{"id":10411,"date":"2017-09-20T12:19:34","date_gmt":"2017-09-20T04:19:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/09\/20\/speak-up\/"},"modified":"2017-09-20T12:19:34","modified_gmt":"2017-09-20T04:19:34","slug":"speak-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/09\/20\/speak-up\/","title":{"rendered":"\u7a31\u8b9a\u5916\u570b\u4eba\u5225\u8aaa \u201cYou are beautiful.\u201d \uff01\u9019\u5e7e\u53e5\u82f1\u6587\u8b9a\u7f8e\u76f4\u63a5\u5c04\u9032\u4ed6\u7684\u5fc3\u4e2d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94791 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/09\/1439821684-09c66ad37a3e780f55e45cbb733219ca-e1505880032645.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u3010\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6211\u5011\u8981\u6311\u9078\u9019\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u3011<\/p>\n<p>\u9047\u5230\u4e00\u500b\u5916\u570b\u4eba\u60f3\u7a31\u8b9a\u4ed6\u642d\u914d\u5f97\u5b9c\u3001\u599d\u5bb9\u6642\u5c1a\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u7fd2\u6163\u6027\u5730\u8b93\u300c You are beautiful.\u300d\u812b\u53e3\u800c\u51fa\u55ce\uff1f\u5176\u5be6\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u8aaa\u6cd5\u53cd\u800c\u8b93\u5c0d\u8a71\u6c92\u8fa6\u6cd5\u7e7c\u7e8c\u4e0b\u53bb\uff0c\u60f3\u5c07\u8b9a\u7f8e\u8aaa\u5230\u5225\u4eba\u5fc3\u574e\u88e1\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5c31\u8981\u5b78\u6703\u4e0b\u9762\u7684\u5e7e\u9ede\u539f\u5247\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u8cac\u4efb\u7de8\u8f2f\uff1a\u5f35\u8212\u5a77\uff09<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u5fc3\u4e2d\u6709\u718a\u718a\u70c8\u706b\u5728\u71d2\uff0c\u537b\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u8a72\u600e\u9ebc\u958b\u555f\u8a71\u984c\u55ce\uff1f\u611f\u5606\u8457\u300c\u597d\u60f3\u8981\u8a8d\u8b58\u4ed6\u554a\u2026\u2026\u300d\uff0c\u537b\u7e3d\u662f\u8de8\u4e0d\u51fa\u90a3\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b65\uff1f\u5176\u5be6\u8981\u958b\u555f\u5c0d\u8a71\uff0c\u6700\u7c21\u55ae\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u5c31\u662f\u300c\u8b9a\u7f8e\u300d\uff0c\u65b0\u5b78\u671f\u65b0\u958b\u59cb\uff0c\u5feb\u5b78\u7fd2\u5982\u4f55\u7528\u82f1\u6587\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4ed6\u4eba\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<h2>\u958b\u555f\u8a71\u984c<\/h2>\n<p>\u958b\u555f\u8a71\u984c\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u7a2e\uff0c\u8981\u6ce8\u610f\u7684\u7709\u7709\u89d2\u89d2\u4e5f\u4e0d\u5c11\uff0c\u5728\u4e0a\u524d\u6500\u8ac7\u6642\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u53ef\u4ee5\u6ce8\u610f\u7684\u5c0f\u5730\u65b9\u4ee5\u53ca\u5c0f\u6487\u6b65\u7684\uff1a<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>1. \u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41 eye contact<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u4e0a\u524d\u6500\u8ac7\u524d\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u5148\u8207\u5c0d\u65b9\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\u4e00\u4e0b\uff0c\u8b93\u5c0d\u65b9\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u6709\u610f\u8207\u4ed6\u4ea4\u8ac7\uff0c\u505a\u500b\u7c21\u55ae\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u6e96\u5099\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>2. \u80a2\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00 body language<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5b78\u7fd2\u89c0\u5bdf\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u80a2\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\uff0c\u82e5\u5c0d\u65b9\u96d9\u624b\u4ea4\u53c9\u6216\u662f\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u6709\u4e9b\u5fd9\u788c\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u8003\u616e\u7b49\u5c0d\u65b9\u9592\u4e0b\u4f86\u518d\u4e0a\u524d\u642d\u8a71\u3002\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u5728\u4ea4\u8ac7\u6642\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u89c0\u5bdf\u5c0d\u65b9\u662f\u5426\u50be\u8eab\u5411\u524d\u8207\u4f60\u4ea4\u8ac7\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u6025\u8457\u7d50\u675f\u8207\u4f60\u7684\u8ac7\u8a71\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>3. \u5bd2\u6684 