u4ed6\u7684<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/30-Lessons-%20Loving-Americans-Relationships\/dp\/0147516536\">\u65b0\u66f8<\/a>\u8a2a\u8ac7\u4e86\u7d04 700 \u4f4d\u7d50\u5a5a\u8d85\u904e 40 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href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/09\/12\/9-signs-of-healthy-love\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u4e0d\u7528\u8cbb\u76e1\u5fc3\u601d\u4e5f\u80fd\u611b\u5f97\u9577\u4e45\uff0c\u4e00\u751f\u53d7\u7528\u7684 9 \u689d\u611b\u60c5\u7d93\u71df\u6cd5\u5247<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/09\/19\/wrong-thoughts-about-relationship\/\">\u300c\u6211\u5011\u4e0d\u9069\u5408\u300d\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u5225\u592a\u65e9\u8b1b\uff0c\u9019 7 \u7a2e\u932f\u8aa4\u89c0\u5ff5\u9ed8\u9ed8\u5728\u963b\u7919\u4f60\u7684\u5e78\u798f<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/07\/03\/heartbeat\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u611b\u60c5\u7684\u9577\u4e45\u5b88\u5247\uff1a\u5728\u5e73\u51e1\u7684\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u88fd\u9020\u7121\u6578\u500b\u300c\u5fc3\u52d5\u611f\u300d<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"article-post-date\"><\/div>\n<p>\uff08\u53c3\u8003\u8cc7\u6599\uff1a<a href=\"http:\/\/www.human.cornell.edu\/bio.cfm?netid=kap6\">Karl Pillemer<\/a>\u00a0, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/315322\/research-based-relationship-advice-from-couples-whove-been-together-for-40-years-2\">Lifehack<\/a>\uff09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u5728\u96e2\u5a5a\u7387\u9817\u9ad8\u7684\u73fe\u4ee3\uff0c\u5df2\u7d93\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u96e3\u770b\u5230\u5a5a\u59fb\u95dc\u4fc2\u8d85\u904e\u5341\u5e7e\u5e74\u7684\u592b\u59bb\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u65b0\u5a5a\u592b\u5a66\uff0c\u904e\u4e86\u5e7e\u5e74\uff0c\u5c31\u56e0\u70ba\u751f\u6d3b\u4e0a\u7684\u6469\u64e6\u3001\u500b\u6027\u4e0a\u7684\u4e0d\u5408\u800c\u5206\u958b\u3002 \u9019\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u4e0d\u7981\u60f3\uff0c\u7238\u7238\u5abd\u5abd\u90a3\u4e00\u8f29\u7684\u592b\u59bb\uff0c\u5230\u5e95\u662f\u600e\u9ebc\u7dad\u7e6b\u5a5a\u59fb\u8d85\u904e 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