{"id":10100,"date":"2018-04-03T12:24:06","date_gmt":"2018-04-03T04:24:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/04\/03\/conditional-love\/"},"modified":"2021-06-16T12:22:02","modified_gmt":"2021-06-16T04:22:02","slug":"conditional-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2018\/04\/03\/conditional-love\/","title":{"rendered":"\u628a\u611b\u60c5\u7576\u6210\u300c\u7b49\u50f9\u4ea4\u63db\u300d\u8b93\u4f60\u96e2\u771f\u611b\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u9060\uff0c\u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\u624d\u80fd\u8b93\u5f7c\u6b64\u5728\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u6210\u9577"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-91073 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/08\/romance-1934204_960_720-e1503311774662.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u4ec0\u9ebc\u662f\u611b\uff1f\u9019\u5927\u6982\u662f\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u6700\u96e3\u89e3\u7684\u8b0e\u984c\u4e4b\u4e00\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u611b\u60c5\u4e2d\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u4ed8\u51fa\u6709\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u4f46\u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\u537b\u4e5f\u771f\u5be6\u5b58\u5728\u3002\u7576\u4f60\u660e\u767d\u611b\u7684\u771f\u6b63\u610f\u7fa9\uff0c\u5728\u6200\u60c5\u4e2d\u9047\u5230\u7684\u4e0d\u540c\u554f\u984c\u5c31\u80fd\u8fce\u5203\u800c\u89e3\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\uff03\u6709\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\u662f\u6bcf\u4ef6\u4e8b\u90fd\u5e0c\u671b\u6709\u6240\u56de\u5831<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u9664\u4e86\u4ea4\u6613\u6027\u8cea\u7684\u7537\u5973\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u8a31\u591a\u4eba\u5728\u4ea4\u5f80\u4e2d\u7d66\u4e88\u7684\u90fd\u662f\u6709\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u9019\u6bb5\u6200\u611b\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u662f\u4e00\u6bb5\u7d66\u4e88\u548c\u7372\u53d6\u7684\u904e\u7a0b\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u96d9\u65b9\u90fd\u5c0d\u56de\u5831\u7684\u7269\u8cea\u6216\u611b\u611f\u5230\u6eff\u610f\uff0c\u9019\u6bb5\u95dc\u4fc2\u5c31\u80fd\u5920\u7e7c\u7e8c\u4e0b\u53bb\u3002\u5728\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e4b\u4e2d\uff0c\u96d9\u65b9\u5c0b\u627e\u7684\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u80fd\u5b8c\u5168\u4fe1\u4efb\u548c\u5206\u4eab\u7684\u5c0d\u8c61\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u80fd\u5920\u6eff\u8db3\u81ea\u5df1\u7f3a\u5931\u7684\u5c0d\u8c61\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>\uff03\u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\u662f\u5305\u5bb9\u4ed6\u7684\u6240\u6709\u597d\u548c\u58de<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u300c\u5373\u4fbf\u4f60\u5c0d\u6211\u5f88\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u611b\u4f60\u3002\u300d\u800c\u662f\u300c\u5728\u4efb\u4f55\u60c5\u6cc1\u4e0b\uff0c\u6211\u90fd\u611b\u4f60\u3002\u300d\u80fd\u5920\u7dad\u7e6b\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u8d77\u53bb\u904e\u4e86\u4ec0\u9ebc\u5730\u65b9\uff0c\u505a\u4e86\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e8b\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u4ed6\u5011\u5728\u9047\u5230\u6311\u6230\u6642\uff0c\u5982\u4f55\u4e00\u8d77\u9762\u5c0d\u3002\u5982\u679c\u5f7c\u6b64\u4ed8\u51fa\u7684\u662f\u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u5076\u723e\u4e5f\u6703\u56e0\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u611f\u5230\u5931\u671b\uff0c\u4f46\u611b\u60c5\u4e0d\u6703\u88ab\u6d88\u78e8\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5171\u540c\u5b78\u7fd2\u5982\u4f55\u8b93\u9019\u6bb5\u611f\u60c5\u66f4\u597d\u3002\u4f60\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u505a\u4efb\u4f55\u4e8b\u60c5\u53bb\u8a0e\u597d\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e4b\u9593\