small talk<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>small talk \u5728\u5546\u696d\u5834\u5408\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u9805\u975e\u5e38\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u6280\u80fd\uff0c\u5728\u8207\u5c0d\u65b9\u9032\u884c\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7684\u4ea4\u6d41\u6642\uff0c\u907f\u514d\u8ac7\u5230\u654f\u611f\u7684\u653f\u6cbb\u3001\u5b97\u6559\u3001\u500b\u4eba\u516b\u5366\u6216\u662f\u96b1\u79c1\u7684\u5bb6\u5ead\u3001\u5065\u5eb7\u7b49\u8a71\u984c\uff0c\u4e26\u5c07\u8a71\u984c\u5f15\u5c0e\u5230\u8f03\u70ba\u4e2d\u6027\u3001\u751f\u6d3b\u5316\u7684\u8a71\u984c\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\uff1a\u5929\u6c23\u3001\u904b\u52d5\u3001\u4f11\u9592\u5a1b\u6a02\u3001\u65b0\u805e\u7b49\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>4. \u958b\u653e\u5f0f\u554f\u984c open-ended questions<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u554f\u554f\u984c\u6642\uff0c\u76f8\u5c0d\u65bc closed question (yes-no question)\uff0c\u76e1\u91cf\u4f7f\u7528 open-ended question \u4f86\u8a62\u554f\u3002\u4e00\u65b9\u9762\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b93\u5c0d\u65b9\u56de\u7b54\u66f4\u591a\u8a9e\u53e5\uff0c\u53e6\u4e00\u65b9\u9762\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u5728\u56de\u7b54\u7684\u540c\u6642\u63d0\u4f9b\u4f60\u66f4\u591a\u95dc\u65bc\u4ed6\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u770b\u6cd5\u6216\u8cc7\u8a0a\uff0c\u6b64\u6642\u8d95\u7dca\u6293\u4f4f\u9019\u4e9b\u8cc7\u8a0a\uff0c\u671d\u4ed6\u6240\u63d0\u4f9b\u7684\u65b9\u5411\u5ef6\u4f38\u4e0b\u53bb\uff0c\u5e6b\u52a9\u5c0d\u8a71\u7684\u9032\u884c\uff01<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>5. \u8b9a\u7f8e compliments<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u8b9a\u7f8e\u662f\u958b\u555f\u5c0d\u8a71\u6700\u597d\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e4b\u4e00\uff0c\u5e7e\u4e4e\u6c92\u6709\u4eba\u662f\u4e0d\u559c\u6b61\u88ab\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\uff0c\u61c2\u5f97\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\u85dd\u8853\uff0c\u4fbf\u80fd\u8b93\u4f60\u5728\u8207\u670b\u53cb\u4ea4\u5f80\u6642\u7121\u5f80\u4e0d\u5229\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u4ee4\u4eba\u5fc3\u60c5\u6109\u6085\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u4e5f\u80fd\u5378\u4e0b\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u5fc3\u9632\u3001\u66f4\u9858\u610f\u8207\u4f60\u5c0d\u8ac7\u54e6\uff01<\/p>\n<h2><b>\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\u65b9\u5411<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4ed6\u4eba\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f9e\u4e09\u500b\u65b9\u5411\u4f86\u5207\u5165\uff1a\u80fd\u529b\u3001\u5916\u8c8c\u8ddf\u6240\u6709\u7269\u3002\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u5834\u5408\u9069\u7528\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u8b9a\u7f8e\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u4ee5\u4e0b\u5c31\u5feb\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u4e00\u8d77\u4f86\u770b\u770b\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>1. \u80fd\u529b ability<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u53c3\u52a0\u6f14\u8aaa\u3001\u6703\u8b70\u7b49\u5834\u5408\u6642\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b9a\u7f8e\u8b1b\u8005\u7684\u53f0\u98a8\uff1b\u5728\u53c3\u52a0\u805a\u6703\u6642\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4e3b\u8fa6\u4eba\u7684\u5eda\u85dd\uff1b\u5728\u5de5\u4f5c\u6642\uff0c\u4f60\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b9a\u7f8e\u5de5\u4f5c\u5925\u4f34\u7684\u6548\u7387\u3002\u6bd4\u8d77\u5916\u8c8c\u53ca\u6240\u6709\u7269\uff0c\u5c0d\u65bc\u80fd\u529b\u7684\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7121\u975e\u662f\u5c0d\u65bc\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u5167\u6db5\u7684\u80af\u5b9a\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u6bd4\u8f03\u4e2d\u6027\u3001\u9069\u5408\u7528\u65bc\u6240\u6709\u4eba\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; I must say, you really know how to + (verb)<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5fc5\u9808\u8aaa\uff0c\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u6703\uff5e<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I must say, you really know how to build a team.