{"id":17737,"date":"2014-10-30T08:11:17","date_gmt":"2014-10-30T00:11:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/buzzorange.com\/citiorange\/2014\/10\/30\/dealing-with-the-tough-stuff\/"},"modified":"2014-10-30T08:11:17","modified_gmt":"2014-10-30T00:11:17","slug":"dealing-with-the-tough-stuff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzorange.com\/citiorange\/2014\/10\/30\/dealing-with-the-tough-stuff\/","title":{"rendered":"\u8ab0\u662f\u8ac7\u5224\u684c\u4e0a\u7684\u7b28\u86cb\uff1f\u9762\u5c0d\u8077\u5834\u4e0a\u300c\u865b\u5f35\u8072\u52e2\u300d\u7684\u4eba\u8a72\u600e\u9ebc\u8fa6\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u904e\u4e86\u4e8c\u5341\u5206\u9418\u5f8c\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u8ab0\u662f\u8ac7\u5224\u684c\u4e0a\u7684\u7b28\u86cb\uff0c\u90a3\u9ebc\u4f60\u4e00\u5b9a\u5c31\u662f\u90a3\u500b\u7b28\u86cb\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: 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