u80fd\u5920\u76f8\u4e92\u7406\u89e3\u3001\u5c0a\u91cd\u548c\u4e00\u8d77\u9032\u6b65\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u611b\u60c5\u7684\u771f\u8ae6\uff0c\u662f\u628a\u6709\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\u8b8a\u6210\u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u5b78\u6703\u5305\u5bb9\u5c0d\u65b9\u3001\u63a5\u53d7\u81ea\u5df1\u3001\u7dad\u6301\u5fc3\u9748\u7684\u5e73\u975c\u548c\u60c5\u7dd2\u4e0a\u7684\u5e73\u8861\u3002\u6210\u70ba\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u9748\u9b42\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u7406\u89e3\u548c\u5305\u5bb9\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u6240\u6709\u597d\u548c\u58de\uff0c\u611f\u89ba\u5230\u5f7c\u6b64\u5fc3\u9748\u4e0a\u7684\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c\u4e00\u8d77\u6210\u70ba\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><strong>\u5ef6\u4f38\u95b1\u8b80<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2016\/08\/03\/emotional\/\">\u8981\u5c0d\u65b9\u7121\u6b62\u76e1\u5305\u5bb9\u4f60\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\uff0c\u4f60\u662f\u5728\u8ac7\u6200\u611b\u9084\u662f\u6293\u4ea4\u66ff\uff1f<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/08\/21\/express-emotion\/\">\u5fcd\u6c23\u541e\u8072\u548c\u60c5\u7dd2\u5316\u90fd\u4e0d\u884c\uff01\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u6eff\u5206\u7684\u4eba\u77e5\u9053\u5982\u4f55\u6210\u719f\u300c\u8868\u9054\u60c5\u7dd2\u300d<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/2017\/08\/15\/illusion-of-certainty\/\">\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u60c5\u4fb6\u76f8\u8655\u4e45\u4e86\u6703\u958b\u59cb\u53ad\u7169\uff1f\u5176\u5be6\u6211\u5011\u4e00\u958b\u59cb\u5c31\u88ab\u300c\u78ba\u5b9a\u611f\u300d\u9a19\u4e86<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\uff08\u53c3\u8003\u6587\u7ae0\uff1a<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/600846\/what-is-love-and-what-is-not?ref=category_section_post_17853\">Lifehack<\/a>\u3001<a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/lib\/therapists-spill-12-ways-to-accept-yourself\/\">Psychcentral<\/a>\u3002\u5716\u7247\u4f86\u6e90\uff1a<a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/zh\/%E6%B5%AA%E6%BC%AB-%E6%81%8B%E4%BA%BA-%E5%BF%AB%E4%B9%90-%E7%94%B7%E5%AD%90-%E5%A5%B3%E5%AD%90-%E7%88%B1-%E4%B8%A4%E4%B8%AA-%E6%84%9F%E6%83%85-%E5%85%B3%E7%B3%BB-%E5%BF%A0%E8%AF%9A-1934204\/\">pixabay<\/a>\uff09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u4ec0\u9ebc\u662f\u611b\uff1f\u9019\u5927\u6982\u662f\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u6700\u96e3\u89e3\u7684\u8b0e\u984c\u4e4b\u4e00\u3002 \u5728\u611b\u60c5\u4e2d\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u4ed8\u51fa\u6709\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\uff0c\u4f46\u7121\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\u537b\u4e5f\u771f\u5be6\u5b58\u5728\u3002\u7576\u4f60\u660e\u767d\u611b\u7684\u771f\u6b63\u610f\u7fa9\uff0c\u5728\u6200\u60c5\u4e2d\u9047\u5230\u7684\u4e0d\u540c\u554f\u984c\u5c31\u80fd\u8fce\u5203\u800c\u89e3\u3002 \uff03\u6709\u689d\u4ef6\u7684\u611b\u662f\u6bcf\u4ef6\u4e8b\u90fd\u5e0c\u671b\u6709\u6240\u56de\u5831 \u9664[&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":162,"featured_media":21994,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[68],"tags":[2537,87],"coauthors":[16311],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10100"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/162"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10100"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10100\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36147,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10100\/revisions\/36147"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10100"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/vidaorange\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=10100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}