<br \/>\n\u6211\u5fc5\u9808\u8aaa\uff0c\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u6703\u7d44\u7e54\u5718\u968a\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; You can really (verb)<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re great at (verb + ing)<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u6703\uff5e\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>You can really dance.<br \/>\n\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u6703\u8df3\u821e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re great at planning.<br \/>\n\u4f60\u5f88\u6703\u898f\u5283\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; Wow, I wish I could (verb) as well as you!<\/p>\n<p>\u54c7\uff0c\u6211\u771f\u5e0c\u671b\u6211\uff5e\u80fd\u50cf\u4f60\u4e00\u6a23\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Wow, I wish I could sing as well as you!<br \/>\n\u54c7\uff0c\u6211\u771f\u5e0c\u671b\u6211\u5531\u6b4c\u80fd\u50cf\u4f60\u4e00\u6a23\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Wow, I wish I could deliver a speech as well as you!<br \/>\n\u54c7\uff0c\u6211\u771f\u5e0c\u671b\u6211\u6f14\u8b1b\u80fd\u50cf\u4f60\u4e00\u6a23\u53b2\u5bb3\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; You\u2019re an amazing \/ awesome \/ incredible \/ great + (noun phrase)<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u771f\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u4e86\u4e0d\u8d77\u7684\uff5e\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>You\u2019re an amazing problem solver.<br \/>\n\u4f60\u771f\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u4e86\u4e0d\u8d77\u7684\u554f\u984c\u89e3\u6c7a\u8005\u3002<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a great listener \/ speaker \/ leader.<br \/>\n\u4f60\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u5f88\u597d\u7684\u8046\u807d\u8005\uff0f\u8b1b\u8005\uff0f\u9818\u5c0e\u4eba\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; The (noun) is out of this world.<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u6c92\u5403\u904e\u9019\u9ebc\u597d\u5403\u7684\uff5e\u3002( \u7528\u4ee5\u7a31\u8b9a\u4ed6\u4eba\u5eda\u85dd )<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The cake is out of the world.<br \/>\n\u6211\u6c92\u5403\u904e\u9019\u9ebc\u597d\u5403\u7684\u86cb\u7cd5\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; You should be proud of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u61c9\u8a72\u66ff\u81ea\u5df1\u611f\u5230\u9a55\u50b2\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; You\u2019re a smart cookie.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u771f\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u975e\u5e38\u8070\u660e\u7684\u4eba\u3002( \u9019\u500b\u8aaa\u6cd5\u6bd4\u8f03\u53ef\u611b\uff0c\u662f\u504f\u958b\u73a9\u7b11\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5 )<\/p>\n<p>&gt; You inspire me.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u6fc0\u52f5\u4e86\u6211\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>2. \u5916\u8c8c appearance<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u6216\u8a31\u53ea\u662f\u88ab\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u6c23\u8cea\u6240\u5438\u5f15\uff0c\u60f3\u4e0a\u524d\u642d\u8a71\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u53c8\u5c0d\u65bc\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e00\u7121\u6240\u77e5\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u6642\u5019\u5c0d\u65bc\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u5916\u8c8c\u7d66\u4e88\u8b9a\u7f8e\u5c31\u662f\u958b\u555f\u8a71\u984c\u7684\u4e00\u7a2e\u5f88\u597d\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u54e6\uff01\u9664\u6b64\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u5728\u8def\u4e0a\u9047\u5230\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u91dd\u5c0d\u5c0d\u65b9\u7576\u5929\u7684\u6a23\u5b50\u7d66\u4e88\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u50b3\u9054\u51fa\u4f60\u5c0d\u4ed6\u7684\u53cb\u5584\u54e6\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4ed6\u4eba\u5916\u8c8c\u6642\uff0c\u4e00\u822c\u6709\u5e7e\u500b\u8b1b\u6cd5\uff1a<strong><span style=\"color: #800000\">\u76f4\u63a5\u7a31\u8b9a\u4ed6\u4eba\u4eca\u5929\u5f88\u7f8e\u5f88\u5e25\u3001\u7a31\u8b9a\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u9020\u578b ( \u670d\u88dd\u3001\u9aee\u578b\u3001\u599d\u5bb9\u7b49 ) \u3001\u7a31\u8b9a\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u9020\u578b\u8207\u5c0d\u65b9\u5f88\u76f8\u7a31\u3002<\/span><\/strong>\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u96d6\u7136\u5916\u8c8c\u53d7\u5230\u7a31\u8b9a\u5f88\u4ee4\u4eba\u958b\u5fc3\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5f80\u5f80\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u56e0\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u5bb3\u7f9e\u800c\u5feb\u901f\u7684\u7d42\u7d50\u9019\u500b\u8a71\u984c\uff0c\u9019\u500b\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u5728\u7a31\u8b9a\u5b8c\u4e4b\u5f8c\u52a0\u4e0a\u4e00\u53e5\uff1a<strong><span style=\"color: #800000\">\u4f60\u53bb\u54ea\u88e1\u8cb7 ( \u8863\u670d ) \uff0f\u71d9\u3001\u526a ( \u982d\u9aee ) \u7684\uff1f\u4f60\u7528\u54ea\u500b\u724c\u5b50\u7684\uff1f<\/span><\/strong>\u5982\u6b64\u4e00\u4f86\uff0c\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u900f\u904e\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u56de\u7b54\u5ef6\u4f38\u51fa\u66f4\u591a\u8a71\u984c\u54e6\uff01<\/p>\n<p><b>\u7a31\u8b9a\uff1a<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&gt; I really love your + (dress \/ hair \/ outfit \/ etc.).<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u771f\u7684\u597d\u559c\u6b61\u4f60\u7684\u6d0b\u88dd\uff0f\u9aee\u578b\uff0f\u9020\u578b\u2026\u2026\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; That\u2019s such a pretty (noun). You have great taste.<\/p>\n<p>\u90a3\u771f\u662f\u500b\u6f02\u4eae\u7684\uff5e\u3002\u4f60\u7684\u54c1\u5473\u771f\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; What a nice + (noun)!<\/p>\n<p>\u771f\u662f\u68d2\u7684\uff5e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; Nice + (noun phrase)!<\/p>\n<p>\uff5e\u771f\u4e0d\u932f\uff01<\/p>\n<p>&gt; You look great \/ fantastic \/ gorgeous.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u5f88\u4e0d\u932f\uff0f\u68d2\u6975\u4e86\uff0f\u5f88\u8ff7\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; That color really suits you.<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u500b\u984f\u8272\u5f88\u9069\u5408\u4f60\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; You\u2019ve got a great smile.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u7b11\u8d77\u4f86\u5f88\u597d\u770b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&gt; You\u2019ve got a cool style.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u7684\u98a8\u683c\u5f88\u9177\u3002<\/p>\n<p><b>\u5ef6\u4f38\u554f\u984c\uff1a<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&gt; Where did you get it?<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u5728\u54ea\u88e1\u8cb7\u7684\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>&gt; What brand do you recommend?<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u63a8\u85a6\u4ec0\u9ebc\u724c\u5b50\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>&gt; When did you change it?<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6642\u5019\u63db\u7684\uff1f<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I really love your hair. Where did you perm it?<br \/>\n\u6211\u771f\u7684\u597d\u559c\u6b61\u4f60\u7684\u9aee\u578b\uff0c\u4f60\u53bb\u54ea\u88e1\u71d9\u7684\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>Nice suit! Where did you get it?<br \/>\n\u897f\u88dd\u771f\u597d\u770b\uff01\u4f60\u53bb\u54ea\u8cb7\u7684\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>You look fantastic. What are you up to today?<br \/>\n\u4f60\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u68d2\u6975\u4e86\uff0c\u4eca\u5929\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u7279\u5225\u7684\u6d3b\u52d5\u55ce\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>What a nice dress. You look gorgeous in it!<br \/>\n\u9019\u4ef6\u88d9\u5b50\u771f\u597d\u770b\uff0c\u4f60\u7a7f\u8d77\u4f86\u5f88\u8ff7\u4eba\uff01<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u900f\u904e\u6bd4\u8f03\u66f2\u6298\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u53bb\u8b9a\u7f8e\u5c0d\u65b9\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Have you been working out? You look great.<br \/>\n\u4f60\u6709\u5728\u5065\u8eab\u55ce\uff1f\u4f60\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u5f88\u7d50\u5be6\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u9019\u500b\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u5c0d\u65b9\u662f\u5426\u771f\u7684\u6709\u5728\u5065\u8eab\u5176\u5be6\u4e00\u9ede\u4e5f\u4e0d\u91cd\u8981\uff0c\u7576\u4f60\u554f\u5c0d\u65b9\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u5728\u5065\u8eab\u6642\uff0c\u5c31\u5df2\u7d93\u50b3\u9054\u51fa\u4f60\u8a8d\u70ba\u4ed6\u7684\u8eab\u6750\u5f88\u7d50\u5be6\u7684\u610f\u601d\u4e86\uff0c\u800c\u9019\u624d\u662f\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\uff01<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>3. \u6240\u6709\u7269 possession<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u6709\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u89ba\u5f97\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u5305\u5305\u3001\u624b\u9336\u3001\u623f\u5b50\u3001\u6212\u6307\u7b49\u5f88\u597d\u770b\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u662f\u4e00\u822c\u7684\u98fe\u54c1\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u6216\u8a31\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f7f\u7528\u8207\u5916\u8c8c\u76f8\u4f3c\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u53bb\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4e26\u5ef6\u4f38\u51fa\u7c21\u55ae\u7684\u554f\u984c\u3002\u4e0d\u904e\uff0c\u5728\u8aaa\u6cd5\u4e0a\u9084\u662f\u53ef\u4ee5\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u8b8a\u5316\u54e6\uff01<\/p>\n<p>&gt; Nice + (noun phrase).<\/p>\n<p>What a lovely + (noun) + you have!<\/p>\n<p>I like your + (noun phrase).<\/p>\n<p>&gt; I couldn\u2019t help but notice your + (noun phrase).<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5fcd\u4e0d\u4f4f\u8981\u770b\u4f60\u7684\uff5e\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I couldn\u2019t help but notice your necklace. It suits you so well.<br \/>\n\u6211\u5fcd\u4e0d\u4f4f\u8981\u770b\u4f60\u7684\u9805\u934a\uff0c\u5b83\u771f\u7684\u592a\u9069\u5408\u4f60\u4e86\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; I have to admit, I\u2019m a little bit jealous of your + (noun phrase).<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5fc5\u9808\u627f\u8a8d\uff0c\u6211\u770b\u5230\u4f60\u7684\uff5e\u771f\u89ba\u5f97\u6709\u9ede\u5fcc\u5992\u5462\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I have to admit, I\u2019m a little bit jealous of your ring.<br \/>\n\u6211\u5fc5\u9808\u627f\u8a8d\uff0c\u6211\u770b\u5230\u4f60\u7684\u6212\u6307\u771f\u89ba\u5f97\u6709\u9ede\u5fcc\u5992\u5462\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; You have such a wonderful \/ lovely \/ beautiful \/ cozy + (noun phrase).<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u7684\uff5e\u771f\u68d2\uff0f\u53ef\u611b\uff0f\u6f02\u4eae\uff0f\u8212\u670d\u3002<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>You have such a cozy room. Did you decorate it yourself?<br \/>\n\u4f60\u7684\u623f\u9593\u771f\u8212\u670d\uff0c\u662f\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u5e03\u7f6e\u7684\u55ce\uff1f<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&gt; Kudos on the + (noun phrase), dude.<\/p>\n<p>\u8001\u5144\uff0c\uff5e\u4e0d\u932f\u54e6\u3002 ( \u9019\u500b\u7528\u6cd5\u975e\u5e38\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u5316\uff0c\u4ee5\u7537\u751f\u4f7f\u7528\u5c45\u591a )<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Kudos on the tie, dude. You should wear it every day.<br \/>\n\u8001\u5144\uff0c\u9818\u5e36\u4e0d\u932f\u54e6\uff0c\u4f60\u61c9\u8a72\u6bcf\u5929\u7e6b\u7684\u3002<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\u85dd\u8853<\/h2>\n<p>\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4eba\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u4e00\u9580\u5f88\u5927\u7684\u5b78\u554f\u5462\uff0c\u524d\u9762\u6211\u5011\u63d0\u5230\u4e86\u958b\u555f\u8a71\u984c\u7684\u5e7e\u500b\u91cd\u9ede\uff0c\u4e5f\u6559\u5927\u5bb6\u4e00\u4e9b\u5be6\u7528\u8b9a\u7f8e\u77ed\u8a9e\u4e86\uff0c\u6700\u5f8c\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u518d\u6b21\u63d0\u9192\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4ed6\u4eba\u6642\u7684\u5e7e\u500b\u5c0f\u91cd\u9ede\u5566\uff1a<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000\">1. \u4fdd\u6301\u7c21\u77ed keep it short<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\u529f\u80fd\u662f\u958b\u555f\u8a71\u984c\u3001\u62c9\u8fd1\u8207\u4ed6\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u8ddd\u96e2\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u5b9c\u8aaa\u592a\u9577\u4e00\u6bb5\uff0c\u8a18\u5f97\u4fdd\u6301\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\u7c21\u6f54\u3001\u6e05\u695a\uff0c\u91cd\u9ede\u5728\u65bc\u78ba\u5be6\u5730\u50b3\u9054\u4f60\u7684\u610f\u601d\u54e6\uff01<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000\">2. \u5177\u9ad4 specific<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4ed6\u4eba\u6642\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u91dd\u5c0d\u4e00\u500b\u4f60\u5f88\u559c\u6b61\u3001\u6b23\u8cde\u7684\u9ede\u5177\u9ad4\u53bb\u8b9a\u7f8e\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u5c07\u6240\u6709\u7684\u9ede\u90fd\u8b9a\u7f8e\u4e00\u756a\u3002\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u5177\u9ad4\u4e26\u4e0d\u4ee3\u8868\u4f60\u8981\u5f88\u8a73\u7d30\u7684\u53bb\u63cf\u8ff0\u3001\u5f62\u5bb9\u4f60\u6240\u559c\u6b61\u7684\u90e8\u5206\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u7a0d\u5fae\u9ede\u51fa\u3001\u7c21\u77ed\u7684\u8b9a\u7f8e\u5373\u53ef\uff0c\u5982\u6b64\u4e00\u4f86\uff0c\u624d\u4e0d\u6703\u986f\u5f97\u5f88\u53ef\u7591\u54e6\uff01<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800000\">3. \u79ae\u8c8c\u7684\u8ddd\u96e2 respectful distance<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u4fdd\u6301\u79ae\u8c8c\u3001\u8212\u9069\u7684\u8ddd\u96e2\u4e5f\u662f\u5f88\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e00\u9ede\uff0c\u82e5\u7121\u6cd5\u8207\u5c0d\u65b9\u4fdd\u6301\u79ae\u8c8c\u7684\u8ddd\u96e2\uff0c\u5247\u4f60\u7684\u8b9a\u7f8e\u5f88\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u88ab\u8996\u70ba\u8abf\u60c5\u3001\u6232\u8b14\uff0c\u9019\u500b\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u5c31\u6703\u5e36\u4f86\u53cd\u6548\u679c\u54e6<\/p>\n<h2>\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/09\/05\/what-do-you-want-to-eat\/\">\u300cWhat do you want to eat?\u300d\u662f\u932f\u7684\uff1f\u548c\u5916\u570b\u4eba\u5403\u98ef\u9019 4 \u53e5\u82f1\u6587\u4e0d\u80fd\u4e82\u8aaa\uff01<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2015\/07\/30\/culture-and-attitude\/\">\u3010\u82f1\u8a9e\u5cf6\u3011I think that\u2026\u8001\u5916\u807d\u5230\u81c9\u90fd\u7da0\u4e86\uff01\u8aa4\u89f8\u82f1\u6587\u6e9d\u901a\u5730\u96f7\uff0c\u63db\u500b\u8aaa\u6cd5\u5c31\u597d<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/08\/02\/12-ways-to-read\/\">\u770b\u82f1\u6587\u5c31\u8ddf\u7b97\u6578\u5b78\u4e00\u6a23\u8b93\u4eba\u75b2\u618a\uff1f\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u662f\u4f60\u7684\u82f1\u6587\u5dee\u800c\u662f\u6c92\u6709\u638c\u63e1\u9019 12 \u500b\u95b1\u8b80\u7fd2\u6163<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u672c\u6587\u7d93\u5408\u4f5c\u5925\u4f34 VoiceTube \u6388\u6b0a\u8f49\u8f09\uff0c\u4e26\u540c\u610f VidaOrange \u7de8\u5beb\u5c0e\u8b80\u8207\u4fee\u8a02\u6a19\u984c\uff0c\u539f\u6587\u6a19\u984c\u70ba\u3008<a href=\"http:\/\/tw.blog.voicetube.com\/archives\/60099\">\u770b\u5230\u5916\u570b\u4eba\u4e0d\u6562\u958b\u53e3\u8aaa\uff1f\u5f9e\u8b9a\u7f8e\u958b\u555f\u8a71\u984c\u5427\uff01\u9664\u4e86 You are beautiful. 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